Wife has been having EA with my business rival
Me and my wife are small business owners. We have owned a Japanese restaurant for 5 years. We have been successful with our business and we have thought about expanding within the next 3 or 4 years. About 2 years ago, A Vietnamese restaurant opened up down the street. The owner was trying to steal our customers so he spread lies about how our kitchen was dirty and how we failed inspection. I only found out about this from my son, who attends private school with his daughter.
Many of our dishes are the same so that is the reason why he try to steal my customer. To tell you the truth, I have tasted their dishes and I do not like them. When I found out about the lies from my son, I confronted him in his restaurant. HE was a coward and didn't want to face me like a man. He called the police but I left before I got arrested.
Since then, there has always been a major rivalry between our business. We are both guilty of trying to get the upper hand on each other and I'm not ashamed of this.
On last Tuesday, my son came home crying. He told me that my rival's daughter said that my wife gave her daddy a hand job. I knew this couldn't be true but this was not something he could make up. I was ready to march down to his place and stick my shoe off the side of his face. I was so upset that I told my wife but she surprised me. Her reaction was delayed and she seemed worried. I knew something wasn't right. Instead of confronting him, I laid in wait to find out the truth.
I checked my wife's phone and email account. She gave me the passwords and I couldn't find anything. I felt relieved and stupid for questioning her. This morning, it was slow so my wife wanted to go for a walk in the park. I knew I could hold things down until she got back. I started to use her ipad and did some angry birds. I also went on the online and noticed she had a hotmail account open. This was red flags since we both use apple me accounts.
I opened the hotmail and I read dozens of emails between her and someone else. I snooped and the messages were very inappropriate. They went on about meeting up for lunch and sharing a bowl of soup. I had no idea who this other person was until I go to the emails where they sent each other pictures!
MY wife sent him a picture of her standing in our work kitchen with no shirt on! He sent a picture of his lower body with no pants. I could tell by those chicken legs that it was him!!!! I started to get weak and I couldn't think straight. I went and sent all the emails to my account so I could look at them more closely later. I barely finished the day and she kept drilling me to see what was wrong. I stayed strong and I didn't say a word.
I have put together a timeline and from their message, it looks like they have never had sex. They have sent pictures to each other and have met for lunch. She would make up excuse to leave me cooking by myself so she could go meet up to chat with him.
How could she do this to me? I have given her everything she needed to I bust my ass for our business. I always wanted to shake up our marriage but didn't know how. They talked about sex and she told him how she likes it. She never does those things with me. She only does missionary. Is this some sort of fantasy for her and should I intervene? Out of all the people in the world, she chose him and he is married!!! He is my worse enemy and I know if I confront him, one of us will be in jail. Where do I begin this?
what a snake