I have a new found respect for Cardi B brehs

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Casual sex with no strings attached? Yea I'd guess it's pretty low because women just aren't built like that. You're proof. You clearly can't handle it.

You're trying to dumb what I'm saying down to women either being whores or wives and I haven't said that. I said that women who have sex in exchange for money are whores. If you're not having sex in exchange for financial compensation then you're not a whore. My point is that some women want to whore themselves out without owning up to being a whore. You're proving my point with all of the deflecting.

You're just lying to yourself though. If it was working like that then women wouldn't be complaining about men not being shyt. Black women have been whining about black men for the last 50 years. The reality is it doesn't work like that. Men don't do for women that they aren't committed to. That's a general statement but it's definitely true. Paying rent and bills for women you're just casually having sex with? I'm not saying that no man does that but the average man isn't doing that and you're a fool if you think it's a good idea to teach women to expect that. You're just setting women up to be angry and bitter.


Don't run around whoring while denying that you're a whore. Don't start non committed casual sex relationships with men then pretend as if they owe you financial compensation. If you run into a guy weak/dumb enough to go for that then good for you. Just don't be shocked when the average guy doesn't. Don't be shocked to find out that there are strings attached to financial compensation either. Some women get themselves fukked up leading men on playing those kind of games.

You're basically saying the same shyt, you don't see sex as an even exchange and you expect shyt in return from men who you have sex with. You even cosigned someone saying that women shouldn't date men who aren't doing anything for them financially. That's basically what the cardi b broad is saying. I'm saying that if you don't see sex as an equal exchange then you shouldn't be having casual sex with men that aren't committed to you. Having casual sex with men in exchange for financial compensation would make you a whore. You're deflecting from that because you don't want to own up to it.

Who said that? My relationship isn't casual. We've been committed for a long time. We owe each other everything.

I said that the person you're in a casual non committed sex relationship with doesn't owe you anything. That's the definition of casual relationship. They're not committed to you so they're not obligated to take care of you. "You're not my girl you're just a chic I'm fukking." That's the man's perspective.


I didn't say that it was having high standards. Women who just run around having casual sex clearly have low standards. The histrionics are unnecessary. I don't have a problem with your opinion besides thinking that they're silly and ignorant, but you seem to be upset at me even having my opinions.

You're the one saying that women don't see sex as an even exchange which is why they expect more so I don't even know what you're going on about here. Sure a man that you're casually just fukking can give you money and do for you just because he wants to. I'm just saying that he's not obligated to and to not expect it.

Sorry I didn't read what you wrote. I'm sure it was interesting. We'll have to agree to disagree for the sake of time. I have better things to do than go back and forth over some shyt that don't apply to me. I think the day spent was enough. :manny:
 

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If women really thought sex was an even exchange then they wouldn't expect anything from men for it. Most women don't even cum during sex.
funny thing is.... most women don't expect anything

most women WANT a relationship and some love and commitment. and they want it before, during and after the sex


just like peter was saying.. once you start wanting money, gifts and MATERIAL things, now you're just hoeing..




now all the sudden we have this SMALL group of women.. who feel you should exchange p*ssy for dinner, dates, money, gifts, and everything else. women for the most part want dates to see what this man is about and get to know them. they want a relationship with the man they like. and they are having sex with him cause they care about him and do enjoy it.. even if they don't bust a nut. lets not act like 99% of women are just faking each and every sexual encounter and are getting absolutely nothing out of the deal


that's that 2016 slut walk type of talk.. "oh i don't cum from sex so take me to ruth chris and buy me tiffany's" that's not most women and it's not even half... which is why broke men still find women who love them... cause they give that woman love back

which is why both these women with peter could easily say fukk him, and get some simp who would give them money money money... but they love him.. and why a lot of women are in the same situation without a check being involved... cause lets not forget, all 3 of these fools is getting a steady check for this. they not on tv looking crazy for NOTHING... they on tv looking crazy for a 100k plus a year... and before that, they was in life looking crazy for free


don't put that gold digging mentality on all or most women... most women are normal people who want love, affection and good sex like every other human being
 

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funny thing is.... most women don't expect anything

most women WANT a relationship and some love and commitment. and they want it before, during and after the sex


just like peter was saying.. once you start wanting money, gifts and MATERIAL things, now you're just hoeing..




now all the sudden we have this SMALL group of women.. who feel you should exchange p*ssy for dinner, dates, money, gifts, and everything else. women for the most part want dates to see what this man is about and get to know them. they want a relationship with the man they like. and they are having sex with him cause they care about him and do enjoy it.. even if they don't bust a nut. lets not act like 99% of women are just faking each and every sexual encounter and are getting absolutely nothing out of the deal


that's that 2016 slut walk type of talk.. "oh i don't cum from sex so take me to ruth chris and buy me tiffany's" that's not most women and it's not even half... which is why broke men still find women who love them... cause they give that woman love back

which is why both these women with peter could easily say fukk him, and get some simp who would give them money money money... but they love him.. and why a lot of women are in the same situation without a check being involved... cause lets not forget, all 3 of these fools is getting a steady check for this. they not on tv looking crazy for NOTHING... they on tv looking crazy for a 100k plus a year... and before that, they was in life looking crazy for free


don't put that gold digging mentality on all or most women... most women are normal people who want love, affection and good sex like every other human being

:yeshrug: Okay breh. I said nothing about money so you can keep that part. You can use 'hope, wish, pray' or whatever I use 'expect'. You can play semantics to try to pretend like we aren't saying the same thing. But most women ain't fukking for the fun of it. You know that. Women want something more than sex b/c sex really ain't that serious to most of us. If we are interacting with you (generally) we want something.

