I'm making the same mistakes as you when it comes to relationships...just making small things a big deal and I have people whose opinion I respect give me the real and I appreciate it. Even if you felt he was cheating, with no proof, all you had to do was sit down and a have a convo with him but don't leave the relationship (I do the same thing). It's hard though but if you fukk up enough times you'll get it right...if you really want a relationship.ure right!
I swear you guys' honest opinions are really helping me alot.
This is why I still have faith in TLR.
I can't get these types of answers from my friends.
I dumped/got dumped brehs & brehettes! :damn:
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Marty so you fukked shyt up with ole boy 
@Marty Kaan
it just started tho
lemme read this whole thread.....
@Marty Kaan it just started tho
lemme read this whole thread.....
Was he a nice guy?
If yes he will come around
If yes he will come around
Y'all started off with distrust and cheating accusations in one week.
It's no surprise that the relationship landed in the bushes
It's no surprise that the relationship landed in the bushes
I tried having sit downs and have a convo with him but he always told me that i was making something out of nothing and joked his way out of it.
I really didnt have any proof like that tbh..
I have officially fell in love with 4 different men and have officially fukked up/got fukked over in all 4 relationships.
I'm just adding notches on my belt..
Marty so you fukked shyt up with ole boy
it just started tho
lemme read this whole thread.....
Yes...yes i did, breh
He was a nice guy to me but he came off as an a$$hole at times towards other people.
Y'all started off with distrust and cheating accusations in one week.
It's no surprise that the relationship landed in the bushes
YES IN ONE WEEK!!
That was a red flag right there! But im a sucker for love.
and you're surprised you landed in the bushes?
I jumped right into a relationship about a month ago.
I accused him of not being honest with me twice at the beginning of the week!
When whole time he was being honest and faithful...
He was going through a bunch of personal issues and instead of me being there for him, i just added onto his issues like a spoiled brat yall!
Although he did accuse me of always going out at night and more than likely talking to other men but I wasnt. Which I promised to him. That was during the first week of us dating.
Then I got to accusing him and shyt once he dipped out on me for a whole week.
It was going well until i let my insecurities get the best of me and I broke it off with him via a text message!!
He didnt respond like i thought he would though, he completely cut my ass off. (starts playin k camp-cut her off)
i called him and left a voicemail plus paragraph long texts with no response. (ether burnt thru my soul slowly)
I have officially fukked up 2 relationships in a matter of one year.....
something is wrong with me.
If he was really feelin me, he wouldnt have ignored me and cut me off just like that!
I called the nikka from a different number and another chick picked up brehs!!!
Thats what I get for rushing into a relationship though brehs...im getting too old for these types of moves and antics.
"blowin up a nikka phone, what i tell ya ass bout that?"
damn fam
should have trusted yo nikka now you gots no man. Maybe sum koolaid down ya throat will make you feel better
yep
I cant even remember the last time i took this big of an L
Ima good sport tho...just had to vent.
watermelon, lemonade, tropical punch, and strawberry mixed kool aid?damn fam
@Marty Kaan just read the whole of this thread...
Okay you fukked up real bad but I'm not gonna go on about that cos u know that already tbh I don't even think right now you're ready for a relationship. You went in with baggage and trauma and you let that shyt get into your relationship. Some dudes are beta males so they can have a chick do that and just be forgiving. Some dudes don't have time for bullshyt. If his the latter then he is gone.
You did the cliche thing of being insecure, trust issues, accusing him of cheating after a damn week
a week ?!
I'd change my number and run away after that. This is a classic case of too much too soon and as you've seen if u like someone and fall too hard too soon the more u try n pull them close they move further away. You're doing toooo much
I think you need to be single for the next few months sort out your head before u even attempt another relationship
I hope he is more beta tho n takes u back but even if it does this relationship is doomed let it go and charge it to the game
Okay you fukked up real bad but I'm not gonna go on about that cos u know that already tbh I don't even think right now you're ready for a relationship. You went in with baggage and trauma and you let that shyt get into your relationship. Some dudes are beta males so they can have a chick do that and just be forgiving. Some dudes don't have time for bullshyt. If his the latter then he is gone.
You did the cliche thing of being insecure, trust issues, accusing him of cheating after a damn week
a week ?!
I'd change my number and run away after that. This is a classic case of too much too soon and as you've seen if u like someone and fall too hard too soon the more u try n pull them close they move further away. You're doing toooo much
I think you need to be single for the next few months sort out your head before u even attempt another relationship
I hope he is more beta tho n takes u back but even if it does this relationship is doomed let it go and charge it to the game
actually he accused me of talking to other guys when im out with friends during the first week.@Marty Kaan just read the whole of this thread...
Okay you fukked up real bad but I'm not gonna go on about that cos u know that already tbh I don't even think right now you're ready for a relationship. You went in with baggage and trauma and you let that shyt get into your relationship. Some dudes are beta males so they can have a chick do that and just be forgiving. Some dudes don't have time for bullshyt. If his the latter then he is gone.
You did the cliche thing of being insecure, trust issues, accusing him of cheating after a damn week
a week ?!
I'd change my number and run away after that. This is a classic case of too much too soon and as you've seen if u like someone and fall too hard too soon the more u try n pull them close they move further away. You're doing toooo much
I think you need to be single for the next few months sort out your head before u even attempt another relationship
I hope he is more beta tho n takes u back but even if it does this relationship is doomed let it go and charge it to the game
I didnt start accusing him of anything until after he disappeared on me for almost a week. Which was the weekend before last.
I accused him again 3 days ago.
I broke up with him via text 2 days ago.
Text and call him once yesterday and got ignored.
I'm just going to charge it to the game.
The feelings i still have for him is still there but I'm pretty sure with time, they'll die down.
I just really need to focus on Marty right now so I'm gonna take a break from men for a while.
LOL so he is insecure himself
this was all too much too soon, i think he will be back tho. If the sex was good he will be back
I think u need to take a dating sabbatical
hows ur anxiety ?
the sex was great.LOL so he is insecure himself
this was all too much too soon, i think he will be back tho. If the sex was good he will be back
I think u need to take a dating sabbatical
hows ur anxiety ?
First time I ever squirted before in my whole life! (i know i know too much info) but damn...the thought just sends me thru the roof!!!
My anxiety has been at an all time high as of late.