I dumped/got dumped brehs & brehettes! :damn:

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

I jumped right into a relationship about a month ago.


I accused him of not being honest with me twice at the beginning of the week!

When whole time he was being honest and faithful...

He was going through a bunch of personal issues and instead of me being there for him, i just added onto his issues like a spoiled brat yall!

Although he did accuse me of always going out at night and more than likely talking to other men but I wasnt. Which I promised to him. That was during the first week of us dating.

Then I got to accusing him and shyt once he dipped out on me for a whole week.
It was going well until i let my insecurities get the best of me and I broke it off with him via a text message!!
He didnt respond like i thought he would though, he completely cut my ass off. (starts playin k camp-cut her off)

i called him and left a voicemail plus paragraph long texts with no response. (ether burnt thru my soul slowly)


I have officially fukked up 2 relationships in a matter of one year.....

something is wrong with me.

If he was really feelin me, he wouldnt have ignored me and cut me off just like that!

I called the nikka from a different number and another chick picked up brehs!!!

Thats what I get for rushing into a relationship though brehs...im getting too old for these types of moves and antics.

"blowin up a nikka phone, what i tell ya ass bout that? tryna hold suttin? Hold a nikka's nuts "

you not mature enough for a relationship yet...and theres nothing wrong with that...when youre ready you will know...

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

Act like a club hopping hoe then wonder why you get dropped like a hot potatoe brehs....

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

I smashed my old lady on the 3rd encounter, and that was over a span of about 4 days. and we still together 10 years later. so fukking on the first date really ain't a big deal IMO.

S.I.M.P.

Spoiler

Just joking breh, congrats....

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I do want to at least apologize to him .

should I give it a few days and then contact him or should I wait for him to contact me (if he even hit me up again)?

Lol yea, you should definitely give him a few days


Like buddy above said, I think it's a maturity thing too. You not ready to be his, or anyone else's ride or die yet.

 

[Beerus]

I jumped right into a relationship about a month ago.


I accused him of not being honest with me twice at the beginning of the week!

When whole time he was being honest and faithful...

He was going through a bunch of personal issues and instead of me being there for him, i just added onto his issues like a spoiled brat yall!

Although he did accuse me of always going out at night and more than likely talking to other men but I wasnt. Which I promised to him. That was during the first week of us dating.

Then I got to accusing him and shyt once he dipped out on me for a whole week.
It was going well until i let my insecurities get the best of me and I broke it off with him via a text message!!
He didnt respond like i thought he would though, he completely cut my ass off. (starts playin k camp-cut her off)

i called him and left a voicemail plus paragraph long texts with no response. (ether burnt thru my soul slowly)


I have officially fukked up 2 relationships in a matter of one year.....

something is wrong with me.

If he was really feelin me, he wouldnt have ignored me and cut me off just like that!

I called the nikka from a different number and another chick picked up brehs!!!

Thats what I get for rushing into a relationship though brehs...im getting too old for these types of moves and antics.

"blowin up a nikka phone, what i tell ya ass bout that? tryna hold suttin? Hold a nikka's nuts "

I knew my thread had you thinking ma .
Now lemme holla at you DM yo contact so we can imessage n shyt
I'm real these other nikkas isn't
For real tho if you wanna talk, I'm here...

 

[KOOL-AID]

let him vent and gather his thots...then call him

 

[DaddyTime]

he could've still been feeling you but realized you're insecurities isn't worth the headache

Exactly this...

 

[god shamgod]

Y'all both moved way too fast and you sound like you're too immature to be in a serious relationship right now

 

[swimmingpools]

Always being accused gets old fast. If you think something is up observe, observe, observe, and then make your move. Timing is everything.

 

[duckbutta]

I jumped right into a relationship about a month ago.


I accused him of not being honest with me twice at the beginning of the week!

When whole time he was being honest and faithful...

He was going through a bunch of personal issues and instead of me being there for him, i just added onto his issues like a spoiled brat yall!

Although he did accuse me of always going out at night and more than likely talking to other men but I wasnt. Which I promised to him. That was during the first week of us dating.