It's funny how as long as she gets hope, promises, well wishes and "love" it's okay and fine. But as soon as she gets something tangible she a horrible whore who doesn't deserve love. Whatever. An exchange is an exchange in my eyes. IMO she in a better position than them with their "love" so. :yeshrug:

I just see it as ya'll trying to guilt women into going against their instincts b/c it suits you better. Like women who hate on booty models and don't "understand" why men like them. Like you said if most woman ain't like that why do you care? Why even discuss it if most women are fukking ya'll for your charm and good looks? Let the hoe's hoe and mind ya business if you don't believe in giving a woman nothing but dikk you should not even be dealing with these women.
 

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:yeshrug: Okay breh. I said nothing about money so you can keep that part. You can use 'hope, wish, pray' or whatever I use 'expect'. You can play semantics to try to pretend like we aren't saying the same thing. But most women ain't fukking for the fun of it. You know that. Women want something more than sex b/c sex really ain't that serious to most of us. If we are interacting with you (generally) we want something.

It's funny how as long as she gets hope, promises, well wishes and "love" it's okay and fine. But as soon as she gets something tangible she a horrible whore who doesn't deserve love. Whatever. An exchange is an exchange in my eyes. IMO she in a better position than them with their "love" so. :yeshrug:

I just see it as ya'll trying to guilt women into going against their instincts b/c it suits you better. Like women who hate on booty models and don't "understand" why men like them. Like you said if most woman ain't like that why do you care? Why even discuss it if most women are fukking ya'll for your charm and good looks? Let the hoe's hoe and mind ya business if you don't believe in giving a woman nothing but dikk you should not even be dealing with these women.
how did you get that from what i said


women do love sex... just as much as men... that's why they have side dikk... and after the club dikk... and fukk buddies... and try to fukk their man... just as much as us

now what i agree on is, women don't cum every time... they might stick with a man with bad sex... but women get just as horny and wet and crave some good dikk too... i don't know what frigid women you dealing with... but that's simple science/biology. women have sexual needs and desires too




but that wasn't even my point...



what i'm saying is... a woman wants to be loved.. she wants a relationship with a man and all that comes with it. nobody told you to be happy getting wishes and hopes... but the MAJORITY of women are happy when they have a good man who loves them. you ask them what they want in a man/husband... they will say things like love, compassion, intelligent, smart, funny, works hard, good father, etc etc etc.. that's normal


saying things like he needs to buy me.... he needs to make...... he needs to take care of me.......... that shyt ain't normal hun.. yes it's an added bonus when you have a husband who is rich and buys you shyt. but what you want out of a man shouldn't be about "what can he buy me girl"


men ain't shyt sometimes too... and an ain't shyt ass nikka will say something like "she needs to be giving me that p*ssy" right off the top. most men ain't putting a ring on your finger cause you got a p*ssy or just cause you look good.. or these IG models and hollywood actresses would be married by now.. they actually love the mental things about their woman that sets them apart from having a fat ass







like someone said before.... those who chase money usually find out the men that want them only want p*ssy... if you was busy chasing a man that was about something, maybe you'd find a man who was about you
 

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is this supposed to discredit pew research? do you even now how statistics and polling works? :mjlol:the BLS, where the dept of labor gets their statistics from, does the same thing. if you learn a little about statistics, there are ways to do sampling so that the samples obtained are representative of the population.


it isn't meant to "discredit" PEW, as you say - it's meant to clarify that the BLS-DoL is a more accurate source bc the access to information is greater, the breadth of data is greater and the criteria is more robust. When I speak about the gender wage gap in the labor market, I source an agency ENTIRELY focused on labor, with the most acces to labor data, not an independent organization that carries out small scale surveys, and produces editorial content.

Got it?
 

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*rolls eyes* Because not wanting a bum makes you a whore right?

