I don’t understand why there are so many incels in this era of online dating

[CarmelBarbie]

ehhh thats not whats going on out here.

Not sure how old you are...but the game changes a lot when you get into your mid 30s.

Watching friends get divorced is crazy...
...watching dudes get bent over with child support, and alimony...

The number of married women out there creeping on their husbands

These broads will tell you all about their relationship too

anyone still trying to sell men on getting married the same way they were 30 years ago is selling a dream.

re: men not being able to get laid.
Its different for different age groups.
Im in my late 30's...and you can basically order a new woman like you order a pizza.

I have a buddy that is easily 350lbs...but he has a really fun personality...
...dude stays with a new girl.

I imagine its different for brehs in their 20s who are forced to go online because of Covid, etc...

I would say to them...get your shyt together and focus on yourself.
because its not uncommon a breh like me is hitting your 20 something year old girlfriend on the sly because going out to dinner at a nice place aint a big deal.


For me online dating is just some side shyt...
...the amount of work you need to do for some of these bytches is

I enjoy my hobbies, making money, and working out more than I do chasing some ass.
At this stage in my life getting married doesnt make sense...

What exactly do I get in the situation?
Im supposed to hold down a household and also let her do whatever she wants and be independent...
...and if the relationship fails I gotta pay her to go away.

Nahh, im good

No it’s definitely what’s going on here. I’m not sure how the top part of your post connects to Brehs who desire easy casual sex but are struggling to get that despite having a medium like online dating(which was the premise of this thread).

This isn’t about marriage or relationships, this is about Brehs who want casual sex and are have challenges getting that via online dating.

Brehs in their thirties use online apps too—they are in this thread speaking on the same challenges as Brehs in their twenties. Regardless of those you know who are eating off the apps, studies and reports also verify that more or less, regardless of the age group, the average man is not eating off online dating apps.

Of course there are going to be *some* Brehs who are eating, in which none of this applies because clearly they are not an incel or struggling to get some lol.

That is why I proposed that Brehs stop doing it and they just meet women organically. And if they struggle, I propose that they just pay for it(which is the easiest surefire strategy).

 

[Standing on business]

Variations of this topic keep getting made and each one is always long smh. Based on that a lot of Brehs are going out bad, not getting p*ssy or relationships.

It seems like the dating game largely favors the average woman versus the average man, which is why some of you turn to red pill or YouTube dating gurus who rail on the issues of the “modern women”and the frustrations y’all feel in today’s dating market. But things aren’t improving and I recall reading a study that there are more single man now than single women. There are less men having sex than women. A lot of Brehs have focused on narratives about lonely single women growing old with only her cats but if we keeping it real a growing portion of Brehs are in that same boat based on trends.

So my thoughts is if the only mechanism y’all use to get women is online dating which doesn’t really work out as well for men… and the main source of advice or places y’all go to to vent and express frustration are echo chambers that aren’t even improving the dating landscape for you and really only makes you even more frustrated about women, then y’all gotta stop while your ahead.

Stop online dating. Stop consuming negative shyt.
Consume more positive shyt, focus on hobbies and bettering yourself—those things are within your control. Keep your eye on only focusing on things that improve your life. Approach women when your out, through family and friends, through meet up groups or hobbies.

Gospel

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

No it’s definitely what’s going on here. I’m not sure how the top part of your post connects to Brehs who desire easy casual sex but are struggling to get that despite having a medium like online dating(which was the premise of this thread).

This isn’t about marriage or relationships, this is about Brehs who want casual sex and are have challenges getting that via online dating.

Brehs in their thirties use online apps too—they are in this thread speaking on the same challenges as Brehs in their twenties. Studies and reports also verify that more or less, regardless of the age group, the average man is not eating off online dating apps.

Of course there are Brehs who are eating, in which none of this applies because clearly they are not an incel or struggling to get some lol.

