I dont really feel bad when wives who "let themselves go" get cheated on...

[Scustin Trillberlake]

Petraues is an excellent example of hypergamy and beta providing all rolled into one. He is really not that attractive of a man, yet he had two decent looking career women wanting to fukk him, simply because he is a high status Military commander. Yet, these same women have cost him his career because he was not Alpha enough with women to handle the situation.

He is a complete Career Alpha(the reason why the women wanted to fukk him in the first place) and his military record is amazing, but, he is a relationship beta, thats why two women have successfully flushed his life's work/service down the drain.

For anyone that doesn't believe what we talk about in the "quick little gems" thread, you better start to wake up. This is some basic instructions before leaving earth type shyt right here.

 

[Malta]

Yup,lets not act like bytches dont do this shyt too

My boy letting himself go a little lately and got a gut and his wife losing weight and workign out the past year and lately she been touchy feely with me playing footsie and shyt

He lucky im only a scumbag to non friends women but if he continue down this road she gonna fukk an in shape nikka with a good back and it gonna be his fault

fukk all that loyalty and were friends shyt wheres the loyalty in lettign yourself go and not beign attractive to your parnter?

Nobody can fukk somebody that they vomit at the thought of being naked with which is im sure the case with this dude

So in turn you gonna deprive your man[or women] of good sex becasue you a lazy bum who cant work out and act like you give a shyt even a little about your appereance?

Exactly, part of the reason you even get to know someone, or they get to know you is because they are initially attracted to the way you look.

It's not like we're living a subsistence lifestyle on the plains of Mongolia and a woman with a strong back & lots of blubber is necessary to live off the land. We're living in a modern world where attraction is honestly the first thing that gets people talking.

 

[FreedS[ohh]lave]

Exactly, part of the reason you even get to know someone, or they get to know you is because they are initially attracted to the way you look.

It's not like we're living a subsistence lifestyle on the plains of Mongolia and a woman with a strong back & lots of blubber is necessary to live off the land. We're living in a modern world where attraction is honestly the first thing that gets people talking.

and this well its more then just looks its something deeper why he did shyt is nonsense it is about LOOKS

My boys wife love him more them anyhting the way she look at him and talk about him and what type of dude he is but this has nothing to do with that this shyt is laws of the primal jungle

She about to fukk another nikka and possibly ruin the love of her life strcitly off animal lust that you need for sex, its that real this attraction shyt

 

[kevm3]

on that point of 'do you want your woman to leave you if you lose your job'? That's not even something that should have to be asked. A lot of women will bail out on a negro real quick if he lost his job.

A woman will leave you for not providing enough... but what's even more of a trip is she will leave/cheat on you if you provide TOO much lol

look at how them negroes who pay for their woman's schooling get treated.

 

[Hurricane Starang]

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Petraues is an excellent example of hypergamy and beta providing all rolled into one. He is really not that attractive of a man, yet he had two decent looking career women wanting to fukk him, simply because he is a high status Military commander. Yet, these same women have cost him his career because he was not Alpha enough with women to handle the situation.

He is a complete Career Alpha(the reason why the women wanted to fukk him in the first place) and his military record is amazing, but, he is a relationship beta, thats why two women have successfully flushed his life's work/service down the drain.

For anyone that doesn't believe what we talk about in the "quick little gems" thread, you better start to wake up. This is some basic instructions before leaving earth type shyt right here.

Honestly, you all need to stop throwing this Alpha, Beta, shyt around. It's sounds so and forced. That shyt spoilin' y'all mind.

Obviously, but you're not about to wife up some ugly chick with a great personality who holds you down, are you? It's all about finding the right combination, in this instance he completely neglected looks. It's not like this woman was a solid 6 or 7 when they got together and aged into that, she was unattractive/plain to begin with.

Again, this is a HORRIBLE comparison.

Not initially being attracted to someone and therefore not starting the relationship in the first place does not equal falling in love with someone, dedicating your life to them, starting a life and family with them for 38 years, growing into each others lives, and having them dedicate their life to you only to throw it away after all that time because of looks.

What you are saying is that everything you have built with a person over a lifetime means nothing because of 1 thing and that you are willing to throw it away for such. It's fickle and that doesn't even make sense when you speak such. To be 60 and single, getting back out into the dating game and you reason for such is that your wife didn't look good anymore? What exactly are you expecting to out and find at that age? To be a sugar daddy and squander your finances to a young chick who doesn't give a fukk about you? Another 60 year old who looks the same as your wife who doesn't give a fukk about it?

