I hate when women say they not looking for nothing serious...

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this is the exact scenario i am going thru bruh, since she told me she didnt want anything serious i was like :ufdup: and started fukkin some other chick too and now she acting like we together n shyt. im like wtf happend to nothing serious:dahell:
 

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this is the exact scenario i am going thru bruh, since she told me she didnt want anything serious i was like :ufdup: and started fukkin some other chick too and now she acting like we together n shyt. im like wtf happend to nothing serious:dahell:

I even told this woman I might get back with my ex wife plus about another chick I've been trying to get with and have known way longer... Basically I let her know I didn't know what the hell I wanted and was all over the place. She was cool. Didn't say shyt. After we started fukking all that shyt changed :rudy:
 

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I even told this woman I might get back with my ex wife plus about another chick I've been trying to get with and have known way longer... Basically I let her know I didn't know what the hell I wanted and was all over the place. She was cool. Didn't say shyt. After we started fukking all that shyt changed :rudy:

sounds like you gonna have to hit her with the :camby:... im pretty close from telling this chick so i can feel free again:blessed:
 

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I think most people are saying that the don't want a serious relationship. Because if we keep it real, if you are fukking the same chick repetitively you are in some kind of relationship, whether its fukk buddies, friends with benefits, or a business relationship.

Here's my theory:

Men and women are just different. A man can find decent p*ssy easier than a woman can find a guy who can give her a decent orgasm on the regular. On top of that, we know how to get ourselves off better than a new man can. So we have to be more invested in sex because we're taking a gamble with each new dude, whereas a man might value sex more, but care less about the partner because its a guarantee he's still gonna get his.
You sure about that :usure:

I would still love someone who was half as good sexually as one of my exes. Me and her were kama sutra partners and would do it everywhere and anytime as long as possible she and I got ours at least two to three times. She was like a volcano when she got the massive orgasm. :wow:
 

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You sure about that :usure:

I would still love someone who was half as good sexually as one of my exes. Me and her were kama sutra partners and would do it everywhere and anytime as long as possible she and I got ours at least two to three times. She was like a volcano when she got the massive orgasm. :wow:

Cool story, breh.

But we're not talking about love and I'm sure she wasn't the norm which is why you felt compelled to share that story.

I'm saying if you chose a new partner for sex, odds are better that a man will have his orgasm, than a woman would. Every woman is different, and women are more complicated than men.

Most women don't get off from penetration alone. And a lot of guys skip or don't give enough foreplay, have a weak stroke, change positions too much or too quickly, etc. We usually have to tell or teach them what we like.

Yall can have wack sex and still get off, but wack sex for us just a waste of time. So while its nothing to find a new partner for y'all, its harder for us to find a decent fcuk.

That makes men able to value the sex more than the (interchangeable) partner and women to value the partner more than the sex, because the quality of sex is depends on the partner. Since, he becomes more valuable, we don't want to share or give it away, unless something better comes along or the cost of keeping him around becomes more than he's worth.
 

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Cool story, breh.

But we're not talking about love and I'm sure she wasn't the norm which is why you felt compelled to share that story.

I'm saying if you chose a new partner for sex, odds are better that a man will have his orgasm, than a woman would. Every woman is different, and women are more complicated than men.

Most women don't get off from penetration alone. And a lot of guys skip or don't give enough foreplay, have a weak stroke, change positions too much or too quickly, etc. We usually have to tell or teach them what we like.

Yall can have wack sex and still get off, but wack sex for us just a waste of time. So while its nothing to find a new partner for y'all, its harder for us to find a decent fcuk.

That makes men able to value the sex more than the (interchangeable) partner and women to value the partner more than the sex, because the quality of sex is depends on the partner. Since, he becomes more valuable, we don't want to share or give it away, unless something better comes along or the cost of keeping him around becomes more than he's worth.

That's why I lick the p*ssy, eat ass and just get real nasty with it to turn her out :shaq: And fukk foreplay... If you tell a woman you gonna eat their ass out that's all they gonna think about up until you get together.


And men value sex because like chris rock said "women get offered dikk every day" while men have to hunt and scavenge for the p*ssy. When the average man gets offered p*ssy he be like :dwillhuh: :lupe:most of the time.
 

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stop creating a forum for females to speak on relationships.
sex, is an act.
just be about the act and you will possibly never hear that relationship shyt.
unless, you open the forum for it.


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That's why I lick the p*ssy, eat ass and just get real nasty with it to turn her out :shaq: And fukk foreplay... If you tell a woman you gonna eat their ass out that's all they gonna think about up until you get together.


