GoAggieGo.
getting blitzed.
Even for the small shyt, if I’m going to be gone for a few hours, I still run it by my fiancé. It’s a respect thing, as she also runs everything by me. We also have an infant daughter. It’s not just about me anymore.
I Have to Ask My Wife First :hamster:
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Youseenmywork
KING
Honestly I feel the same way. Why be tied to a man who sees you as less than and really only feels like you should be the one acting committed while he still acts single.
Define acting single ?
Entropy Fan
Superstar
You walk to the toilet, it's in front of you. How the hell can they not know if seat was down or not?? I wake in middle of night and I always know. Dumb asses
ThrobbingHood
“I’m Sorry for 2025”
Some of you are conflating asking for permission and informing your wife where you’ll be. Of course you’re meant to tell your spouse where you’re going to be if you’re going out for more than a few hours, that’s common sense.
But to ask permission to do so? Really? Damn, some of you are castrated.
But to ask permission to do so? Really? Damn, some of you are castrated.
Except we are
Women have decide we ain't shyt if we start questioning the antiqued norms of marriage in modern society.
Marriage has some weird tropes some of us arent cool with and we just want to question them.
I use it all the time and im not even married.If you're a male and you've ever uttered these words, I loathe you. I protest your whole essence, you are the complete opposite of what a man is meant to be.
A lot of times guys just use that as a excuse, I understand that. But even as an excuse... You say this phrase to me once and you are completely dead to me
A lot of time i'll be either at a dealership checking out cars or whatever and then the sales reps get all excited thinking they got me sold on a deal. Then i hit them up with "well let me discuss it with the wife and get back to you. Will you be here tomorrow at 3PM?"
As a matter of fact i used it just last weekend when this company come to give me an estimate on gutter guards. Dude was pushing me to make a decision for them to get the contract.. I hit him with the "well my wife is also getting some estimates so i'll holler at you guys when she and i compare notes"
There are plenty of women with dudes who have either explicitly said marriage is not for them or have made no indication of wanting to get married.Except we are
Women have decide we ain't shyt if we start questioning the antiqued norms of marriage in modern society.
Marriage has some weird tropes some of us arent cool with and we just want to question them.
And dudes having to ask their wives for permission to hang out with their friends is not normal.
Like I said, if you don't want to get married, don't
And while you are at it, do things for yourself rather than "modern society" 
You nikkas stress too much over what strangers say and think.
If O'm being picky and agru
My mom, aunts and cousins arent strangersThere are plenty of women with dudes who have either explicitly said marriage is not for them or have made no indication of wanting to get married.
And dudes having to ask their wives for permission to hang out with their friends is not normal.
Like I said, if you don't want to get married, don't
Nevermind, your coming into a discussion space and saying stop discussing.
Entropy Fan
Superstar
That beef is with your family then, not strangers who got marriedMy mom, aunts and cousins arent strangers
Nevermind, your coming into a discussion space and saying stop discussing.
It's your life to live, not theirs. Agree to disagree My dad always says "you cant choose your family". But you can choose how you deal with them. These days the only time I hear from him is when he needs money 
If I did things his way we'd both be broke instead of him. You have to do for self, even above family sometimes.And where did I say not to discuss anything? I'm just confused as to why dudes spend so much time agonizing over shyt they don't want or have to do. If the end goal is to argue and let other people's opinions dictate your life then yea I can see how this makes sense. If the end goal is to be happy and live the life you want why should anyone's opinions matter?
What is there to talk about? Some people want to get married, some people don't. Anyone who wants someone else to get married needs to mind their business and be quiet (your family included). The endI don't see the harm in talking about it.
he thought he was gonna sneak away and got bustedSaw one of my neighbors waxing his car at noon yesterday in his driveway lookin' like
His woman came out and started goin' off on him, talkin' about "you might as well put it back in the garage after you done cleanin' it."
He did and walked in the house lookin' like
I've been damn near blackout drunk at 3 am and had to shyt, never once did I fall in. How uncoordinated do you have to be, that falling into the toilet is a legitimate concern for you. Might as well live in a damn bubbke.
This is the shyt I'm talking about, don't do that to your boys thoPRECISELY!!!
I use that shyt all the time to shut down requests from fools I don't really wanna spend any time around, but have to be around all the time....like coworkers and church people. Then I just never get back to them....easy as hell.
Hey....it works!!
bu.. bu.. but it's just respect to tell your parole officer where you are ALL the time guysOh, the"I don't really have to ask, it's an excuse 3 get outta stuff" spin
Behind-the-wheel
Living dead
This is the shyt I'm talking about, don't do that to your boys tho
Weeeeeeelllll...first I would have to HAVE some boys.
All my people I call friends live in other states.
Tiffrock
All Star
So is it a both ways thing..wives don't need to ask their husbands.. or just husbands to wives?