Yes there are two sides. Keeping in mind i was new in town and this happened 4/5 weeks after I arrived. Support would of been nice for a month or two as ive been more than supportive to them and their children...
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I have a good one. What's really going on?
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The Prince of All Saiyans
Formerly Jisoo Stan & @Twitter
Did you become a 3rd?
Meaning?
Ive seen the kids 2 times in the past 5 months after everything. Again I needed to move out of cold NorthEast anyway so I went somewhere where the weather was nice it was North Carolina or South...In the South housing more affordable, no snow and I had connections. I was new in town and they pushed me away...which is fine...life is good...I posted on this forum for ways to handle the situation...Gave alot of space its whatever now I see them when I see them...damn you taking this whole godfather thing to a whole other level.....my seeds just catch a ball game and maybe go fishing once or twice a year with theirs.....
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The Prince of All Saiyans
Formerly Jisoo Stan & @Twitter
O.G Bobby Johnson
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I stepped back after the yelling from the wife and the husband a week later taking shots and being disrespectful. I’ve seen them 2-3x since Feb.
I was new in town they asked me to babysit twice and I went over 3 other times to hang the first 5 weeks I was there. Then they blew up.
They asked me for support over 2-3 years with the kids and during husbands recovery I provided it I thought I could trust them while I was new. So no I don’t want to be a 3rd so I gave space…I’ll see them a handful of times a year. So I’m not used
I don't think you did anything wrong and it doesn't sound like excessive visitation to me.
However there's information missing in this story. I have a very hard time beleiving the rant was just completely random and then the same person who is crying about you being over is then going to happily let you back a few days later to babysit.
However there's information missing in this story. I have a very hard time beleiving the rant was just completely random and then the same person who is crying about you being over is then going to happily let you back a few days later to babysit.
That’s exactly what happened. I remember. It was a Thursday and she flipped out when her and husband got back from their night I calmed her down and she said “it will take time for me to get use to you being here”. I was scheduled to babysit few days later. I was so turned off I contemplated canceling but I didn’t want to leave them hanging so that weekend a babysat they got back at 1am on Sunday so late I had work. Then within 2 weeks the husband says his shyt. It was all too much for me being in a new area hence posting on this forum to see if anyone experienced this before…
After all this in late Jan I didn’t invite myself over and no one invited me over/they didn’t visit until end of April. I saw them then and again in June and I’m invited to Goddaughters birthday this month. I’m going but we will not be as close as before or at least I won’t think we ever will be. (The wife didn’t know that husband said those things) but regardless I was getting a negative message from both of them at the same time. I would have to be crazy to act like everything was fine. Not everyone would ask for advice but I did….
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and I obviously didnt have all the information hence why I posted this here for opinions, suggestions perspectives...
@Tunez how did you know this was the best way to play it?
I just fully understand what you mean by this. Im not gay or bi so only FFMe for me and I wouldn't do that in someone elses marriage but as Joe Buddensss says
I don't kink shame...
I know the future
Lol… well it’s the only pure way to play it now…
Just asking what in the situation lead you to come to that conclusion? I didn’t peep game soon enough to avoid the blow up. Trying to get smarter