I have a good one. What's really going on?

[YouMadd?]

id never let a male babysit my children. The fukk. You’re really attached tho these little girls.

 

[YouMadd?]

I get this perspective however the first week I was down there she said to come over be with the girls and watch shows with her and all that.

I thought to myself thats alittle much I got shyt to do. So in 7 weeks I went over 6 times. I was following directions and then a switch up is what I am confused about.

Are you a homosexual? Just wondering. I’ve literally NEVER heard of a mom inviting an adult male over to their house to hang out with their littler girls before unless the person was a fem homosexual

 

[Rekkapryde]

This is bad advice. He said the dude's wife flipped on him and started acting like it was a problem all of a sudden having him around the girls.
Fucc that whole entire situation. Dude needs to move on with his life. Start his own family. Fucc them folks and their drama.

I dunno. Had homies in that exact situation (kids bein attached) and it's not as easy as it sounds. They already know breh well and that he's their godfather. That ain't some shyt you can do super cold turkey.

 

[moorfeus]

I dunno. Had homies in that exact situation (kids bein attached) and it's not as easy as it sounds. They already know breh well and that he's their godfather. That ain't some shyt you can do super cold turkey.

Fucc that I knew homies that ghost their own kids after being in their lives.
Those are not his children and that situation is not his problem.
It does seem real suspect though like maybe him and his friend are a little too close. Why would a man be that concerned about his friend's family? Why not go live life and eventually start your own family if that's what you want?

 

[Ricky Fontaine]

id never let a male babysit my children. The fukk. You’re really attached tho these little girls.

I'm not saying you wrong, but all the child abusers I've known of in my personal life have been mostly women.

Don't let your biases get you caught slipping.

 

[Ricky Fontaine]

you guys were right hes not my boy, he has alot of secrets, tried to talk to be about divorce and told him I not talking to him about that...

They came over to visits/dinner with the kids few weeks ago then acted like we would be on that once a week like it was...

TIme and space let me see whats really going down...Life aint ment to be like this...Im glad I was able to network and see the shyt not to get sucked in.,..

Too many women out here to be in these negative power games...shyts corny and tiring...

summers here!!!!!!!!

What's wrong with him talking to you about getting a divorce? Is that supposed to be a secret??

 

[☃ ೋ]

I get annoyed when my family come to my house for longer than 30mins.









But that's all I got for this thread

 

[YouMadd?]

I'm not saying you wrong, but all the child abusers I've known of in my personal life have been mostly women.

Don't let your biases get you caught slipping.

Oh I feel you, I’m just saying stereotypically people are not asking heterosexual men or men in general to watch their children regardless of abuse stats. Most people wouldn’t rather a women take care of their children.

Kind of like how we all know men are better drivers than women however women are considered the safer drivers according to insurance stats.

people are scared of strangers more than their spouse however they have a higher chance of being murdered by their spouse than some stranger in the street. I feel you.

 

[Turbulent]

Only read OP. I know this is a serious story but the way you told it was kinda funny.

 

[Turbulent]

So i read the whole thread. My advice like others have said is to stay away from their family. Hang out with your boy but even with him keep him at a certain distance.

 

[Blackrogue]

you guys were right hes not my boy, he has alot of secrets, tried to talk to be about divorce and told him I not talking to him about that...

They came over to visits/dinner with the kids few weeks ago then acted like we would be on that once a week like it was...

TIme and space let me see whats really going down...Life aint ment to be like this...Im glad I was able to network and see the shyt not to get sucked in.,..

Too many women out here to be in these negative power games...shyts corny and tiring...

summers here!!!!!!!!

 

[YoungSimpson]

nikka get a life. The wife is 100% right. Everytime they turn around you all at the crib. What's wrong with you? nikka moved halfway across the country to be up under them. She had every right to be worried you're either a fakkit or a pedophile. Now this nikka mad because he wants his boy to choose him over the wife.

 

[YoungSimpson]

Double

 

[Stir Fry]

you guys were right hes not my boy, he has alot of secrets, tried to talk to be about divorce and told him I not talking to him about that...

They came over to visits/dinner with the kids few weeks ago then acted like we would be on that once a week like it was...

TIme and space let me see whats really going down...Life aint ment to be like this...Im glad I was able to network and see the shyt not to get sucked in.,..

Too many women out here to be in these negative power games...shyts corny and tiring...

summers here!!!!!!!!

Spill the beans breh.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Smart man. If he ain't cool and being insecure then fukk em.

hopefully the kid wasn't too attached to you.

The kid was young so she has no memory of me being in her life. shyt kinda sad tbh but it is what it is