And men value sex because like chris rock said "women get offered dikk every day" while men have to hunt and scavenge for the p*ssy. When the average man gets offered p*ssy he be like :dwillhuh: :lupe:most of the time.

stop talking about the shyt, and having all them phone convo's.
you don't have to talk about the shyt.
you get more when you just shut the fukk up.


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Cool story, breh.

But we're not talking about love and I'm sure she wasn't the norm which is why you felt compelled to share that story.

I'm saying if you chose a new partner for sex, odds are better that a man will have his orgasm, than a woman would. Every woman is different, and women are more complicated than men.

Most women don't get off from penetration alone. And a lot of guys skip or don't give enough foreplay, have a weak stroke, change positions too much or too quickly, etc. We usually have to tell or teach them what we like.

Yall can have wack sex and still get off, but wack sex for us just a waste of time. So while its nothing to find a new partner for y'all, its harder for us to find a decent fcuk.

That makes men able to value the sex more than the (interchangeable) partner and women to value the partner more than the sex, because the quality of sex is depends on the partner. Since, he becomes more valuable, we don't want to share or give it away, unless something better comes along or the cost of keeping him around becomes more than he's worth.


you say all this shyt like we as guys are satisified with the females we sleep with.
we just don't say shyt because y'all to sensitive.
plus. Still act like prudes and don't wanna watch porn made by beast in the bed, to copy their flow.
when, we in the internet age and it would be way better sex and more fun.
f me females were sexually secure, but females in general are not.
now, granted the younger Gen is bout it.
, the vets who supposed to be older, are fukking still in general non sexually secure prudes and immature.
so, a nikka has to keep a roster.
a nikka, like me....
if I found a socially cool beast in the bed.
I would ditch roster making all together.
, that is a pipefream I know will not come true.
, for now,...
it is roster building all day.



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I'm passive aggressive. I only talk if the convo has been initiated. otherwise I don't speak on it.


just gloss right over that shyt,....
females like aloof, cause they play aloof.
know when to mirror, them and when not to.
when, they start talking freaky, ignore them like whatever.
change the whole subject, and then later just make a move.


all that talk shyt does nuffin, but create a forum for them to emasculate you.
females are in the take, and only take from guys who open up to get taken.
females, don't give a shyt about what we think, outloud or say to them, Joe.
just be that strong silent type, they all ask for.
if they are ij your company, and they only come in your company if they like you.
females don't just fukk with just any ol'body, just cause somebody said what up.
remember you dealing with a person with slave mentality, who got reparations.
as all females used to be the last enslaved in this country.
they are in the take, and navigating behind double standards that don't even apply on purpose.


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Cool story, breh.

But we're not talking about love and I'm sure she wasn't the norm which is why you felt compelled to share that story.

I'm saying if you chose a new partner for sex, odds are better that a man will have his orgasm, than a woman would. Every woman is different, and women are more complicated than men.

Most women don't get off from penetration alone. And a lot of guys skip or don't give enough foreplay, have a weak stroke, change positions too much or too quickly, etc. We usually have to tell or teach them what we like.

Yall can have wack sex and still get off, but wack sex for us just a waste of time. So while its nothing to find a new partner for y'all, its harder for us to find a decent fcuk.

That makes men able to value the sex more than the (interchangeable) partner and women to value the partner more than the sex, because the quality of sex is depends on the partner. Since, he becomes more valuable, we don't want to share or give it away, unless something better comes along or the cost of keeping him around becomes more than he's worth.

Yeah that's kinda tough. I get off on my partners pleasure so if she's feeling good then I'ma bust a way bigger nut than I would if I was just goin for mine. It's something about sexually dominating a woman that drives me crazy. But most guys don't think that way, plus it takes a lot of time for yall to be fully satisfied anyway so that might be why most dudes don't show that level of patience and attention. Like I said, it's a roll of the dice for both sides but if both sides are mature adults then its no issue. I remember I was fukkin a chick and on the 3rd session she kept it 100 and told me I was wack.

No nikka is goin to just let that stand, so she described what she likes and I just did it and everything worked out I was chokin her, callin her all kinds of bytch and hoe, pinning her down, when I seen how much she loved it I busted such a good ass nut. (Didn't hurt that she caught me with another chick that I ended up fukkin) so yall should be willing to communicate with us on what yall want too. If dude ain't down then play it how you wanna from there, but most of the time it ain't that serious we'll adjust to it or just leave if we feel you ain't worth that effort.
 
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