I have no personality

[TM101]

What do you mean you have no personality? Do you just act the way others do when you're around them or are you completely indifferent to everything?

I'm pretty much indifferent to most stuff, and the things I am passionaate about, I have politically incorrect beliefs, so it's like those parts of my mind don't exist since I can't use them in public.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

X pills and coffee

 

[Trapperman Dave]

We live in an extrovert world fam, im the same as you i prefer to be alone aka being boring lol

 

[toomanydoses]

What do you mean politically incorrect beliefs. I hold alor of them too. Sounds like you might just have mild depression as you still feel passionate about some things at least. You can use them in public I'm sure you could find like minded people.

 

[Dev2103]

We live in an extrovert world fam, im the same as you i prefer to be alone aka being boring lol

idk extroverts always try to define everyone else..of course, so theyll have you believe that you're boring but as far as I'm concerned those nikkas are too loud, needy, and a lot of times insecure..so they have the problem. most successful people are usually introverts anyway e.g. gates buffet etc

 

[Water]

I was like that before I came to college but after 3 years here ive come to develop one. All i can say is go out and live fam.

 

[Matt504]

don't watch porn, it'll only make matters worse.

 

[Trapperman Dave]

idk extroverts always try to define everyone else..of course, so theyll have you believe that you're boring but as far as I'm concerned those nikkas are too loud, needy, and a lot of times insecure..so they have the problem. most successful people are usually introverts anyway e.g. gates buffet etc

i feel like im emtionally unavailable

 

[The Nigerian]

"Personality" is so overrated.

I just want to be filthy rich so I can just get what I want by paying for it.

Having to charm people is such chore sometimes.

 

[sosaa]

I was like that before I came to college but after 3 years here ive come to develop one. All i can say is go out and live fam.

cosign

 

[Couth]

Everyone has a personality.

You probably just lack confidence in social situations.

Best thing to do is go out and practice.

 

[Dev2103]

i feel like im emtoinally unaviable

nothing wrong with being guarded if thats what it is at least until you've had time to sift through the BS

 

[flea]

cant go wrong being funny. watch a shytload of stand up. be open minded. and honest.

 

[PhonZhi]

You have to stop giving a fukk what people think and live life as the full expression of yourself. Getting there is a process though.

Im much better now than when i was younger but ive always envied people who just dont give a fukk. Its liberating. OP you just have to live and gain experiences, both good and bad.

 

[PhonZhi]

It's impossible to not have a personality. All you need is the ability to think for yourself and express your thoughts. I don't care much about interacting with people anymore, but I've noticed that it's easy to be noticed by others when your true thoughts are expressed. You should not want to be a safe person who hides their true opinions and decides to be boring. When I started expressing my true thoughts instead of avoiding it I noticed I got a lot more attention from others than before. Being able to express real or even controversial opinions does draw others in and make them interested in what you have to say. If you struggle with having opinions or thinking of things to say then you should spend more time thinking to yourself. You can develop principles and beliefs about yourself. Also it helps to research and explore topics that you lack perspective about.

For interests it's also about exploring. You have to give things a chance sometimes to determine if you like it or not since every interest isn't going to come naturally. Try to find more interests that you really like and you could meet others who have the same interests and beliefs that you have which leads to more success with socializing.

Great advice. Specifically the "opening up and being yourself" part. Ive struggled with that throughout my life, and all it does is lead to fake, artificial friendships & relationships. In this day and age of social media and fake online personas, its hard to find real, genuine people. People who are honest enough to let their guard down and reveal their weaknesses and shortcomings in life. People WANT to have people like that in their lives. People who wont judge them because they know that person isn't perfect him or her self. Honesty is a rare trait these days