I just found the goat site..http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/

[Ben De Toy]

Is it awkward sharing a bed with her knowing some other dude creamed all in those sheets she's hanging up right now?

The "man" didn't ever visit here. Having said that, have you ever visited a girlfriend's house? Do you think all women are virgins?

 

[thegreatwb]

She won't cheat again and get away with it. She has attempted suicide to get me to stay. I don't care if she does. Do you get that?

To me bringing my kids up is more important than pride over something that happened in the past and the woman is unbelievable sorry for.

She is more or less my servant now. Does anything for me. I have always been very close to my kids. They see what my ex has been through to "keep" me. They see that she treats me with 100% real respect.

What you guys don't seem to get is that I've taken the tough choice. Broken a cycle so my children won't make the same choices.

Being a man isn't about talking crap and telling folk they are betas. It's about delivering on stuff. Keeping a family together. Making hard choices.

I have a good life. Do you get that? I earn a lot of money. My ex wife adores me. My kids love me. I have a great house.

I can look any man in the eye and tell him that. I didn't cut and run. I won't have kids by different women and my children won't think that's normal.

My family have done everything from visiting Disneyland 5 times to stroking whales, to swimming with dolphins and giant turtles, seeing Israel; Egypt; the African Jungle; Paris; sailing, kayaking; owning a pony. We keep chickens and ducks. Sometimes get snowed in. Build snowmen. Watch movies together.

They have material stuff, great lives, a mother that loves them. No neighbours. A lifestyle that is the envy of many people - whatever their colour.

Finally, they have a father that is always there for them. That doesn't live somewhere else and visits for the weekend or whenever their skank mother can fit things in because the court system hates men.

You may all think your lives are great, but maybe your priorities are different from mine.

The reason why people are laughing at you is because most men wouldn't put up with a woman that would do something like this. So what are you going to do when the kids are grown and move out? You won't be able to take them to Disneyland all the time and they won't be able to stroke the whales. Will you just be stuck living miserably with a woman who can't keep her legs closed?

I commend you for trying to keep your family together and your kids happy. However, kids are strong and can find ways to cope with issues such as divorce. That's why I think your "staying around for the kids" logic is flawed. If they don't understand now, they'll understand when they're older why daddy had to leave. Have some self respect man and move on with your life!

BTW, I still think this is a troll.

 

[Cabbage Patch]

I can't believe he came in to plead his case after reading some of the posts in this thread.

Man some of those stories are truly depressing, especially the guy that was going to stop his Chemo treatment. He clearly depended on her during his fight with cancer and really had nothing or no one else to turn to and she openly articulated that she was embarrassed of him...Sheesh.

I clicked out of there after reading that one. I hope that bytch dies in a fire. Some people are psychopaths, and she's one of them.

 

[MikelArteta]

make a post in that infidelity thread in talkaboutmarriage and then we can confirm if it is real

 

[Ben De Toy]

I just found it hard to believe that any man with


The reason why people are laughing at you is because most men wouldn't put up with a woman that would do something like this. So what are you going to do when the kids are grown and move out? You won't be able to take them to Disneyland all the time and they won't be able to stroke the whales. Will you just be stuck living miserably with a woman who can't keep her legs closed?

I commend you for trying to keep your family together and your kids happy. However, kids are strong and can find ways to cope with issues such as divorce. That's why I think your "staying around for the kids" logic is flawed. If they don't understand now, they'll understand when they're older why daddy had to leave. Have some self respect man and move on with your life!

BTW, I still think this is a troll.

Thank you.

I'm not trolling. Seriously - I would have taken the racial bait by now had I been.

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

I'm not "defending myself". I don't need to do that because I make my own choices in life and I stand by them.

It's easy to be a big "man" on an anonymous internet forum.

I think choosing to bring up my own children is the biggest choice of all. Your thoughts may differ on this.

One last point; I didn't Google my own story; it came up on a search when I was finding out if the talkaboutmarriage site was down. I thought I would drop by so you could get the story of a real person, rather than a gif and "breh I'd tap that" comment.

Good luck guys. It's easy to talk the talk. I walk it too. That's what a real man does in real life.

i can respect this.

 

[Malta]

I just found it hard to believe that any man with


The reason why people are laughing at you is because most men wouldn't put up with a woman that would do something like this. So what are you going to do when the kids are grown and move out? You won't be able to take them to Disneyland all the time and they won't be able to stroke the whales. Will you just be stuck living miserably with a woman who can't keep her legs closed?

