I just found the goat site..http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/

[tru_m.a.c]

lets be candidate about what marriage is.

 

[#1 pick]

From Talkaboutmarriage….

"This is the 3rd month that I have been browsing these forums and now it's time to get some help. We have tried and tried to fix this marriage and it is to the point that I am the only one trying. The camel's back was broken when I agreed to a 3 way with my wife and I was humiliated. Also, I wasn't sure if this was best to post this here or in the sex forum. If this is not the correct place, please move for me.

Sex has been pretty horrible for me and my wife. We have only been married 5 years and for the first 3, sex was great. My wife's sex drive all of a sudden decreased and she had little to no interest in sex. My sex drive soon followed and I never really recovered. She also stopped giving me oral sex about 2 years ago. For the past two years, our sex life has consisted of me giving her oral and me receiving a hand job in return. It wasn't my ideal arrangement but we both were able to climax with this arrangement.

My wife suggested that we try to do some new things to try to rekindle our sex life. She made it seem that I would have some say in what we should do but she had her heart set on having 3 way sex. On top of that, she wanted the 3rd person to be a man from her job. I really didn't feel right doing this but at the same time, I wanted her to be happy. I never suspected her of cheating but I asked her what she knew about the guy. She said that he was a sex guru and he could help to spice up our sex life. I agreed out of desperation.

We had the 3 way last week and it was the most awkward and uncomfortable thing that I ever did in my life. Throughout the entire session, my wife paid more attention to him than me. The only thing good about it was that I saw that she was happy. After about 30 minutes in, she began to give him oral sex. I stopped her and asked how she could do that to him when she didn't do that to me anymore. She said that she wanted to do new things and this is what she wanted. It was very awkward and he just looked at me with a smirk. I was pissed and didn't want to participate anymore.

Some part of me wanted to leave but I couldn't. I also woke up and wondered why the hell I ever agreed with this in the first place. I just laid down on the bed while they continued to have sex. They were then standing on the side of the bed having sex while I was laying there. I watched some more and then turned my head the other way. Without warning, I felt something warm across my back. I had no idea what it was but I knew it wasn't right. By the time I turned around, my wife was laughing hysterically and her co-worker was trying not to laugh. It only took a few seconds to realize that he shot his load all over my back.

This is the most humiliating thing that has ever happened to me. My wife enjoyed herself and said I shouldn't worry about it. I feel that they somehow set me up and the way that they looked at each other, I think they may have been together before. Now she is living happy and wants to do it again. I wanted to work on our sex life/marriage but now I'm not too sure. Is this some sort of phase she is going through? She is 46 and I just turned 43. I can accept that maybe I can't satisfy her sexually anymore but I can't help but to think that she told him to do that to me. Does this sound like a marriage worth fighting for or should I listen to my gut and believe that she is sleeping with him behind my back and I should pursue a divorce?"

I'm speechless!

 

[BillBanneker]

From Talkaboutmarriage….

"This is the 3rd month that I have been browsing these forums and now it's time to get some help. We have tried and tried to fix this marriage and it is to the point that I am the only one trying. The camel's back was broken when I agreed to a 3 way with my wife and I was humiliated. Also, I wasn't sure if this was best to post this here or in the sex forum. If this is not the correct place, please move for me.

Sex has been pretty horrible for me and my wife. We have only been married 5 years and for the first 3, sex was great. My wife's sex drive all of a sudden decreased and she had little to no interest in sex. My sex drive soon followed and I never really recovered. She also stopped giving me oral sex about 2 years ago. For the past two years, our sex life has consisted of me giving her oral and me receiving a hand job in return. It wasn't my ideal arrangement but we both were able to climax with this arrangement.

My wife suggested that we try to do some new things to try to rekindle our sex life. She made it seem that I would have some say in what we should do but she had her heart set on having 3 way sex. On top of that, she wanted the 3rd person to be a man from her job. I really didn't feel right doing this but at the same time, I wanted her to be happy. I never suspected her of cheating but I asked her what she knew about the guy. She said that he was a sex guru and he could help to spice up our sex life. I agreed out of desperation.

