it'll save you the butterflies, cold sweats & embarrassment .
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and advice were synonymous. I don't need the advice, but I'd love to hear these gems. I'm all ears.Well I said a TIP not advice but just a tip but if yall want some advice...I'll be more than happy to help but you gotta be willing to listen, cause I got the gems
Damn I appreciate your honesty
type contact at the EARLIEST POSSIBLE OPENING THAT IS PRESENTED.
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type response, then go no further and label her as non-fukkable within your web or circle, and hold firm on that as a designation she cannot come back from without a BLATANT display of different behavior. At the very least, she knew what kind of time you're on. She can get with it or move around.
I think I’ve shared before on here. There was once a breh that got out of the friend zone with me. Disclaimer: I was attracted to him, but wasn’t trying to go there with him, was comfortable keeping things as is.
I knew he liked me though. I would always try to play him and refer to him as my friend, to keep in his place, and he always corrected me, like nah I’m not. One day when we were kicking it watching a tv show and he was acting weird. I was like you okay? He just grabbed my hand and shoved it down his pants, so I could feel his erect dikk.
I was in shock. First of all no one had ever just pulled some shyt like that out of nowhere. Second of all he was packing. Third of all, that shyt low key really turned me on.
But to save face because that shyt really wasn’t cool to do at all, I pretended I was heated and offended and left, I don’t even remember what he said but he was very nonchalant about it, like go then.
So I went home let a day or two pass, thinking about that, (I didn’t want him to know that it worked smh, because that still wasn’t a move you pull on a lady) but I was thinking about him in a new light(thinking about that dikk lol). He didn’t contact me at all either. Needless to say I hit him back up. Ended up becoming a bf for a little bit.
Unfortunately my instincts of why I wasn’t ready to be in a relationship with him(and had put him in the friend zone to begin with) ended up coming back to bite that relationship in the ass, but it was good for a min. And he did get out of the friend-zone. But arguably I was already attracted, he just kind of pushed me to want more.
Not saying that works, clearly different circumstances. But have to say just putting that out there probably is the best way, at the very least if she isn’t interested your not wasting any of your time by putting it out there up front.
Not if his packing tho
most men accept friend zoning from women who have no attraction to them.. that's their problem.I think I’ve shared before on here. There was once a breh that got out of the friend zone with me. Disclaimer: I was attracted to him, but wasn’t trying to go there with him, was comfortable keeping things as is.
I knew he liked me though. I would always try to play him and refer to him as my friend, to keep in his place, and he always corrected me, like nah I’m not. One day when we were kicking it watching a tv show and he was acting weird. I was like you okay? He just grabbed my hand and shoved it down his pants, so I could feel his erect dikk.
I was in shock. First of all no one had ever just pulled some shyt like that out of nowhere. Second of all he was packing. Third of all, that shyt low key really turned me on.
But to save face because that shyt really wasn’t cool to do at all, I pretended I was heated and offended and left, I don’t even remember what he said but he was very nonchalant about it, like go then.
So I went home let a day or two pass, thinking about that, (I didn’t want him to know that it worked smh, because that still wasn’t a move you pull on a lady) but I was thinking about him in a new light(thinking about that dikk lol). He didn’t contact me at all either. Needless to say I hit him back up. Ended up becoming a bf for a little bit.
Unfortunately my instincts of why I wasn’t ready to be in a relationship with him(and had put him in the friend zone to begin with) ended up coming back to bite that relationship in the ass, but it was good for a min. And he did get out of the friend-zone. But arguably I was already attracted, he just kind of pushed me to want more.
Not saying that works, clearly different circumstances. But have to say just putting that out there probably is the best way, at the very least if she isn’t interested your not wasting any of your time by putting it out there up front.