I commend you for trying to keep your family together and your kids happy. However, kids are strong and can find ways to cope with issues such as divorce. That's why I think your "staying around for the kids" logic is flawed. If they don't understand now, they'll understand when they're older why daddy had to leave. Have some self respect man and move on with your life!

BTW, I still think this is a troll.

I hope it's a troll, but if you search the Talkaboutmarriage.com link in the thread title, the 5th result is TheColi thread

 

[MAKAVELI25]

make a post in that infidelity thread in talkaboutmarriage and then we can confirm if it is real

Yeah, I don't believe this guy is the real deal. It's probably one of us who wanted to make this thread more interesting

 

[Cabbage Patch]

She tried to drive a car into the wall when I was in it. She couldn't because I stopped her.

She won't do it with the kids in because she used it as a method of trying to control me so I cited it in the divorce.

And you still let the bytch live with you? Free child care is not worth all that. She WILL find another method to use the kids against you, and they WILL end up suffering more than they already do now. Hire a good private detective to make a rock solid case against her when you kick her out, and then kick her out.

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

I'm not "defending myself". I don't need to do that because I make my own choices in life and I stand by them.

It's easy to be a big "man" on an anonymous internet forum.

I think choosing to bring up my own children is the biggest choice of all. Your thoughts may differ on this.

One last point; I didn't Google my own story; it came up on a search when I was finding out if the talkaboutmarriage site was down. I thought I would drop by so you could get the story of a real person, rather than a gif and "breh I'd tap that" comment.

Good luck guys. It's easy to talk the talk. I walk it too. That's what a real man does in real life.

 

[YoungMasterGold]

The minute I define myself by a slut of a woman's choices and what has, or hasn't, happened to her then I may as well agree with what you are saying.

I don't though. I define myself by what I do, not what a woman does.

That's nonsense. You most certainly have defined yourself by the actions of your cheating ex-wife. You went chasing after the guy with whom she cheated; trying to corner him in supermarkets and in his home. That doesn't sound very independent of a woman's choices. Further, her attempts to reconcile only boosts your now battered ego which has forced you to pretending you've triumphed over her. My prognosis: you're living dangerously defined by your ex's actions.

She won't cheat again and get away with it. She has attempted suicide to get me to stay. I don't care if she does. Do you get that?

To me bringing my kids up is more important than pride over something that happened in the past and the woman is unbelievable sorry for.

She is more or less my servant now. Does anything for me. I have always been very close to my kids. They see what my ex has been through to "keep" me. They see that she treats me with 100% real respect.

Seems more like bluster to me. If you really didn't care if she commits suicide, you wouldn't have her living with you and the kids. You wouldn't kiss her and have sex with her. That, or you're a psychopath, and she was justified in finding affection from the empathetic Jamaican.

The rest of your posts follow the same routine: wildly conflicting claims and the several indications that your wife's infidelity is making you sociopathic. I'd advise you to cut ties now before you do a "Chris Benoit". At the very least, stop using her to boost your fragile ego: she'll only eventually remember why she fell out of love with your punk ass. I'm understanding your wife's actions better, by the way.

 

[BlvdBrawler]

Ok, I don't want to give up on this:


You missed my point. It wasn't about chickens or Disneyland. It was about being there for my children and giving them a good life.

I understand that you feel "empowered" by your decision to relegate your once wife to your servant, but are you happy with it? I mean, if it was me, I wouldn't wanna see her around my house at all, regardless of whether she was cooking and cleaning and succing dikk on a meteoric level. I just wouldn't be able to look at her.

So I get wanting to be there for the kids and all that, but are you really happy with the way this turned out? Also, you have to know she's still sleeping with the other dude. Right?

 

[Ben De Toy]

make a post in that infidelity thread in talkaboutmarriage and then we can confirm if it is real

Haha just for you guys, I am going to make a post in the thread y'all picked up on. I will delete it in a few minutes, but check it out:

http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping...ut-really-struggling-long-16.html#post8082841

 

[posterchild336]

hold on dont you have to legally support your spouse after 10 years of marriage even when you divorce? She has a plot just wait...she is not in it until "death do us part" unless she kills ur a$$ first and walks away with the nest egg thats getting bigger over time, and assets...

 

[Cabbage Patch]

phil hartman got shot when he was sleeping

andrea yeates drowned her kids


at this point I feel sorry for dude

I remember that. That was terrible. Phil Hartman took the crackhead back in, because he believed things could change and she could change; and he ended up being murdered by her. Sometimes, you have to let go and let God.