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I'm sorry....but :ufdup: by having phone conversations with a spoken-for chick you've been waiting to fukk.

If I've made it clear that I want to fukk and a chick is bullshytting, there is NO way we're having a phone conversation outside of "Yeah, I'm pulling up now."

Leave it alone or keep at texting, but you can't just feed her emotional attention (which is probably the only thing she's using you for while her BF has his dikk in her esophagus).

Chick has to work on MY time. Never call. Never answer her calls. fukk around and answer texts HOURS or even DAYS after the fact. If she's really bout it, she'll fukk just to get your attention again...
 

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Bro, should have been in there by now. :shaq2: It's damn near cuffing / holiday season. :comeon:

not really because I went on vacation during that time.. and we don't work on the same shift. I was working the case but I wasn't going all out trying to holla. I was slowly chipping away. This guy that looks like Little Kevin from the wire talk to her all the time.. and he was trying to holla at one point in his mind and he was saying she was tired of her boyfriend.. so I used it to my advantage. We don't work the same shift so that makes it harder as well. I treated it as a small part time job that I didn't take seriously. I'm not trying to be in a relationship.. I just want to smash once or twice and keep it moving. this obstacle is irking me though and I just don't want to walk away.. especially if I know I could smash in the end.
 

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I'm sorry....but :ufdup: by having phone conversations with a spoken-for chick you've been waiting to fukk.

If I've made it clear that I want to fukk and a chick is bullshytting, there is NO way we're having a phone conversation outside of "Yeah, I'm pulling up now."

Leave it alone or keep at texting, but you can't just feed her emotional attention (which is probably the only thing she's using you for while her BF has his dikk in her esophagus).

Chick has to work on MY time. Never call. Never answer her calls. fukk around and answer texts HOURS or even DAYS after the fact. If she's really bout it, she'll fukk just to get your attention again...

that's basic protocol. Sometimes I don't answer them at all. Now I'm in straight ignore mode to see where her head is at. She tried to flip it and do it to me and I looked at her like:usure: and kept it moving. She broke first.

But maybe this gossping ass bytch told her I had a girl... :dwillhuh: and that's why she pull back.:rudy:
 

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not really because I went on vacation during that time.. and we don't work on the same shift. I was working the case but I wasn't going all out trying to holla. I was slowly chipping away. This guy that looks like Little Kevin from the wire talk to her all the time.. and he was trying to holla at one point in his mind and he was saying she was tired of her boyfriend.. so I used it to my advantage. We don't work the same shift so that makes it harder as well. I treated it as a small part time job that I didn't take seriously. I'm not trying to be in a relationship.. I just want to smash once or twice and keep it moving. this obstacle is irking me though and I just don't want to walk away.. especially if I know I could smash in the end.
I see, have you tried just be spontaneous and upfront about what you want from her.

I've wasted my time in the past doing sh*t like this. Now I don't waste any time letting a female know, I just want to f*ck no strings attached, if she's with it cool, if she's not big deal, but then I again, I normally "flash"(non-nude) pictures of myself, which contribute to me sealing the deal, but that's another story.

(Sending nudes incriminates yourself, for future disputes.)

Honestly, I don't know what to tell you bro...

She sounds like a bird,

On second thought, it might not be a good look to mix business with pleasure, too many other pornstar looking women out there..........
 

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I've set myself up for multiple opportunites to try again if needed.

:comeon: but you haven't though...that one time you went hard at her you should've smashed. She ain't talking to you as much anymore because she sees you as a hoe and has found another dude to take your potential p*ssy getting position


it is what it is breh. Just take your lower case l before you end up involuntarily exchanging it for a L
 

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When you found out she had a boyfriend threw a third party was your cue to abort or be an ahole and try to fukk instead you continue simping for no gains....L
 

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I need a support system......

It took every ounce of will power to ignore her and not initiate contact. Its been day 3. I won't see her again until Sunday Night

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At this point it's all about control. I'm not in control of the situation like I was in the beginning and its killing me.
 

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This chick at my job been getting close with me since late June. Never said she had a boyfriend but I knew she did because he came to pick her up from time to time. We stayed flirting and talking on the phone at work and outside of work. SHE asked my for my number too.

She been slowly pulling away for the past two weeks. About a month ago she had some falling out with her BF and she was looking to quit him. I saw that opportunity to slide right in but now I guess they back on good terms and now we barely speak. She went from calling/texting me everyday to once a week or some shyt. :snoop: And I aint even get a chance to fukk.

I pulled back because at one point I was going at her hard. I was putting in serious work to get inside but... I knew she had a boyfriend through other coworkers but she never told me and still hasn't told me. She had me feeling like the back up QB that had led the team to two straight wins, but I never got a chance to throw a TD and now the starters back so i'm back on the bench.:unsure:


Now im just in fisherman mode. The hook and bait is out there and if she bite's i'll reel the p*ssy in :steviej: but I'm done being in hunting mode. I had to cut my loses. I came at her honest and direct and I didn't give her too much attention so she's not going to sense that I know she has a boyfriend or anything because I pulled back. I'm going to ignore her for about a week to see where her head is at and pretty soon we gonna be on different shifts so time will tell. But still that ass is :ohlawd: so I can't help but hold out hope:why:

lesson: dont try to wife a chick that has a man, she is going to cheat on you too...
 

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lesson: dont try to wife a chick that has a man, she is going to cheat on you too...

I'm not trying to wife.. I'm trying to have a friends with benefits and the most.. smash a few times at the least.

I was in control and she let me in briefly.. but now the window is shut.. :deadrose: for how long, I don't know. Right now i've put her in the cold case archives until I get fresh leads. :yeshrug: The shyt is killing me though cause shyt was going good.. I was almost there and BAM.. just like that :sadcam:
 
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