I don't know how to have fun socially.

[Carlton Banks]

Fun to me is reaching a milestone in my workout, a good movie/tv show/video game, blasting music in my car while taking a long road trip somewhere new, checking my credit score and seeing that shyt went up.

As far as socially, bars, clubs, parties, drinking never interested me. Every time I went out doing those things i get bored after 10 minutes and ask myself what am I doing here. Ain't nothing fun about eye fukking a bunch of stuck up hoes who just staring at their phones and attached by the hip to their girlfriends. I do however like strip clubs when I can afford them. Otherwise... Social fun is just not fun to me

 

[MoroccanBoy]

Why do westerners think the only social thing to do is drink alcohol and go clubbing. I feel sorry for them. What a shyt lifestyle.

 

[Henri Christophe]

I'll always choose chillin at the house with some female company instead of going out to some club or party.... I cant do too much of that fake shyt and small talk... I hate the environment.... Fake nikkas everywhere... Attention whores everywhere


Rather get high.... Pour some wine.... Put on some music...And get some p*ssy


Unless its bout some money... I rather be in my crib.

I used to run the streets alot back in high school... Was always in the mix.... But now i prefer peace and quiet.

But thats my personality.... I'm real laid back.... Never been the super extroverted type..... I always feel like I'm wasting my life when I'm just out socializing for no reason

 

[mortuus est]

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[Carlton Banks]

I always feel like I'm wasting my life when I'm just out socializing for no reason

That's exactly how I feel. It's like you been to one club or party you been to all of them. It's the same boring shyt. I don't care to dance, not a big drinker and I hate crowded spaces. After a party's over I just think of what other ways my time could've been better spent doing

 

[BlackDiBiase]

its your intentions if you are honest with yourself maybe you only like strip clubs because your intent is ass.

go to the park, a gallery, you like music, go to open mic nights and cafes, stop having tunnel vision at these places. the club is only goof for ass.

whats your hobbys ?

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Boardgames, movie marathons with my friends (they've asking what I'm laughing at while I'm posting here). I'm a cuddler, touchy feely person so we push back the furniture, throw down homemade quilts and lay out in front of the fireplace and big screen with blankets and pillows. Don't judge me! Grown ass forts are fun!

Flea markets on Saturdays and farmer's markets.

Old ass book stores with my mom. Old book stores have the really good older fantasy novels.

Workouts with friends. Wine and plans to take over the world. Cleaning up each other's cribs.

Thrift stores.

Tea stores. Cuddling up and watching anime with the dog.

Video gaming. Crossword puzzles. Outfits. Drawing and wine.
Libraries.

Chess with the old men at Barnes and Nobles. Going over friends houses. Doing each other's hair.
Hell I've even been to Dungeons and Dragon parties before. Never knew u had to prepare for em but it was pretty dope.

I don't do clubs b/c I get bored and can't hear people.
I have a few pubs me and my friends claim on certain days of the week and my neighbor works at one so we go there and shut it down at like 4am in the morning. So much fun! Just shootin the breeze and laughing and shyt on some Cheers type stuff.

 

[International Playa]

Everyone is different, some people are homebodies & dont do the clubbing/nightlife thing

 

[Json]

its your intentions if you are honest with yourself maybe you only like strip clubs because your intent is ass.

go to the park, a gallery, you like music, go to open mic nights and cafes, stop having tunnel vision at these places. the club is only goof for ass.

whats your hobbys ?

For real.

There’s a huge difference from standing around in a club holding one beer vs listening to live music at a park walking around or eating at a food truck talking to strangers who enjoy the same musicians

 

[norfwestdc]

Why don't you go skydiving by yourself. It ain't conventional and you seem antisocial?

 

[Curioser]

Best way to bag chicks.... I think you might be going to the wrong clubs, do a demographic check...

 

[Carlton Banks]

whats your hobbys ?

Honestly I don't have any, besides working out

 

[BlackDiBiase]

Honestly I don't have any, besides working out

shyt so you are a health nut, go to the juice bars, sushi joints, often in the gyms there are sign up sheets for group activities like paint balling, etc. do that.

is this about meeting chicks or you just want to be out and about ?

 

[Carlton Banks]

shyt so you are a health nut, go to the juice bars, sushi joints, often in the gyms there are sign up sheets for group activities like paint balling, etc. do that.

is this about meeting chicks or you just want to be out and about ?

A little bit of both, but mostly just being out and about and being a more interesting human being

 

[BlackDiBiase]

A little bit of both, but mostly just being out and about and being a more interesting human being

cool, you're into your health follow that. gym meets, local meets for runs, paint balling, power walking, extend to some yoga classes or some alternative dance class. just go out there and participate with like minded people, it will lead to more chances and a brighter set of options.