I just found the goat site..http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/

[Malta]

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I caught my wife cheating on me two days before Christmas. In late November, we were arguing all the time about her going out. She works late nights as a server and then goes out with her friends. While I'm laying in bed while our children sleep, she is going out. This pissed me off enough to finally tell her after six years of marriage, that I did not condone her choices. I explained to her that I did not feel this was appropriate behavior for a married woman. She accused me of not trusting her. I told her that I did not trust other men or people's actions under the influence of alcohol. I also expressed to her that I did not want my wife out until 2:00 AM at bars and clubs. Eventually, I let go and gave her the space she wanted.

Well, I found her passed out drunk in front of the computer at 5:00 AM in front of the computer on Dec 23. She was having sex chat on Facebook. I quickly realized that she and her co-worker had been together at my own house two nights earlier and he touched and kissed her on the neck inappropriately. I even woke up because I heard voices in the house that night. They weren't doing anything then and my wife walked me back to bed reassuring me that he was helping her wrap gifts. This was a friend who had been to my home several times for parties, dinner, and social gatherings. i trusted my wife, so I went back to sleep. Then they drank some more, and while watching a movie, he kissed her neck and put his hands down her pants. I'm sure you get the picture. She stopped him and told him to leave after a few minutes. However, the next night they went to a bar together and then she came home and had the sex chat. They were making detailed plans to meet after work and have sex the next night. My wife tells me that she was drunk and just heavily flirting. She says she enjoyed the attention and the fantasy. She has cried and apologized and even swore on our kids that she never would have done it, even had I not caught her. She begged me not to leave and says she will do whatever it takes for me to trust her again. I still don't know if I believe her. I love my wife so much and I know she loves me too. I am so HURT right now. This guy and I even exchanged text messages and he told me that it was stupid drunken behavior. He apologized profusely and offered to explain any details I wished to know. It still bothers me to think that my wife was going to have sex with another man and that she violated our home and marriage while myself and the kids slept two rooms away. I want to believe her when she says she would have never done it, but I don't know what to think anymore. Please help.

so demonic

she had another dudes, while he was asleep...even walked him back to bed
what a simp

 

[Malta]

so demonic

she had another dudes, while he was asleep...even walked him back to bed
what a simp

These dudes need to take Neil McCauley's advice -

A guy told me one time, "Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner." Now, if you're on me and you gotta move when I move, how do you expect to keep a... a marriage?

My girl knows I love her, but I'm perfectly fine with the idea of going through my life single. She cheats and I'll be in Brazil by the weekend living the rest of my days.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

On Sept. 24th I discovered that my wife was having a physical affair that had been going on for 5 weeks. My story is similar to what I have read on this forum. I was not a great husband and my wife became very lonely. Nevertheless her affair is not justified. My wife agreed to end all communication and we began the process of rebuilding. About a month later I discovered that they were emailing, my wife said it was just closure. She emailed him a "it's over email, don't contact me" email and CC'd me on it. We then deleted her email account and changed her cell number. She has commited to transperency and we are going through counseling together. My question is ...should I contact the OM's wife and let her know what was going on? Others on this site say the OM's spouse should be contacted to help stop the potential for the affair to continue .. but I am confident that it is over. Part of me wants to be vindictive and destroy his life like mine was ... and part of me wants to tell her because she deserves to know. But is it none of my business and I should stay out of it??

wtf kinda fukkery is this
no way this is a black dude..no way
a nikka would of kicked her out long time ago

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

These dudes need to take Neil McCauley's advice -




My girl knows I love her, but I'm perfectly fine with the idea of going through my life single. She cheats and I'll be in Brazil by the weekend living the rest of my days.

and thats why she wont cheat..

but all the cheating wifes know they can get away it cause the husband will take her back on some simp shyt..
whats the point of counselling if she had sex in ur bed


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[ugksam]

lmao @ wifing a waitress. all waitresses are crazy sluts who drink too much.

 

[jadillac]

I'm telling y'all man, reading these descriptions/post and the way these women act, it sounds like MOVIES you'd see on Lifetime or some chick flick where a woman left her husband to "find true love"

They love the excitement and using their imagination to picture themselves in situations like it was a movie

 

[Suge Knight]

I'm sure tons of people on here are shook, the wheels are turning and people are thinking what if.

Its all good brehs, your girl is going out with her friends later tonight. To have a ladies night. "So and so broke up, she's my best friend we are all going out to cheer her up..I know you trust me and my friends..love you baby txt you later muah"

Meanwhile the wolves are out, plotting and skeeting in your girls mouth, face, ass..

You share that girl brehs.

 

[wise prophet]

so demonic

she had another dudes, while he was asleep...even walked him back to bed
what a simp

She has cried and apologized and even swore on our kids that she never would have done it

She had the nerve to swear on their kids lives about her lies?

woooooow. Shame on that punk ass simp for not at least putting the fear of God in that trollop after that bullshyt.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

In February of 2009, she found her boyfriend from 10th grade on Facebook, whom she hadn’t seen in about 27 years. It then moved off of FB to a secret, prepaid paid phone for texting & sexting. She also began smoking pot every day, drinking 2-3 glasses of wine a day, taking diet pills, sleeping pills, anxiety pills and anti-depressants. Her job was a stressful and abusive environment, our kids were “difficult” and she felt like she was failing as a mother, and she felt unloved by me. She was basically a “run-away train”.

A year later, I suspected something and confronted her. She confessed that the Other Men came into town (he lives on the other coast). They met in the back seat of his loaner car. They didn’t have sex but she said she wanted to and he turned her down (they did kiss and other “physical” things).
I threatened divorce. The next morning she took a bottle of pills in a suicide attempt. After a week in a psychiatric hospital, I took her to an inpatient rehab. She spent 30 days there. While there, she and a “boy” half her age (he was 21 year old), engaged in sex.

I took her to another (all woman) inpatient rehab for 30 days. They got her straightened out. She now does not drink, smoke or take pills.

She also revealed that 4 months before her meeting with the OM, she picked up a 21 year old in a nightclub for kissing and touching.

 

[Malta]

When the broad tried to kill herself, that was the perfect time to file for divorce and get the kids in the process since she was clearly unstable.

I simply do not understand how anyone can take another person back after that.

 

[954UAlreadyknow]

Like I said earlier, ur wife should know TWO things about you as a man.

1. That ur gonna do whatever and anything to protect her in any situation and provide for her and be loving, kind.

AND

2. She should have a healthy fear that just as much as all that you'd do in # 1 , you can be the complete opposite if she ever messes around on you.


In other words, if you know that I'd take a bullet for you/die, you should also know & assume that if you step out on me/cheat, there's gonna be some serious repercussions on the flip side.

Real post.......I live by this shyt

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

well with these dudes the signs are all there...what married man/woman needs to go out to the club without their spouse?

its asking for trouble...but i see it all the time...me and the ol lady will be out...and its a group of broads...obviously married/attached out drinking and acting crazy....flirting....its only a matter of time...

and yea...the wolves are out...becuz whats better than a drunk broad out for a little fun...and no attachments?

shyt is goat if youre a young dude...shyts a win-win

 

[Taadow]

shes cheating at 58 years old

...BECAUSE THE NICCA DIDN'T LET HER HAVE A PUPPY, AND THAT MADE HER MAD.

Oh the humanity...

 

[wild100sboy]

The ether on that site