We had the 3 way last week and it was the most awkward and uncomfortable thing that I ever did in my life. Throughout the entire session, my wife paid more attention to him than me. The only thing good about it was that I saw that she was happy. After about 30 minutes in, she began to give him oral sex. I stopped her and asked how she could do that to him when she didn't do that to me anymore. She said that she wanted to do new things and this is what she wanted. It was very awkward and he just looked at me with a smirk. I was pissed and didn't want to participate anymore.

Some part of me wanted to leave but I couldn't. I also woke up and wondered why the hell I ever agreed with this in the first place. I just laid down on the bed while they continued to have sex. They were then standing on the side of the bed having sex while I was laying there. I watched some more and then turned my head the other way. Without warning, I felt something warm across my back. I had no idea what it was but I knew it wasn't right. By the time I turned around, my wife was laughing hysterically and her co-worker was trying not to laugh. It only took a few seconds to realize that he shot his load all over my back.

This is the most humiliating thing that has ever happened to me. My wife enjoyed herself and said I shouldn't worry about it. I feel that they somehow set me up and the way that they looked at each other, I think they may have been together before. Now she is living happy and wants to do it again. I wanted to work on our sex life/marriage but now I'm not too sure. Is this some sort of phase she is going through? She is 46 and I just turned 43. I can accept that maybe I can't satisfy her sexually anymore but I can't help but to think that she told him to do that to me. Does this sound like a marriage worth fighting for or should I listen to my gut and believe that she is sleeping with him behind my back and I should pursue a divorce?"

I'm speechless!

These folks have to be trolling.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Married 12 years. 2 kids.
I have never been unhappy in my marriage we only had 2 real fights in 12 years.

We have a new social circle of friends / parents that do crap together. When the kids go to sleep, the adults drink and have a good time.

It was sort of a weird party scene. I failed to notice my wife growing affection for one of my best friends. After alll when 20 people are drinking and being crazy nobody pays attention.

I went through her phone and saw all these horrible sext messages between the two of them. I tore her a new one, and met him at a bar and threatened to tell his wife if he didn't cut it the **** out. He actually grabbed my hand and cried like a pu$$y and said thank you for not telling his wife, etc. I pretty much forgave him.

I am not stupid. At this point, I loaded the wife's cell w/ software that allows me to take pics, listen to calls, listen to the environment, all sorts of covert ****.

I noticed the texts stopped completely. None at all so I am like cool.

one day I got an odd feeling from out of nowhere and decide to turn the mic on on her cell phone and there plain as day, they were at her office alone having sex. No question.

I saw red. I drove 100 miles an hour to her office (he was gone) and she was like "why are you here?" I proceeded to destroy her office, told her all sorts of horrible things, and called him from her office and said "If you don't call your wife right now, I am taking the recording of you ****ing my wife and posting it on your facebook page"

That was June 11th.

My whole world exploded. I spoke to them both separately and they both claimed they had sex 6 times over a 2 month period. I have no way to know if that is true. Let's assume it is.

I have ups and downs about staying together or divorcing and I still have no idea. With the kids in the mix, I will likely stay but I am not sure how I am going to "un hear" those recordings I heard and imagine the things they were doing and of course feeling like I was totally played.

I am just feeling like **** and venting. This is the worst year of my life. I have had good weeks where things are almost normal again then I go back to How the **** could she.


I tried counseling and anti depressants, She is in counseling and on anti depressants.

She totally wants to work it out and is doing all the right things but I am not sure I can get over it.

I asked if the sex was better. She said not better or worse, just different. They told each other they loved each other and That KILLS me.

she said they flirted a lot and they met for coffee and it was like they were dating. One thing led to another and she "lowered her boundaries too far" No ****....

She is in counseling trying to find out how she was capable of this and how not to let it happen again.

after I busted her, she said she doesn't miss him at all and she thought she had these feelings for him but she feels nothing but disgust about their actions when she thinks of him now.

I told him to move away or I would do more damage.

We live in Texas. He starts a new job in Nov in Wisconsin so they are moving away.

But I have lost most of my friends and am a total insecure mess now....

ugh,thanks for reading all of this.

Worst year ever!

smh

 

[#1 pick]

I rather me in jail or dead. I know I die doing what God wanted me to do.

I will be in heaven in peace. These dudes on earth feeling like they in hell, for what? Naw,

 

[CJ]

Married 12 years. 2 kids.
I have never been unhappy in my marriage we only had 2 real fights in 12 years.

We have a new social circle of friends / parents that do crap together. When the kids go to sleep, the adults drink and have a good time.

