This is a great question OP. I have to think about it more.
I will say I love the ADOS Diaspora and the different history, cultures, speech patterns/accents, music, art, food, etc -- especially LIVES (like mine) it created!
But, I will say that it has made many of us lose our roots or be disconnected from them --- and for many even our families history and traditions. Many people don't even know the deep, rich history we have in the South -- that we should be extremely proud of as well.
I went to Alabama almost every Summer - and we had reunions and family events we had to go to all the time. I use to hate going when I was younger - cause it was boring to me. And my Grandparents or elders in the family were sweet - but stern and didn't play - and didn't have TV or cable.
But honestly, I think many ADOS need to go back to areas where their family is still living - those who didn't leave during the Great Migration - and reconnect. Ask questions, walk to land, learn and just be for a minute if you can.
Don't get me wrong - my Alabama family in Michigan is DEEP -- and I was still raised "southern" but in a midwestern state. Especially, since my Maternal Grannie left my Granddaddy in Alabama --- and all but 2 out of her 10 children moved to Michigan during the Great Migration.
But, when I am back in Alabama visiting family (both sides) -- it just feels different - like home for-real. The smell, the air, the land, the culture, my people, the food.
Just to be able to walk to land, be in the homes, use to pots/dishes, swing on the front porch and go to the church my 3rd Great Granddad helped build and was over -- where all my ancestors are buried behind and we visit every Sunday to give them flowers and say hello.
To be around people who can tell me family stories, see/live in our history daily, be taught lessons, recipes, words, etc --- that was passed down from my direct ancestors is everything to me.
The South for us has fukked up history - but it is also home for me as well. It's the place I run to first when I need to connect and get my mind right.