I don't know if i was right in telling my gf this but we got in an argument and..

[Sccit]

nah man, she's actually nothing like these other h*es out here. She's originally from Monterrey mexico and the girls there, once they are with you, they become this type of loyal like no other and please their guy in whatever situation they're in. I can't explain this level of loyalty, hopefully one day you'll get to have what i have, some don't in their lifetime

THATS WHAT U THINK LOL

 

[Klyk21]

What did you learn about yourself?

still learning but i know the weight was only a slight issue and i turned into sometthing more to justify my internal feelings about part of the relationship...

 

[Olu Dara]

The irony when she loses weight and ends up cheating on you instead :guccilool:

 

[Sccit]

You're not Black. That explains so much. I was reading this from a BP prospective like WTF? Now I know you're White/Hispanic whatever it makes since. You sound like a dikk but that's how ya'll talk to your women so. You basically got with her knowing you're better looking and had plans to "mold" her. She probably has low self esteem and all cause that's how ya'll like um. But I guess it isn't working out for you.

I wish a dude tell me I better look a certain way or he'll cheat. You'd get those walking papers real quick and get replaced tomorrow. Who says shyt like that? I hope she break up with your superficial ass so she can have someone who appreciate her chubby ass.

WELL, THATS ACTUALLY HOW IT SHOULD BE .. THATS WHY A LOT OF MEN SEEK OUT MORE SUBMISSIVE WOMEN, BECAUSE THATS A MAJOR TURN ON N CLEARLY, ITS A RARITY NOWADAYS. I CAN SEE YOU AINT THE ONE.

 

[Klyk21]

How old is op continually talking about "keeping it real" "I keeps it real with my girl"? She's 30 right?
To he'll if I'm a 30 year old mother with a guy talking stupid like he's with his boys on the corner

You drunk?

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

still learning but i know the weight was only a slight issue and i turned into sometthing more to justify my internal feelings about part of the relationship...

you just weren't happy with this woman?

 

[ndthentherewasx]

You're pretty much a little bytch.

Love or her or leave her.

"Its this, it's that, well there's more but I can't tell you"

 

[wickedsm]

You drunk?

Because I'm a grown woman that's not interested in grown men talking like they're 17?

 

[Turbulent]

But she did lose some. Just not enough to make him happy. He wants a mother of 2 to look like an Instagram "model". But we basically agree. I still think he's a jerk though.

yeah, if she lost some then OP is bugging.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

Mexican rappers are the WOAT.

 

[Sccit]

Time will tell. How long you give her until you long SHORT dikking someone else?

FIXED FOR ACCURACY

 

[Sccit]

wrong

never said i wasn't attracted to her sexually, i just simply said that i wanted her to lose weight, because i checking out other women more than usual and i didn't like that. I want to stop something before it becomes too late. She did appreciate the honesty and tells me it was her fault that she hasn't done much about it, that she doesn't want to lose me. I told her, it's no one's fault, i just wanted to let you know this because this my current state of mind right now and i need help to clear this type of thinking by simply asking her to do something about it. Nothing "dumb" about talking about something that's bothering you with someone.

BRO EVEN IF SHE LOSE WEIGHT, U WILL STILL CHECK OUT OTHER HOES. ITS IN OUR NATURE .. ONE DAY, U MIGHT FIEND FOR SOME BLACK PUSSPUSS. AND LORD KNOWS SHE CANT TURN HERSELF BLACK .. YOUR PREMISE IS ON POINT, BUT THE WAY U WENT ABOUT IT WAS WRONG

 

[Piffiztheanswer]

Send her my way ill make sure she loses some weight

 

[FeloniousMonk]

Sounds like she got comfortable(lazy) in the relationship.

Was like...hey he loves me for me..my physique doesnt matter anymore.

When you busted her out and she was like, Im, sorry, I dont have time, where all excuses and cop outs.

She knew she was eating fukked up and not working out on purpose...for the simple fact she would have asked to workout with you or help remove the weight.

Now imagine if you never checked her and she continued same her routine.

Shed be a cute chick with gut...thats not so cute...

Take this as a red flag if you plan on developing a long term relationship and get married.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

WELL, THATS ACTUALLY HOW IT SHOULD BE .. THATS WHY A LOT OF MEN SEEK OUT MORE SUBMISSIVE WOMEN, BECAUSE THATS A MAJOR TURN ON N CLEARLY, ITS A RARITY NOWADAYS. I CAN SEE YOU AINT THE ONE.

Nah I don't let people threaten me or put me down. If that's how you roll then you should be avoided.