I just don’t understand how yall are defending this shyt

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My theory is that as marriage becomes more and more unrealistic due to black women not making good potential wives, casual events have to become more extravagant for them to not feel like their missing out.

Baby showers turning into giant events, expecting push gifts, expecting expensive girlfriend proposals.

All of this is because they know the real grand experience, a wedding, is never going to happen .
This thread is about how these kids are dressing ridiculously for their proms and you making it all about black women.

You bytch ass pawgset losers make me fukking sick :scust:
 

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I had bytch tell me any nikka that she have a baby by gotta buy her a benz and stock as a gift. i blocked her right after the date :skip:
But…you chose to go on a date with a low class chick🤷🏾‍♀️


When I was younger and encountered guys who were surprised some girls didn’t have a kid because *gasp* we were raised to not have kids out of wedlock, we didn’t actually go out with those guys…and we didn’t assume they were a reflection of all young Black men.

We acknowledged that we were not the same class and blocked them.


This shyt isn’t indicative of every young Black girl.

This is some hood shyt for real, but it isn’t all of us.

And the young men seemed to be equally as eager to pose in those shots.
 
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I get it. As what I assume are the actions of a single mother, this is the culmination of years of struggle to get their kids to this point it becomes not only a celebration for the kids but the parent themselves.

However the optics just don't look good. Its like those people that peak in high school. In our community it should become and expectation that you graduate and go on to bigger and better things.

This just seems to be another one of those things we'll have to deal with until fathers/parents step up and say. "No we aren't spending 25k on a graduation we are going to set our kids up for a bright future. Whether that be college, seed money for a business, or a down payment on a house. Tangible things that will ultimately set you up for a life not just one day.

Don't get me wrong I'm all for the kids having fun just not at the expense of the greater good.
 

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My theory is that as marriage becomes more and more unrealistic due to black women not making good potential wives, casual events have to become more extravagant for them to not feel like their missing out.

Baby showers turning into giant events, expecting push gifts, expecting expensive girlfriend proposals.

All of this is because they know the real grand experience, a wedding, is never going to happen .
nikka most black men ain't marriage material either. :mjlol:
 

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:manny: The money is probably fake and I just see it as the Blk version of a Quistanieta. This will be the highlight of many of these young people's lives. Let them enjoy it.
Exhibit A of why woman can't run the community. (No disrespect by the way cause you're actually a good poster.)


Meanwhile Asians already plotting on getting that Masters in a well paying field and Hispanics buying up houses 3 families at a time


Were cooooooked
 

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:manny: The money is probably fake and I just see it as the Blk version of a Quistanieta. This will be the highlight of many of these young people's lives. Let them enjoy it.
Are

You

Nīggas

Gonna help her?????? :why:









Ive seen other races do similar for graduation tho... This is a non-issue
 

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Reminds me of the NBA Draft now where these kids wear bad suits on purpose. Generational goofy but at the same time it's mostly harmless. Let em cook
 

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somehow getting married more than them tho

Lowest marriage rates among all races of men and highest divorce rates. Illegitimate babies, highest criminal records, lowest college attendance, low literac rates, high unemployment rates, low median income etc. You're trying slander those black girls but the average black male is in a worse position.

At the end of the day BM/BW are a direct reflection of one another no matter how much you c00ns point the finger at each other. Black women wouldn't have turned out the way they are without the help of BM.
 

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Lowest marriage rates among all races of men and highest divorce rates. Illegitimate babies, highest criminal records, lowest college attendance, low literac rates, high unemployment rates, low median income etc. You're trying slander those black girls but the average black male is in a worse position.

At the end of the day BM/BW are a direct reflection of one another no matter how much you c00ns point the finger at each other. Black women wouldn't have turned out the way they are without the help of BM.
somehow… someway… despite what you just said, still making more than black women, have less children and OOW children and still more married?
 
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