We don't accept your labels. You want certain attributes in a woman? We want certain attributes in a man. You don't like it? We obviously don't give a fukk. We don't accept your label because we are not going to allow you to shame us into struggling. When you accept less to get less. You want a woman who wants nothing from you but dikk? Go for it. Peter Gunz can do it. I'm sure you can too. I'm not sure why you even worry about women who want more from a man than his dikks because we damn sure ain't worried about you.


loll right?


men who are incapable or unwilling to be providers try to shame women out of desiring men who are capable and willing to be providers.

they try to frame it as an issue of morality, where you're expected to ignore your physical and material needs, and opt instead for a man who can't help you, and this proves your virtue to men who...can't help you. lolllllllll

throw in some androcentric judeo christian tradition and boom!

soooo many women fall for the okie doke
 
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loll right?


men who are incapable or unwilling to be providers try to shame women out of desiring men who are capable and willing to be providers.

they try to frame it as an issue of morality, where you're expected to ignore your physical and material needs, and opt instead for a man who can't help you, and this proves your virtue to men who...can't help you. lolllllllll

throw in some androcentric judeo christian tradition and boom!

soooo many women fall for the okie doke
the problem y'all seem to have is these women are valuing ONLY that

it's fine to want a man with drive, goals, his own place, a car.... AND you love him.. and you got something to contribute and you want to combine forces


these women like cardi b are doing the opposite... "oooooo he got a car and money... let me see what i can get out of him... hope he can push my music since he's a dj, let me throw the p*ssy at him.... even tho i ain't got shyt" and women looking like "yes girl, it's about time"



nah you supposed to want more than that... and you definitely not supposed to come in from jump expecting that man to just GIVE you some shyt, cause you walking around with a p*ssy on you
 

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the problem y'all seem to have is these women are valuing ONLY that

it's fine to want a man with drive, goals, his own place, a car.... AND you love him.. and you got something to contribute and you want to combine forces


these women like cardi b are doing the opposite... "oooooo he got a car and money... let me see what i can get out of him... hope he can push my music since he's a dj, let me throw the p*ssy at him.... even tho i ain't got shyt" and women looking like "yes girl, it's about time"



nah you supposed to want more than that... and you definitely not supposed to come in from jump expecting that man to just GIVE you some shyt, cause you walking around with a p*ssy on you

think about how cemented selfishness is in your world view though.

Where there's no objection to men seeking Cardi B types as sexual prizes and sex objects to be used and discarded, but it's unfathomable to you that she should benefit - in ways that she wants - from men.


This idea that men should be able to exploit women sexually and emotionally ( almost as a right and as proof of manhood ), but women shouldn't be able to gain anything materially is a double standard that is crumbling.


There are men out there who can offer you love and material well-being, and men out there who can't offer you anything but dikk and dreams.

I'd be a fool to pick the latter.
 

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it isn't meant to "discredit" PEW, as you say - it's meant to clarify that the BLS-DoL is a more accurate source bc the access to information is greater, the breadth of data is greater and the criteria is more robust. When I speak about the gender wage gap in the labor market, I source an agency ENTIRELY focused on labor, with the most acces to labor data, not an independent organization that carries out small scale surveys, and produces editorial content.

Got it?

i don't think you know how pew research works. while they do collect data (using the same methods as the BLS ) a lot of what they do is DATA ANALYSIS. they have the same access to the information and data as the DOL. all of that data it's all publicly available. in fact, in that link the guy posted they actually were analyzing data from the US CENSUS BUREAU. and, as i said, the BLS collects data in the same way with surveys from representative samples, so idk why you keep bringing up small scale surveys like it's not how all data collection is done. do you think the BLS actually surveys every business/home in america? they sample sizes they use are not even 1% of the actual size :russ:

and no, they do NOT produce editorial content. they don't take policy positions at all. they the fact that it's an independent organization is actually a good thing. but it's clear to me you don't know what you're talking about so i'll exit here :mjlol:
 

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think about how cemented selfishness is in your world view though.

Where there's no objection to men seeking Cardi B types as sexual prizes and sex objects to be used and discarded, but it's unfathomable to you that she should benefit - in ways that she wants - from men.


This idea that men should be able to exploit women sexually and emotionally ( almost as a right and as proof of manhood ), but women shouldn't be able to gain anything materially is a double standard that is crumbling.


There are men out there who can offer you love and material well-being, and men out there who can't offer you anything but dikk and dreams.

I'd be a fool to pick the latter.
if you scroll up.. you'll see that i said nikkas only out for p*ssy ain't shyt either

and for that... they deserve each other


what i'm saying is a good man might say, hmmmm i like how she thinks, i'd like to see what she's about and build something.... and she thinking, hmmmmm wonder if he'll buy me a watch


i'm not going to celebrate that.. i'm not going to tell little girls, hey that's what you should be focused on when finding a good man.. same way i wouldn't tell my son, hey go out there and find some good p*ssy boy. i'm going to tell him to find a good woman




i just hate that women are now lowering themselves to be no different than p*ssy hounding men... while bragging about it and telling other women "this is the way to go"

no... it's not
 

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I'm done with this thread.I said my peace..No point in arguing with ignorance..Dont quote me no more and much power 2 u

you a damn idiot and alot of you nikkas in this thread are KENT TV bytch made ass nikkas. Odouls sippin ass faggits

idiots hung on up the thread title instead of seeing a 50 yr old sorry excuse of a man.

dont give a damn if she a whore, the bytch knows it. but this sorry excuse put himself in a position to be called out and rightfully so


again, HE PUT HIMSELF IN A POSITION TO BE CALLED OUT AT 50 yrs old with grown children


FOH!! :pacspit:
 
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