I just checked my girl on some sh!t I thought was disrespectful

[Splash]

She got you allllll the way fukked up, you offering to do her a favour and she just hit you like "So you aint gonna do 100% of the work? "
I would just fixed my gaze like until she picked up that shyt

But at 15lbs in a month, you really gonna bush that? Cos that is not happening

 

[Gold]

We already squashed last night's beef....
She sent me this text below, she going thru some stuff...

"And please forgive me in advance. When I'm anxious I'm very snappy and edgy. "

Called it.

Can I have 10 rep please?

 

[youreWelcomeBk]

Petty

 

[skeetsinternal]

Dude if you stay with a woman don't expect her to have full respect to you negga. She can kick you out today if she wanted. She coulda locked you out when you went to throw the garbage and nothing you could have done. You lost respect in yourself by moving with her so you better cooperate and put that manly shyt on pause unfortunately. Just cooperate with her and do it 50 50 cuz that's how it will go. Also you don't want her to remind you that's her place breh

I have my own place. I only stay with her because she don't like coming to Newark. She scared she gonna get shot or raped.

The thing about her is that despite it being her place, she does her best to treat me kingly. She is a good woman. I get the big piece of meat, get catered to, she picks up the check at dinner, I get the keys to house and drive her car plus I control the remote for the TV. That type of thing going on with us so in turn I do all the things a man supposed to for her in the relationship. I'I don't think I was emotional, I saw it as giving her guidance, we new in the game and it's OK to communicate our likes and dislikes

 

[skeetsinternal]

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She got you allllll the way fukked up, you offering to do her a favour and she just hit you like "So you aint gonna do 100% of the work? "
I would just fixed my gaze like until she picked up that shyt

But at 15lbs in a month, you really gonna bush that? Cos that is not happening

Lol, I've done that but get called mean. Love is kind, love is gentle so I chose that route. I don't need them relationship problems.

 

[Bboystyle]

She already under pressure to lose 15 lbs by the end of November or else I'm out.

 

[skeetsinternal]

Wait, so this nikka in HER house trying to run things?! nikka talking about or he out, where you gonna go? Back to mommys house?

I got my own house b.. It's ok to not be scared of women breh and be a leader in the relationship

 

[1/2 Man 1/2 Hennessy]

I stay with her. Aint no way I'm checking her phone because I aint insecure. She already under pressure to lose 15 lbs by the end of November or else I'm out.

 

[Black Cac]

I got my own house b.. It's ok to not be scared of women breh and be a leader in the relationship

No you don't lol shut up before she lock the door next time you go take the trash out

 

[Ghost Utmost]

We already squashed last night's beef....
She sent me this text below, she going thru some stuff...

"And please forgive me in advance. When I'm anxious I'm very snappy and edgy. "



But to answer you, I would say we not a cookie cut type of couple. Every couple is different and as you can see by most people's comments they might handle things differently and more than likely get different outcomes. The weight loss goal was something she set and she was told from the start how I feel about big women. We as men have to set standards, if you been on the coli you would know I ain't have standards with women. I was concerned with just doing numbers. She working on the weight tho but December might be a difficult time

Yeah frankly I was surprised to see your username right before I posted my earlier response. I remember the speadsheet shyt.

All I want to encourage you to do is make life pleasant for her and not a hassle.

I got that 7 year itch about 3 years early but instead of doing anything to hurt her, I remind myself that she deserves nothing but my most pleasant face.

 

[BlackDiBiase]

dont let these posters sell you down the river you absolutely did the right thing. she blanked you right to your face she was testing you she was straight up hog fukking you she was testing your p*ssy acting like she deaf or cant see you.

 

[feelosofer]

You weren't being HOH for checking her. She should have been appreciative of you taking her plate and handed it to you when you asked. @skeetsinternal didn't know you were a Jersey cat. Crockettes makes a mean fish plate I can't lie. I think that this is a bane of modern women, they feel beyond a certain point they should not have to be submissive to a man, and she did what was a very passive aggressive way of testing your manhood. Sometimes we have to put our foot down and kindly let others know we won't tolerate disrespect.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

I have my own place. I only stay with her because she don't like coming to Newark. She scared she gonna get shot or raped.

The thing about her is that despite it being her place, she does her best to treat me kingly. She is a good woman. I get the big piece of meat, get catered to, she picks up the check at dinner, I get the keys to house and drive her car plus I control the remote for the TV. That type of thing going on with us so in turn I do all the things a man supposed to for her in the relationship. I'I don't think I was emotional, I saw it as giving her guidance, we new in the game and it's OK to communicate our likes and dislikes

You sure she's not losing respect for you? Bruh I've never seen a girl handle all of this; and look at her man equally. You say you do all the man stuff; but it don't sound like it fam. If this is 50-50, then ignore this; but if this is continuous, you may want to check her phone; to see if she's creeping.

 

[ChatGPT-5]

I bet you were scrubbing the dishes extra hard when you were thinking about it.

 

[FTBS]

Her bringing it back up tells me she was trying to push your buttons and test you. It warranted being checked and honestly you displayed restraint.