It was sort of a weird party scene. I failed to notice my wife growing affection for one of my best friends. After alll when 20 people are drinking and being crazy nobody pays attention.

I went through her phone and saw all these horrible sext messages between the two of them. I tore her a new one, and met him at a bar and threatened to tell his wife if he didn't cut it the **** out. He actually grabbed my hand and cried like a pu$$y and said thank you for not telling his wife, etc. I pretty much forgave him.

I am not stupid. At this point, I loaded the wife's cell w/ software that allows me to take pics, listen to calls, listen to the environment, all sorts of covert ****.

I noticed the texts stopped completely. None at all so I am like cool.

one day I got an odd feeling from out of nowhere and decide to turn the mic on on her cell phone and there plain as day, they were at her office alone having sex. No question.

I saw red. I drove 100 miles an hour to her office (he was gone) and she was like "why are you here?" I proceeded to destroy her office, told her all sorts of horrible things, and called him from her office and said "If you don't call your wife right now, I am taking the recording of you ****ing my wife and posting it on your facebook page"

That was June 11th.

My whole world exploded. I spoke to them both separately and they both claimed they had sex 6 times over a 2 month period. I have no way to know if that is true. Let's assume it is.

I have ups and downs about staying together or divorcing and I still have no idea. With the kids in the mix, I will likely stay but I am not sure how I am going to "un hear" those recordings I heard and imagine the things they were doing and of course feeling like I was totally played.

I am just feeling like **** and venting. This is the worst year of my life. I have had good weeks where things are almost normal again then I go back to How the **** could she.


I tried counseling and anti depressants, She is in counseling and on anti depressants.

She totally wants to work it out and is doing all the right things but I am not sure I can get over it.

I asked if the sex was better. She said not better or worse, just different. They told each other they loved each other and That KILLS me.

she said they flirted a lot and they met for coffee and it was like they were dating. One thing led to another and she "lowered her boundaries too far" No ****....

She is in counseling trying to find out how she was capable of this and how not to let it happen again.

after I busted her, she said she doesn't miss him at all and she thought she had these feelings for him but she feels nothing but disgust about their actions when she thinks of him now.

I told him to move away or I would do more damage.

We live in Texas. He starts a new job in Nov in Wisconsin so they are moving away.

But I have lost most of my friends and am a total insecure mess now....

ugh,thanks for reading all of this.

Worst year ever!

smh

Damn dude started off as Sam Fisher in the first half of the story, then turned to fukking Dawson Leery by the end of it.

Spoiler

Another one bites the dust.

 

[Texas2step]

From Talkaboutmarriage….

"This is the 3rd month that I have been browsing these forums and now it's time to get some help. We have tried and tried to fix this marriage and it is to the point that I am the only one trying. The camel's back was broken when I agreed to a 3 way with my wife and I was humiliated. Also, I wasn't sure if this was best to post this here or in the sex forum. If this is not the correct place, please move for me.

Sex has been pretty horrible for me and my wife. We have only been married 5 years and for the first 3, sex was great. My wife's sex drive all of a sudden decreased and she had little to no interest in sex. My sex drive soon followed and I never really recovered. She also stopped giving me oral sex about 2 years ago. For the past two years, our sex life has consisted of me giving her oral and me receiving a hand job in return. It wasn't my ideal arrangement but we both were able to climax with this arrangement.

My wife suggested that we try to do some new things to try to rekindle our sex life. She made it seem that I would have some say in what we should do but she had her heart set on having 3 way sex. On top of that, she wanted the 3rd person to be a man from her job. I really didn't feel right doing this but at the same time, I wanted her to be happy. I never suspected her of cheating but I asked her what she knew about the guy. She said that he was a sex guru and he could help to spice up our sex life. I agreed out of desperation.

We had the 3 way last week and it was the most awkward and uncomfortable thing that I ever did in my life. Throughout the entire session, my wife paid more attention to him than me. The only thing good about it was that I saw that she was happy. After about 30 minutes in, she began to give him oral sex. I stopped her and asked how she could do that to him when she didn't do that to me anymore. She said that she wanted to do new things and this is what she wanted. It was very awkward and he just looked at me with a smirk. I was pissed and didn't want to participate anymore.

