I just don't see a reason in getting married

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I try to be fair and sensible. I'm not GMB And I'm definitely not paranoid MGTOW. Some are gonna call me paranoid, but people online judge all day.

But I think about the possible risk and it doesn't seem like a feasible idea to get married. Just thinking about moving a woman in my house that I'm paying for, and then losing it in divorce. All that hard work down the drain I'm not about that life a nikka would fill his house up with Termites before losing it in divorce

Maybe the marriage coli brehs can provide some positive insight for when I get ready fo settle down. I don't know all the laws of marriage so I could be wrong. Feel free to correct me.

You automatically lose the kids. YOU have to get permission to see them. YOU automatically have to pay child support. And tell me why women raise the boy and not the man

 

[MikelArteta]

a nikka would fill his house up with Termites before losing it in divorce

:mjsmiles:

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Fix that thread title

 

[ORDER_66]

Is OP a fukking retard?!?....

 

[Cat piss martini]

Marriage is like AA and church......for quitters.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Is OP a fukking retard?!?....

Yeah I'm kinda slow

 

[Seoul Gleou]

your title is off breh

a practical person can definitely still get married. but they'd go through counseling, set up prenups, and settle any custody agreements for kids ahead of time. marriage is supposed to be hard work and preparing for it should be too.

otherwise, fukk it. i dont see any point in the practice. i'd rather have a live-in girlfriend who splits the mortgage payment (that's still in my name), than lump all that shyt up. i'd maybe do the marriage thing after kids are done college or some shyt. but not when im on my grind and have everything to lose and nothing to gain

 

[Mike Nasty]

Each state if different, so are sure you'll even lose the house if you had it before the marriage?

 

[13473]

then don't get married. if you have to be convinced to get married or be open to marriage, then you aren't the type who should marry

"YOU have to get permission to see them. YOU automatically have to pay child support."
this has nothing to do with marriage. it happens to unmarried people. if u want to prevent this then don't have sex or just go get a vasectomy.

 

[Rozay Oro]

 

[the cool]

The wedding is even woat

 

[Clive42]

You're treating marriage like a subscription/investment, which isnt necessarily incorrect. Looking at it from a reality perspective of what you have to put in and what can possibly go wrong.

I guess the key is to try and make it work, obviously with someone who you feel is worth it. But personally I wouldn't get married straight away and I think its better done once you've had enough time to know your woman inside out, plus experienced what shes like as a mother. Once you've got that assurance, that way you can tell yourself "Despite our ups and downs, Im cool with the way we are together and this is the girl I wanna spend the rest of my life with".

P.S. im not married, thats just my opinion

 

[ORDER_66]

Yeah I'm kinda slow

You MUST be...

 

[Serious]

I'm not anti-marriage. But I do think people should be mature, have a selfless mentality towards their partner, and be in a financially stable position before making that commitment.

My main gripe, is people getting married just to get married, or because they've been together for an extended period of time with no real connection.

 

[Oldschooler]

I think having kids with someone you don't really care about is even worse than marriage. People under 30 with nothing going for them should not get married or have kids, just sayin.