I myself have never used online dating but I have many friends who use it regularly and have a rotating door of men. They are all in their late twenties through late thirties. Some of them have gotten into relationships from apps, some have gotten fwbs because they don’t want relationships, and some of them are struggling to find what they want. But they have a lot of men who match with them, which means they end up rejecting more men than they match with and they are as responsive to every man that they do match with, because of the number of options.

they are more likely to swipe and be responsive if the man is very attractive with a decent job. They are less likely when he isnt as attractive, tall, or doesn’t have a job title that seems somewhat stable or lucrative. they feel they can be pickier since there are always some men who match or swipe their profiles each day.
This is me keeping it real with y’all lol.

That’s why I advise Brehs who aren’t doing well with online dating to just stop doing it. I proposed that they just meet women organically. And if they struggle, I propose that they just pay for it(which is the easiest surefire strategy).

Thread is about incels, nikkas who ain't getting p*ssy or any type of long term relationships

Tricking, with hoes and regular women, is not for everybody

If u hopping in regular womens inbox and going $$$() it takes a particular set of skills to deal with her on regular basis

And if they ain't got much experience, they ain't fit to go to war

The straight up marines whores in the classifieds won't give the nikka an emotional connection, unless you're @skeetsinternal

I'm not saying don't trick, but it's not a casual thing, and it's easy to get addicted to

I actually think nikkas who can't get laid should get some hobbies/goals and focus on that

Not in focus of finding a women but just to get as much life experience as you can

If there's shyt you always wanted to to do but never did, do it

 

[CarmelBarbie]

In all fairness, I think a lot of people having these issues are the ones who stick to strictly online dating.

Sometimes the easiest route is the most difficult

Probably true. I’ve never done online dating. But I recognize that a lot of Brehs and brehettes use it as their main route. Some of my girls have had success from the apps. And I have read that a growing number of relationships and even marriages form from apps. But obviously there are Brehs and brehettes that don’t do well with the dating apps, so continuing to use that as their only dating route is a recipe for frustration and disappointment.

their better off just getting off the apps or at least finding other ways to meet women.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Probably true. I’ve never done online dating. But I recognize that a lot of Brehs and brehettes use it as their main route. Some of my girls have had success from the apps. And I have read that a growing number of relationships and even marriages form from apps. But obviously there are Brehs and brehettes that don’t do well with the dating apps, so continuing to use that as their only dating route is a recipe for frustration and disappointment.

their better off just getting off the apps or at least finding other ways to meet women.

Most men who have trouble dating have trouble because they don't have a social circle

 

[JQ Legend]

No it’s definitely what’s going on here. I’m not sure how the top part of your post connects to Brehs who desire easy casual sex but are struggling to get that despite having a medium like online dating(which was the premise of this thread).

This isn’t about marriage or relationships, this is about Brehs who want casual sex and are have challenges getting that via online dating.

Brehs in their thirties use online apps too—they are in this thread speaking on the same challenges as Brehs in their twenties. Regardless of those you know who are eating off the apps, studies and reports also verify that more or less, regardless of the age group, the average man is not eating off online dating apps.

Of course there are going to be *some* Brehs who are eating, in which none of this applies because clearly they are not an incel or struggling to get some lol.

That is why I proposed that Brehs stop doing it and they just meet women organically. And if they struggle, I propose that they just pay for it(which is the easiest surefire strategy).

Yea I suggested this months ago, that brehs who don’t eat from online dating just completely leave it alone.

Instead it’s the opposite, paying the apps for better chances

If you not eating off the free version of tinder, spending money on it will not change that.

A lot of women use online dating for an ego boost while men use it for casual sex, neither side giving a fukk what the other has to gain from giving them what they want.