Some part of me wanted to leave but I couldn't. I also woke up and wondered why the hell I ever agreed with this in the first place. I just laid down on the bed while they continued to have sex. They were then standing on the side of the bed having sex while I was laying there. I watched some more and then turned my head the other way. Without warning, I felt something warm across my back. I had no idea what it was but I knew it wasn't right. By the time I turned around, my wife was laughing hysterically and her co-worker was trying not to laugh. It only took a few seconds to realize that he shot his load all over my back.

This is the most humiliating thing that has ever happened to me. My wife enjoyed herself and said I shouldn't worry about it. I feel that they somehow set me up and the way that they looked at each other, I think they may have been together before. Now she is living happy and wants to do it again. I wanted to work on our sex life/marriage but now I'm not too sure. Is this some sort of phase she is going through? She is 46 and I just turned 43. I can accept that maybe I can't satisfy her sexually anymore but I can't help but to think that she told him to do that to me. Does this sound like a marriage worth fighting for or should I listen to my gut and believe that she is sleeping with him behind my back and I should pursue a divorce?"

I'm speechless!

reading this shyt made my heart sank

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

reading this shyt made my heart sank

i cant believe thats real breh

dude laid in bed crying while his wife was laughing and getting her insides rearragned

all his pride manhood gone

 

[Soundbwoy]

i cant believe thats real breh

dude laid in bed crying while his wife was laughing and getting her insides rearragned

all his pride manhood gone

It's hard to believe this shyt is real

 

[ThaBronxBully]

i cant believe thats real breh

dude laid in bed crying while his wife was laughing and getting her insides rearragned

all his pride manhood gone

Then Homeboy Nutted On His Back, No Way This shyt Is Real lol

 

[AquaCityBoy]

After about 30 minutes in, she began to give him oral sex. I stopped her and asked how she could do that to him when she didn't do that to me anymore. She said that she wanted to do new things and this is what she wanted. It was very awkward and he just looked at me with a smirk.

You get let your wife suck some other nikka's dikk right in front of you while he got the face?

And then let that nikka nut all over YOU and not punch him in the mouth?

I hope that's fake. No man should be that bytch made.

 

[wise prophet]

From Talkaboutmarriage….

"This is the 3rd month that I have been browsing these forums and now it's time to get some help. We have tried and tried to fix this marriage and it is to the point that I am the only one trying. The camel's back was broken when I agreed to a 3 way with my wife and I was humiliated. Also, I wasn't sure if this was best to post this here or in the sex forum. If this is not the correct place, please move for me.

Sex has been pretty horrible for me and my wife. We have only been married 5 years and for the first 3, sex was great. My wife's sex drive all of a sudden decreased and she had little to no interest in sex. My sex drive soon followed and I never really recovered. She also stopped giving me oral sex about 2 years ago. For the past two years, our sex life has consisted of me giving her oral and me receiving a hand job in return. It wasn't my ideal arrangement but we both were able to climax with this arrangement.

My wife suggested that we try to do some new things to try to rekindle our sex life. She made it seem that I would have some say in what we should do but she had her heart set on having 3 way sex. On top of that, she wanted the 3rd person to be a man from her job. I really didn't feel right doing this but at the same time, I wanted her to be happy. I never suspected her of cheating but I asked her what she knew about the guy. She said that he was a sex guru and he could help to spice up our sex life. I agreed out of desperation.

We had the 3 way last week and it was the most awkward and uncomfortable thing that I ever did in my life. Throughout the entire session, my wife paid more attention to him than me. The only thing good about it was that I saw that she was happy. After about 30 minutes in, she began to give him oral sex. I stopped her and asked how she could do that to him when she didn't do that to me anymore. She said that she wanted to do new things and this is what she wanted. It was very awkward and he just looked at me with a smirk. I was pissed and didn't want to participate anymore.

Some part of me wanted to leave but I couldn't. I also woke up and wondered why the hell I ever agreed with this in the first place. I just laid down on the bed while they continued to have sex. They were then standing on the side of the bed having sex while I was laying there. I watched some more and then turned my head the other way. Without warning, I felt something warm across my back. I had no idea what it was but I knew it wasn't right. By the time I turned around, my wife was laughing hysterically and her co-worker was trying not to laugh. It only took a few seconds to realize that he shot his load all over my back.

