I feel genuine people are rare in this generation ...

[DMGAINGREEN]

You have a problem with identifying friends. Make your circle smaller and stop socialising with frauds. You can have casual acquaintances but if you hanging out with untrustworthy people then you character is also flawed.

Part of growing up is leaving people behind who are not progressing with you...

Correction "I had a problem with identifying with friends" once I got out I played my cards wisely with people . I know now that life is a game a chess you gotta be strategic with every move you make regardless if its minor , the reason I made this thread is because its more evident to me now than it was when I younger I can detect nikkas fakeness off of one conversation .

 

[DMGAINGREEN]

I just want honesty and loyalty. Soft and hard both have their place in my life personally.

Yeah I feel you , I don't have problem with people being hard or soft everybody is built a unique way , it becomes a problem when nikkas act out of character into someone that they aren't .

 

[CinnaSlim]

Real is rare breh. Everyone wants to be something they're not. Some at like to act bigger and better than they are. Others hate on people who are where they wanna be. Just treat people accordingly and when you meet other real people recognize and respect

 

[Heafcliffe]

I feel ya breh. To go out means to stand around while everyone is on the phone claiming to be "swaggin on 'nem at the club". Gone are the days when people would just talk and genuinely be interested. Many people lack humility which impedes the ability to fellowship.

This is the reason why I don't fukk with many but those I do, I covet. No "fairweather friend" in me.

I holla at folks that I ain't talked to or seen in a min and they seem surprised (damn near shocked) that someone is reaching out to simple say "Hey/ What's up."

 

[Music Fiend]

Idk man , I feel like virtually everybody I socialize with is on a fraudulent tip , it's like nikkas refuse to keep it 100 now a days .I see through all the bullshyt like every bodies character is a gimmick or nikkas wanna emulate what the next man is doing instead of being a leader and innovating . The wake up call for me is when somebody that I grew up with since elementary school snitched on me when I got into a dispute when someone that ended up in a stabbing and I did 2 years , that shyt fukked up my whole perception of life because I was protecting him because his life was in jeopardy & this is someone that I grew up with and chill with regularly and he didn't even hesitate to rat me out , if it was the other way around I would have done the time for him . nikkas in my generation love to portray themselves as goons but when the temperature rises they get mad petro . I know this is a random thread but I just had to get it off my chest . It's probably been like this for generations but I can only speak from my point of view . I'm just remain dolo and accumulate this cash flow because I can't deal with people no more ...

Id love to agree and I do to some extent but I think it's just too many avenues to hide behind and be a fake persona.

The less time I spent on social media and more time around people, the more I realized they are flawed just like I am and are good people. BUt when it comes to reading internal thoughts, seeing pics/commentary, of those ypoua ctually know. It can be cringe worthy.

 

[DMGAINGREEN]

Id love to agree and I do to some extent but I think it's just too many avenues to hide behind and be a fake persona.

The less time I spent on social media and more time around people, the more I realized they are flawed just like I am and are good people. BUt when it comes to reading internal thoughts, seeing pics/commentary, of those ypoua ctually know. It can be cringe worthy.

Social media is a safe haven for soft nikkas to portray themselves as somebody they aren't , you know how many times nikkas tagged me in status talking about when they see me this & that is going to happen then when I see them in the physical they act like they staring at medusa . I don't have time for the bullshyt and nikkas keep wasting my time with facebook shows to impress people when my main motive is to live lavish and make this revenue . Everything is an act with nikkas now a days no type of authenticity . There's a select few I know that don't apply to that but I still analyze the way they operate and play chess to make sure no funny business going on

 

[Wild self]

It's true. I see dudes that talk about bottles in the club and the bytches they claim they fukking

Saw them only a few days later, and they were mad depressed, but still lied on IG talking about making dough in the club and popping bottles.

This whole society is fraud based. That what happens when these kids were raised on Puffy and Jay Z

 

[GunRanger]

I came into this thread thinking it was going to be about someone trying to take your job at work, or trying to slide next to your girl.


but this nikka came in talking about stabbing a dude :heston:

 

[360dagod]

Im a square but I hear all the stories

that no-snitch stuff go out the window real quick when nikkas hear the time they getting

 

[360dagod]

Funny thing is Webster Ave nikkas are known for this

 

[kevm3]

I was 15 though and I was naive to believe that because nikkas was on some oh "I'm a goon" "snitching isn't allow" wave and then when shyt escalated nikkas turned into angels overnight and if I didn't intervene he would have been six feet under , But i'm older and wiser now so I know to let nikkas handle their own conflict .

If a dude is willing to shoot guns, stab, steal, rob, and engage in a host of other sorts of behaviors that benefit themselves to the detriment of others, most of them will have no problem in ratting you out if they can escape a sentence. Look at a lot of these drug bosses. It was all about the 'code of the street', until they were the ones facing life in prison and then things changed real quick.

 

[Rue]

This is so true, in the past i used to think so highly of people, just to be disappointed when i found out that very same person is talking behind my back or trying to mess things up for me, to the point where i was bawling my eyes out at the betrayal, even my own family (aunts & cousins). Then i thought eff it, if i don't put people in general on a pedestal there's no way that i can be disappointed. My dad had a ride or die friendship, somebody that was his best friend since childhood, the man didn't even blink an eye to screw my dad over, needless to say. When push comes to shove, your own dogs can bite you the hardest

 

[360dagod]

I see why nikkas love their pitbulls so much

 

[Dreamzeedream]

I wouldn't say they are rare. But I feel genuine/good people get use and mistreated so much that they are force to change and become selfish

 

[DMGAINGREEN]

Funny thing is Webster Ave nikkas are known for this

Co op city is worse when it comes to snitching shyt is a breeding ground for rodents , bytch ass nikkas