I have a nonexistent social and sex life

[boriquaking]

You right about the withdrawing part…between 09 to 2015 my cousin and brother were basically running the streets everyday and always invited me to go out but back then I was in college and always told them no cus I had to study and prepare for classes the next day…now my cousin is dead my brother moved to Florida (I live In the Bahamas) and I’m finished with school but never distinguished myself socially…Truth be told if I wudda hanged out with them back then I probably would have dropped out of school cus them nikkas were going hard at it..such is life brehs at least I graduated my brother was in college too but he dropped out

Self-awareness is the most important step.

no matter how slow of a pace you move, just create a goal that’s realistic for yourself, and inch towards it.

the worst thing you can do is nothing. Gotta use that pulse towards something thats going to make you happy.

 

[360dagod]

I’m on dating apps and I’m not fukking with no gyms rn…tryna minimize my contact with random ppl

Grandpa at the gym doing bicep curls and you worried about the gym

 

[loyola llothta]

Isn’t Bahamas strict with that COVID-19 vaccination

 

[Luke Cage]

Like I legit don’t go out and have fun anymore brehs…just working and coming home putting mental stress on me frfr…covid dun came and fukked up my whole social life…I need to get vaccinated ASAP

You was like this before covid

 

[Krisrunner2049]

You don't go to the store or pick up food and run into a shorty?

I'm getting at women at food spots, walmart, the gym etc.

You can even hop on tinder but I prefer stepping to a woman in person.

You don’t wait for choosing signals?

 

[SheWantTheD]

You don’t wait for choosing signals?

I rarely cold approach unless shorty is so bad I go "GOT DAMN!"

Usually, all I gotta do is stand there and they start choosing, then I'll go and approach.

And in the gym I'm focused on my workout so I'm definitely not cold approaching there.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Yeah it's pretty tough for men. Get vaccinated and get some hobbies.

If your city has an abundance of Black folks, there's this website called meet-up. Various different groups you can join.


Honestly I think the best thing for men is learning how to do things solo. A lot of guys rely on their crew to go out and get hoes. Once you comfortable being solo, meeting women should come natural.

 

[Leao2005]

I rarely cold approach unless shorty is so bad I go "GOT DAMN!"

Usually, all I gotta do is stand there and they start choosing, then I'll go and approach.

And in the gym I'm focused on my workout so I'm definitely not cold approaching there.

What’s some good choosing signals? Nvr played attention to all that growing up

 

[I Really Mean It]

So do most people during a pandemic.

 

[Monsanto]

Therapy.

Meet up App.