Then I got to accusing him and shyt once he dipped out on me for a whole week.
It was going well until i let my insecurities get the best of me and I broke it off with him via a text message!!
He didnt respond like i thought he would though, he completely cut my ass off. (starts playin k camp-cut her off)

i called him and left a voicemail plus paragraph long texts with no response. (ether burnt thru my soul slowly)


I have officially fukked up 2 relationships in a matter of one year.....

something is wrong with me.

If he was really feelin me, he wouldnt have ignored me and cut me off just like that!

I called the nikka from a different number and another chick picked up brehs!!!

Thats what I get for rushing into a relationship though brehs...im getting too old for these types of moves and antics.

"blowin up a nikka phone, what i tell ya ass bout that? tryna hold suttin? Hold a nikka's nuts "

It's not a relationship if there is only a week of dating...

I can't even fathom having all that happen in a week...

The first 7 days I'm kicking it with a chick...she getting one phone call every other day...one date (dinner or a movie but never both)...and me in them guts...we can move slower than that but any faster...nah I'm out...

It's also a bad idea to jump into a relationship with someone while they are going through some tough times...cause tough times change you...you jump into a relationship with somebody going through that they might not be the same person you started dating after it's all said and done...

shyt, I had to tell a chick once..."Look I got to take a step back from whatever this is we are doing, cause I am really sick of hearing about your crackhead Aunt. Call me when she off crack...call me when she in jail...call me when she dead...but please don't call me to talk about the umpteenth intervention you had for her to stop doing drugs...I don't know...don't want to know...and don't care"

Not sure if she ever did call back

 

[Sad Bunny]

I jumped right into a relationship about a month ago.


I accused him of not being honest with me twice at the beginning of the week!

When whole time he was being honest and faithful...

He was going through a bunch of personal issues and instead of me being there for him, i just added onto his issues like a spoiled brat yall!

Although he did accuse me of always going out at night and more than likely talking to other men but I wasnt. Which I promised to him. That was during the first week of us dating.

Then I got to accusing him and shyt once he dipped out on me for a whole week.
It was going well until i let my insecurities get the best of me and I broke it off with him via a text message!!
He didnt respond like i thought he would though, he completely cut my ass off. (starts playin k camp-cut her off)

i called him and left a voicemail plus paragraph long texts with no response. (ether burnt thru my soul slowly)


I have officially fukked up 2 relationships in a matter of one year.....

something is wrong with me.

If he was really feelin me, he wouldnt have ignored me and cut me off just like that!

I called the nikka from a different number and another chick picked up brehs!!!

Thats what I get for rushing into a relationship though brehs...im getting too old for these types of moves and antics.

"blowin up a nikka phone, what i tell ya ass bout that? tryna hold suttin? Hold a nikka's nuts "

the beginning of a relationship is crazy....neither party is 100 serious.

my insecurities made me accuse my girl of dumb shyt too.

 

[Sad Bunny]

Always being accused gets old fast. If you think something is up observe, observe, observe, and then make your move. Timing is everything.

yup

i used to do this with nothing to support my claims.

things are better now.

i had trust issues

 

[Ooh Marty]

yup

i used to do this with nothing to support my claims.

things are better now.

i had trust issues

How did u get over it and reconcile with her?

 

[Sad Bunny]

How did u get over it and reconcile with her?

Stop stalking her social media.
Learning that we don't have to text each other 24-7.
Avoiding the negative thoughts.
Stop looking at her phone.


When I'm insecure now, I do it jokingly but she still knows.

I also just realized that if someone is going to cheat, you can't stop it. But I trust my girl. I'm just crazy and pessimistic.

 

[The Unknown Hype]

Why u gotta crack fat jokes when I'm sharing something very real and private to u guys on here?

And you're right...he gave no fukks about me since he had another chick answer the phone (even if it was his little sister)

you hope huh...but 1 month is too soon yall moved too fast if were going by the timeline you gave us then yall went the lifespan of a normal relationship