YOU find her looks unattractive. That does not make her such, then or now, in his eyes. Also, like others have said, at that age you don't cheat on someone because of the way they look. Pretty faces are a dime a dozen then. He spent a lot of time away from his wife his whole career. This is probably just the first time he has been caught.

 

[MikelArteta]

Can't condone cheating on a faithful woman


Alot of army wives are Slores she wasn't

 

[Silver Surfer]

He wanted it to be one way -

But it's the other way -

Cold Blooded

 

[Soundbwoy]

Can't condone cheating on a faithful woman


Alot of army wives are Slores she wasn't

my nikka reincar is changing on us

she prolly knew he had a side piece most women this age accept this type of behavior but now it has gone public she will most likely divorce him

 

[Soundbwoy]

come on dude
so you mean to tell me ....you're a 60 year old man married 30 years to a great woman that you adore that's held you down ..raised your kids and kept herself looking like this for you (see below) and you're not gonna wanna beat it out frame every night?

she's 72 years old in that pic btw .....

if my future wife looks like that at 72yrs old a restraining order couldnt keep me away from her p*ssy

 

[opulence]

on that point of 'do you want your woman to leave you if you lose your job'? That's not even something that should have to be asked. A lot of women will bail out on a negro real quick if he lost his job.

A woman will leave you for not providing enough... but what's even more of a trip is she will leave/cheat on you if you provide TOO much lol

look at how them negroes who pay for their woman's schooling get treated.

That's why men need to look at their woman's character...I've never left a man for loss of a job...but I will eventually leave if he stops making an effort...

 

[DaChampIsHere]

That's why men need to look at their woman's character...I've never left a man for loss of a job...but I will eventually leave if he stops making an effort...

Even so, that is still not the same as this. It's in a man's natural instinct/biology to be a provider. The value we have placed on a woman's looks is strictly societally driven, meaning it's a complete social construct. The need a man feels to provide for his family and the need a woman has for security/protection will never go away. Looks? The media could change people's perception what's considered "attractive" or not within 5-10 years. There are tribes in Africa where bigger women are seen more beautiful. There's no tribe where men aren't seen/expected to be the ultimate providers, because it's an innate thing. The concept of beauty is a man made social construct.

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Honestly, this just goes back to the idea that men love hoes.

Grown ass men are really in here saying they'd betray a good person they've chosen to make a commitment to over a lifetime for a couple nuts with a pretty face?

And then you all wonder why a lot of women are dirty. What is their motivation to do right by men, when y'all have made it clear that a pretty face is the end all be all of a relationship? Piety means nothing. Committment means nothing. And then you all want to claim you are not simps, yeah right. You'll get mad if woman are vain, if they use their looks to get what they want, etc. but at the end of the day that's all you care about anyway. I'd have to guess that most things typed on here are just convenient banter.

Threads like this make me fully understand why some women are gold diggers, why they use men, etc. Because if they know at the end of the day that their personality traits and commitment doesn't matter when they get to a certain age and that it's all about looks, what's the point in even starting down that road with a man?

Dudes are in here vilifying a faithful woman who supported her husband through out his whole career because of her looks. All while saying nothing about this whore of a woman (who cheated on her own husband and family, btw) and in a sense "praising" her for her appearance, and ability to draw a man out of his marriage, by placing her above a woman who is actually a good person.

I seriously hope y'all brehs don't get married/pick women with this mentality.

 

[spliz]

1) Yea she talks to him about it, but he's lazy. He works out when he wants to. They workout sometimes together, but not enough for her.

2) Trust me. I know her. She aint the type to cheat. She talks about marrying the guy, but wishes he wasnt so lazy.

i dont know whats so hard to understand about wanting your S/O to maintain their shape? If I can work fulltime, go to school full time, and still hit the gym four times a week, she should too. Like that poster posted that old black woman whos still getting it in. old lady a thousand years old and prolly in better shape than 90% of you on here

Nah .I just dont think its cool for his girl to be talkin to the next nikka about his appearance and what he does wrong...thats their personal relationship shyt and u said she was ur coworker...not friend or any of that shyt...imo that shyt should stay between them...theres no problem with wantin ur S/O to work out...

 

[sixsixtwo]

 

[BillBanneker]

Im not gonna post Petraeus wife....just seems disrespectful


But, lets say that happened to you? You ended up real successful, you still on point, you still work out, you still look good for your age, while your wife is pretty much


Could you live with that?


We always criticize these powerful men for creeping with their mistress but, when I see their wives, I'm like

She was busted even when they were younger

Petraeus just said fukk it, yolo