This is the most humiliating thing that has ever happened to me. My wife enjoyed herself and said I shouldn't worry about it. I feel that they somehow set me up and the way that they looked at each other, I think they may have been together before. Now she is living happy and wants to do it again. I wanted to work on our sex life/marriage but now I'm not too sure. Is this some sort of phase she is going through? She is 46 and I just turned 43. I can accept that maybe I can't satisfy her sexually anymore but I can't help but to think that she told him to do that to me. Does this sound like a marriage worth fighting for or should I listen to my gut and believe that she is sleeping with him behind my back and I should pursue a divorce?"

I'm speechless!

Some part of me wanted to leave but I couldn't. I also woke up and wondered why the hell I ever agreed with this in the first place. I just laid down on the bed while they continued to have sex. They were then standing on the side of the bed having sex while I was laying there. I watched some more and then turned my head the other way. Without warning, I felt something warm across my back. I had no idea what it was but I knew it wasn't right. By the time I turned around, my wife was laughing hysterically and her co-worker was trying not to laugh. It only took a few seconds to realize that he shot his load all over my back.

 

[CJ]

All I picture is homeboy turned around in bed, clutching his pillow, looking out the window as the tears drop. Then all of a sudden gets this warm sensation on his back

 

[Metta World Movement]

From Talkaboutmarriage….

"This is the 3rd month that I have been browsing these forums and now it's time to get some help. We have tried and tried to fix this marriage and it is to the point that I am the only one trying. The camel's back was broken when I agreed to a 3 way with my wife and I was humiliated. Also, I wasn't sure if this was best to post this here or in the sex forum. If this is not the correct place, please move for me.

Sex has been pretty horrible for me and my wife. We have only been married 5 years and for the first 3, sex was great. My wife's sex drive all of a sudden decreased and she had little to no interest in sex. My sex drive soon followed and I never really recovered. She also stopped giving me oral sex about 2 years ago. For the past two years, our sex life has consisted of me giving her oral and me receiving a hand job in return. It wasn't my ideal arrangement but we both were able to climax with this arrangement.

My wife suggested that we try to do some new things to try to rekindle our sex life. She made it seem that I would have some say in what we should do but she had her heart set on having 3 way sex. On top of that, she wanted the 3rd person to be a man from her job. I really didn't feel right doing this but at the same time, I wanted her to be happy. I never suspected her of cheating but I asked her what she knew about the guy. She said that he was a sex guru and he could help to spice up our sex life. I agreed out of desperation.

We had the 3 way last week and it was the most awkward and uncomfortable thing that I ever did in my life. Throughout the entire session, my wife paid more attention to him than me. The only thing good about it was that I saw that she was happy. After about 30 minutes in, she began to give him oral sex. I stopped her and asked how she could do that to him when she didn't do that to me anymore. She said that she wanted to do new things and this is what she wanted. It was very awkward and he just looked at me with a smirk. I was pissed and didn't want to participate anymore.

Some part of me wanted to leave but I couldn't. I also woke up and wondered why the hell I ever agreed with this in the first place. I just laid down on the bed while they continued to have sex. They were then standing on the side of the bed having sex while I was laying there. I watched some more and then turned my head the other way. Without warning, I felt something warm across my back. I had no idea what it was but I knew it wasn't right. By the time I turned around, my wife was laughing hysterically and her co-worker was trying not to laugh. It only took a few seconds to realize that he shot his load all over my back.

This is the most humiliating thing that has ever happened to me. My wife enjoyed herself and said I shouldn't worry about it. I feel that they somehow set me up and the way that they looked at each other, I think they may have been together before. Now she is living happy and wants to do it again. I wanted to work on our sex life/marriage but now I'm not too sure. Is this some sort of phase she is going through? She is 46 and I just turned 43. I can accept that maybe I can't satisfy her sexually anymore but I can't help but to think that she told him to do that to me. Does this sound like a marriage worth fighting for or should I listen to my gut and believe that she is sleeping with him behind my back and I should pursue a divorce?"

I'm speechless!

I now officially believe that some of these stories are made up by trolls.

Hell, if some nikkas in this thread are thinking of posting fake stories on there, who's to say some nikkas from other forums haven't already done so?

 

[#1 pick]

This sounds like something Malc would create. He sounded too fake, he's a sex guru. Only a woman who knows she is with a culkold would do that and even then she probably wouldn't say that.