If all brehs unsatisfied with online dating left it alone completely, I think that would eventually lead to a better dating atmosphere for all. People would be forced to cultivate real life social skills.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Thread is about incels, nikkas who ain't getting p*ssy or any type of long term relationships

Tricking, with hoes and regular women, is not for everybody

If u hopping in regular womens inbox and going $$$() it takes a particular set of skills to deal with her on regular basis

And if they ain't got much experience, they ain't fit to go to war

The straight up marines whores in the classifieds won't give the nikka an emotional connection, unless you're @skeetsinternal

I'm not saying don't trick, but it's not a casual thing, and it's easy to get addicted to

I actually think nikkas who can't get laid should get some hobbies/goals and focus on that

Not in focus of finding a women but just to get as much life experience as you can

If there's shyt you always wanted to to do but never did, do it

I’m not talking about tricking regular woman. Just pay a sex worker and be done with it lol. Those women need money and Brehs need sex=mutually beneficial.
if Brehs are seeking more than sex, I offered a solution: meet woman organically. Not on some “I’m just going to holler at every woman today that I see while I’m out” lol. I’m talking about while your engaged in a hobby, doing something you love, or at a social scene that is relaxing and is that type of environment.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

I’m not talking about tricking regular woman. Just pay a sex worker and be done with it lol. Those women need money and Brehs need sex=mutually beneficial.
if Brehs are seeking more than sex, I offered a solution: meet woman organically. Not on some “I’m just going to holler at every woman today that I see while I’m out” lol. I’m talking about while your engaged in a hobby, doing something you love, or at a social scene that is relaxing and is that type of environment.

I wish I was tricking in thr glory days of backpage
I used to look when I was in my early 20s on somebut never took the dive
It was some bad bbw bytches on there too

 

[The ADD]

Yea I suggested this months ago, that brehs who don’t eat from online dating just completely leave it alone.

Instead it’s the opposite, paying the apps for better chances

If you not eating off the free version of tinder, spending money on it will not change that.

A lot of women use online dating for an ego boost while men use it for casual sex, neither side giving a fukk what the other has to gain from giving them what they want.

If all brehs unsatisfied with online dating left it alone completely, I think that would eventually lead to a better dating atmosphere for all. People would be forced to cultivate real life social skills.

That’s the part I don’t understand. Online dating should lead to real life dating. If you can transition one to the other then approaching offline isn’t bound to be much better

 

[JQ Legend]

That’s the part I don’t understand. Online dating should lead to real life dating. If you can transition one to the other then approaching offline isn’t bound to be much better

Nah breh, online dating is mostly women looking for ego boosts and men hoping swiping will lead to getting laid.

Not saying that don’t exist in real life, but cultivating real life social skills will have a much better outcome than having to stand out from the 100 or so other dudes in her inbox

 

[The ADD]

Nah breh, online dating is mostly women looking for ego boosts and men hoping swiping will lead to getting laid.

Not saying that don’t exist in real life, but cultivating real life social skills will have a much better outcome than having to stand out from the 100 or so other dudes in her inbox

I Disagree. Having to stand out is part of that process. When you do connect it’s supposed to transition to real life interaction. I’m not saying only online date but it “should” be another route to meet people

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

A new city can do wonders for brehs that live in small ass cities

 

[JQ Legend]

I Disagree. Having to stand out is part of that process. When you do connect it’s supposed to transition to real life interaction. I’m not saying only online date but it “should” be another route to meet people

Im not saying all men should get off it. I specifically said the ones who have been trying and failing. Or even those who have had luck but are still overall unhappy with it.

If you happy with your online dating experience, by all mean, continue. But I’m pretty sure majority of people with dating apps profiles are miserable because of them.

 

[semicko82]

These nikkas lack confidence

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Most women will take good looking over confidence anyday

 

[the bossman]

What average and below Brehs want is to get sex easily, the same way they see very attractive or “bad boy” Brehs. but those Brehs are only getting it easily because they offered or had something extra that made the arrangement mutually beneficial.

Brehs who are struggling to get it through tinder or other apps are better off just paying for it but they don’t want to. But they can’t force women from dating apps to be their cum bucket if the women don’t see a benefit. I mean why would she lol?

brehette not holding anything back