I have a good one. What's really going on?

[MischievousMonkey]

Everybody has their temperament...

But if it was me, they'd never see me or hear about me again Those 25 years would be on their back, not mine

Especially with no formal apology. That's the cherry on the cake.

I'm NOT getting spat in the face twice

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Negro bush them until them kids need you

I’m confused on why motherfukkers can’t just say what’s on their mind instead of “freaking out” or some goofy shyt.

They both sound goofy for him even condoning it and not checking his wife and explaining the situation to you grown ass man to man

 

[boogers]

lmao

this forum cracks me up sometimes lmao

 

[Menna]

You hanging around little girls breh

Everybody has their temperament...

But if it was me, they'd never see me or hear about me again Those 25 years would be on their back, not mine

Especially with no formal apology. That's the cherry on the cake.

I'm NOT getting spat in the face twice

This is exactly how I feel but tough to give up what was …feels like a lot of wasted time… but I can’t accept being treated like that and yes no apology or anything…she texted me today saying congrats about a Real Estate thing (her husband prob told her about) like everything is normal…I just said hope the fam is well…

 

[One King Menes]

Keep it pushing Breh.

That is all you really can do.

Let them pay for a Babysitter, it ain't your job.

A "Real Friend" wouldn't be "On the Dumb" Shyt in the first place.

When people show you who they are, believe them!

1000% FACTS!!!

 

[Volt]

They asked your help. You helped them.
They pulled this bs.

Sounds like the kind of people I cut off.

Ain't no need for drama over this, just keep your distance.

 

[OperationNumbNutts]

OP

Follow the opening versus from the honorable Busta Rhymes.

 

[Swirv]

Out of respect for long time friend and their family I remained calm. I don’t need them for anything so what to get upset about? I’m just thrown off bc of the 180 change… doesnt that just play out in the future?

If her thinking is fukked why be involved at all? Going over for a holiday or birthday is basically not being involved when considering what it was.

Also them not taking a 30min drive to visit in 3+ months and me not being invited down since Jan is telling when before it was supposedly not a problem. I just can’t trust her and the husband just wants to chill so if she’s upset he will take her side for peace I see the dynamic and it looks like true feelings came out and there’s no healthy room for me.

The facts that years were under false pretenses bothers me as I would if made different decisions…vacationed else where…spend less time and money… that to me is the problem and why a big part of me just doesn’t really want to fukk with them at all and seeing them 3-4x a year for a few hours each time to me = not fukkin with them at all when considering what it was.

Not my kids not my marriage not my problem but one of the things that gets me heated is wasting my time so I feel animosity about that

Sounds like y’all had good times, don’t be mad about that. Like others have said fall back, if they’re grownups, they will clear the air with you eventually.

Focus on getting yourself settled. It sucks that they’re supposed to be part of your support system in a new place, but it is what it is. When your boy asks why you don’t come over no more, let him know.

 

[Menna]

Sounds like y’all had good times, don’t be mad about that. Like others have said fall back, if they’re grownups, they will clear the air with you eventually.

Focus on getting yourself settled. It sucks that they’re supposed to be part of your support system in a new place, but it is what it is. When your boy asks why you don’t come over no more, let him know.

That’s another part of this I thought about.

Being new to area and they made my presence all about her/them…too selfish for my liking

It’s funny strangers can be nicer than ppl u know majority of ur life

 

[Menna]

you

 

[Menna]

you guys were right hes not my boy, he has alot of secrets, tried to talk to be about divorce and told him I not talking to him about that...

They came over to visits/dinner with the kids few weeks ago then acted like we would be on that once a week like it was...

TIme and space let me see whats really going down...Life aint ment to be like this...Im glad I was able to network and see the shyt not to get sucked in.,..

Too many women out here to be in these negative power games...shyts corny and tiring...

summers here!!!!!!!!

 

[Rekkapryde]

Pics of wife?

this gotdamn site

 

[Rekkapryde]

All on her. You were probably doing really well with the kids on a day she was having problems with them and got jealous.

this.


Would still try to keep a relationship with the kids. Kids get attached and OP is pretty much an uncle to them.

But yeah, give them space and only pop up once a while when welcomed.

 

[Rekkapryde]

Check them them the deuces breh.

I knew girl since we were 15. She had her first kid at around 26. She made me the godfather and was a single mom. When the kid was around 2 she met this other nikka who had two kids and a baby mama. They hit it off and he started saying the things she wanted to hear about being wifed up.

I met him when I came into town and the nikka was IMMEDIATELY threatened. He started making ultimatums saying that me and her couldn't be friends. At first she said no then she relented and cut me off. About 5 years later she calls me crying telling me she's upset she chose her man (now husband) over me and how I will always be the godfather to her child.

I was like on the phone. I asked her what this means going forward and she said she's cool with me being the godfather but doesn't know how her husband feels. I hung up the phone and hit the

I don't have time for other people's drama

Smart man. If he ain't cool and being insecure then fukk em.

hopefully the kid wasn't too attached to you.

 

[moorfeus]

this.

Would still try to keep a relationship with the kids. Kids get attached and OP is pretty much an uncle to them.

But yeah, give them space and only pop up once a while when welcomed.

This is bad advice. He said the dude's wife flipped on him and started acting like it was a problem all of a sudden having him around the girls.
Fucc that whole entire situation. Dude needs to move on with his life. Start his own family. Fucc them folks and their drama.