I got a girlfriend and the classic problem of hoes popping up started immediately. :snoop:

[NoirDynosaur]

Preselection. Women are attracted to brehs who already have women.

Women will tell you to your face "If he doesn't have hoes I don't want him"

Natural selection is the game of human nature

 

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[Phitz]

OP..

Respectfully, this isn't about ya lady or other women. This is about you!

Why would you post your romantic business on social media if that isn't something you normally do?

Also, if you are a dude who get motion from other women, then you already know the answer to one of your questions..

Some women want men that aren't available.

You know this!!

Also, some women have a need to showcase that they are spoken for. It's an ego thing!

Now, for me...

I told my lady from jump that I do not want my romantic business out there like that. That doesn't mean that she isn't on my social media nor am I saying that we don't interact with each other on social media.

I just don't believe that it is necessary for me to broadcast that I am in a relationship on social media, especially if I am not married. Those who need to know that I am with my lady already know and there is enough of them.

For the rest, I'm not close enough to them nor interested in sharing my romantic dealings with them especially those who rarely if ever communicate with me on these SM sites.

I can't tell you what you need to do, but if you still have a foot out in the field, but wanna appease your lady, then you could set up a separate FB/IG account just for you and your lady.

Add ppl you want on those accounts and leave everyone else including the women that still wanna deal with you on the side on the main account..

Gotta stay on top of things before you blow up the spot, if ya know what I'm saying..??

Leave it to coli brehs to turn a thread tha'ts not about them, into something about them

 

[Geek Nasty]

I think there must be a pheromone and behaviour change that we don't understand that causes this. shyt happens all the time.

Women compete with each other. Best way to win is to take another woman’s man or some other man her GF’s think can’t be had. Friend in college was in some kind or priest program. He said anytime him and other priests went out women were always trying to fukk them.

 

[Commish]

Leave it to coli brehs to turn a thread tha'ts not about them, into something about them

I used me as an example. That way the OP doesn't feel like I am placing judgment on him.

So, my point is..

OP still wanna play the field a lil bit. But, if he gonna do that, then he need to keep certain things private. That's my overall point...

 

[Fiji Water]

I used me as an example. That way the OP doesn't feel like I am placing judgment on him.

So, my point is..

OP still wanna play the field a lil bit. But, if he gonna do that, then he need to keep certain things private. That's my overall point...

nah, I'm cool with my girl. Otherwise I would just keep her as a link. I just think it's strange. How chicks be acting. Especially because it's like clockwork

 

[Apprentice]

Social media...... explains it all....... when they can have you as an option any longer then they can't let you be happy with someone else........ it's an evil world we live in........ don't fall for the trash box breh.........

This

The Bible told u bytches was grimey

One of those weird laws of attraction.

People want what they can't have.

Had an old coworker tell me she wanted to fukk with me even though she knew I had girlfriend. I paused on it because I'm not a cheater by nature. Fast forward 5-6 months, I've since broke up with my girl and then she proceeded to tell me you're probably too fresh to be jumping into something new.

lmaoooo she spanked u

 

[ORDER_66]

Yeah women are weird and competitive asf when you got someone where was all this energy when I was single... had one chick do some weird shyt when me and my ex was out shopping making a snide comment towards my ex to get her jealous. It was so fukking weird.. just little shyt like women trying to get you to look at them and weird shyt.

 

[Menna]

My dumbass forgot about this shyt because I ain't been in a relationship for a couple years. And even the dating I've done has been casual. Like fling for a month or catching up with a shorty when her main on some bullshyt type of time. Regular single shyt.

Aight, so I was talking to two chicks for about 4-5 months. Still casual. One became a dope ass friend and I cuffed the other. Both got big ol butts. Not relevant to anything but I'm adding that to the post. Cuz like, damn. This woman got a textbook donk.

Anyway, after some more focused quality time and outings, I start to see that she's really good for me and we get along. And then it happened...

She asked me to make it official on Facebook.

I don't really use the site so I had no problem with it. And I let her know I'm not gonna start. She just wanted to do it. And since it mattered to her I did it.

Nígga... That first day I had throats and oats that I forgot about hitting me up. And I been dealing with the new BF energy since. Real folks know. Soon as you cuff, chicks just be coming out of nowhere. I tried to get some tamales and this lady was tryna press up on me which is messed up because I really like buying fruit and stuff, but I can't be her man.

I know it will pass but how do y'all deal with this? Why do women be like this?

It’s disorder coming at you. Earth is the devils playground…If your not with your girl either, rest, make money or work on your health

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

Those chicks that's popping up outta nowhere, they don't want shyt with you, that's why they weren't hitting you up before. They're just there to cause turmoil and try to break y'all up. They might even let you smash but then they'll snitch or try to get you jammed up with yo gf.

Even if y'all don't do shyt they might message yo girl or they'll leave hearts and flirty comments on your socials

Just leave em alone don't even entertain em. If you leave yo girl for one of them, they just gonna ditch you or block you afterwards

 

[Commish]

nah, I'm cool with my girl. Otherwise I would just keep her as a link. I just think it's strange. How chicks be acting. Especially because it's like clockwork

I hear ya..

Ya OG post came off as you low didn't want ya business out there like that which I understand because I am the same way( to an extent)..

But, some women need validation which is why they do what you said ya girl did. Good luck with her tho..

Salute!

 

[YvrzTrvly]

I never cheated but damn there this shorty where I get coffee and she so fine all I think about is her

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I think there must be a pheromone and behaviour change that we don't understand that causes this. shyt happens all the time.

Nah, no need to complicate it. Dudes in relationships aren't seen as desperate thirsty dogs and women like that. That's like the ole wedding ring trick. Im not sure if that works, but it has the same effect.

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

shyt happens that way. Don't ask me how.

 

[Neuromancer]

I hadn't had an FB for years. My girl has one but doesn't use it. I have a rule. Social media doesn't need to know more about my life than I'd like it to. I'm not trying to impress anyone.