I just found the goat site..http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/

[FaTaL]

Betrayed by the two most important men in my life...What should I do?

I will try to keep this as short as possible if I can. I have been lurking on this forum for a few months now because I suspected my husband was being unfaithful to me. We have been married for a few years now and we have 2 beautiful daughters together. He started acting strange a couple months ago by not wanting to have sex with me and wanting to be alone a lot more. I thought he was cheating on me so I have been monitoring his email and phone and he has not called anyone out of the ordinary. I have never been that close to my parents but my husband has always been closer to them and they seemed to like him.

On Valentine's day, I got the news. When I came home from work, my husband was sitting on the couch with my father. I thought it was awkward because I wanted to be alone with my husband on Valentine's. They told me to sit down because they had something to tell me. I sat down and nothing could prepare me for what I was about to hear. MY husband told me that he has been sleeping with my father for the past 4 months and that he was in love with him. At first I thought it was a joke but they were both dead serious. Once I realized they were serious, I freaked out and started going crazy. My father calmed me down but I spit in his face. He tried to make it seem like everything was going to be ok and I should accept their relationship if I really love them. Words cannot describe how much this has hurt me. I had no idea my husband was gay and even then, I would never expect for him to sleep with my father. My father is separated right now because of the situation but my mom had no idea this was going on either.

After fighting and screaming, I finally left the house and I am staying with my girlfriend. My little girls are with that monster now but when I talked to them, they were safe and didn't know about the situation. I talked to my husband on the phone today and he says that he wants to move out and get a apartment with my father to start a new life. I swear they are both like 2 brand new people to me and I am devastated. He also said that he wants to give him custody of the girls so they can stay with him. I said hell no and he threatened to make things much harder for me if I don't comply.

What should I do? I am totally lost and the past 2 days have been a nightmare. I could have never saw this coming and I would have much prefered my husband to cheat with another woman than to violate me like this. I totally hate my father now and I have not spoken to him since that day. MY mother doesn't seem to surprised since she said that my father had a similar episode before in their marriage. I have no idea what that means because she didn't give me the whole story. Please somebody help me with some advice.

 

[the next guy]

Black man + White woman = Highest divorce rate
Black woman + White man = Lowest divorce rate

Divorced or had been Divorced:
Whites
27 %
African-Americans
22 %

What is the common denominator with the higher divorce rates

In fairness, the second one rarely happens so the rate being low should not be surprising

 

[CJ]

We gonna have to upgrade from the bushes and head to the corn fields and vineyards. Running out of space for these sad motherfukkas.

 

[ClassyME]

That'll make someone wanna tell their partner

Spoiler

We could see other people n still be together baby...

 

[Taadow]

Greg was concerned and had the idea that maybe we should satisfy each other. I thought he was kidding but he was dead serious. Once he explained himself, it made sense. We are young men in our twenties with women that we love. We cannot leave them over this but that doesn't mean we shouldn't be happy. I agree that Greg doesn't sleep around and he feels the same about me. We are both heterosexual men also.

 

[Kings County]

I had to take a breathe after the bolded... atleast the dude was a cheater too cause this would have been another one for the books.

my ass woulda been out fukk outta here

 

[Metta World Movement]

We need more stories of women being cheated on

The men have taken enough of a beating in here

 

[Kings County]

Betrayed by the two most important men in my life...What should I do?

I will try to keep this as short as possible if I can. I have been lurking on this forum for a few months now because I suspected my husband was being unfaithful to me. We have been married for a few years now and we have 2 beautiful daughters together. He started acting strange a couple months ago by not wanting to have sex with me and wanting to be alone a lot more. I thought he was cheating on me so I have been monitoring his email and phone and he has not called anyone out of the ordinary. I have never been that close to my parents but my husband has always been closer to them and they seemed to like him.

On Valentine's day, I got the news. When I came home from work, my husband was sitting on the couch with my father. I thought it was awkward because I wanted to be alone with my husband on Valentine's. They told me to sit down because they had something to tell me. I sat down and nothing could prepare me for what I was about to hear. MY husband told me that he has been sleeping with my father for the past 4 months and that he was in love with him. At first I thought it was a joke but they were both dead serious. Once I realized they were serious, I freaked out and started going crazy. My father calmed me down but I spit in his face. He tried to make it seem like everything was going to be ok and I should accept their relationship if I really love them. Words cannot describe how much this has hurt me. I had no idea my husband was gay and even then, I would never expect for him to sleep with my father. My father is separated right now because of the situation but my mom had no idea this was going on either.

After fighting and screaming, I finally left the house and I am staying with my girlfriend. My little girls are with that monster now but when I talked to them, they were safe and didn't know about the situation. I talked to my husband on the phone today and he says that he wants to move out and get a apartment with my father to start a new life. I swear they are both like 2 brand new people to me and I am devastated. He also said that he wants to give him custody of the girls so they can stay with him. I said hell no and he threatened to make things much harder for me if I don't comply.

What should I do? I am totally lost and the past 2 days have been a nightmare. I could have never saw this coming and I would have much prefered my husband to cheat with another woman than to violate me like this. I totally hate my father now and I have not spoken to him since that day. MY mother doesn't seem to surprised since she said that my father had a similar episode before in their marriage. I have no idea what that means because she didn't give me the whole story. Please somebody help me with some advice.

trolling i cant fathom this

 

[the next guy]

I'm sure some people think this will last Audra McDonald Is Married - Weddings, Tony Awards, Porgy and Bess, The Gershwins' Porgy and Bess, Audra McDonald, Will Swenson : People.com

 

[Monoblock]

Betrayed by the two most important men in my life...What should I do?

I will try to keep this as short as possible if I can. I have been lurking on this forum for a few months now because I suspected my husband was being unfaithful to me. We have been married for a few years now and we have 2 beautiful daughters together. He started acting strange a couple months ago by not wanting to have sex with me and wanting to be alone a lot more. I thought he was cheating on me so I have been monitoring his email and phone and he has not called anyone out of the ordinary. I have never been that close to my parents but my husband has always been closer to them and they seemed to like him.

On Valentine's day, I got the news. When I came home from work, my husband was sitting on the couch with my father. I thought it was awkward because I wanted to be alone with my husband on Valentine's. They told me to sit down because they had something to tell me. I sat down and nothing could prepare me for what I was about to hear. MY husband told me that he has been sleeping with my father for the past 4 months and that he was in love with him. At first I thought it was a joke but they were both dead serious. Once I realized they were serious, I freaked out and started going crazy. My father calmed me down but I spit in his face. He tried to make it seem like everything was going to be ok and I should accept their relationship if I really love them. Words cannot describe how much this has hurt me. I had no idea my husband was gay and even then, I would never expect for him to sleep with my father. My father is separated right now because of the situation but my mom had no idea this was going on either.

After fighting and screaming, I finally left the house and I am staying with my girlfriend. My little girls are with that monster now but when I talked to them, they were safe and didn't know about the situation. I talked to my husband on the phone today and he says that he wants to move out and get a apartment with my father to start a new life. I swear they are both like 2 brand new people to me and I am devastated. He also said that he wants to give him custody of the girls so they can stay with him. I said hell no and he threatened to make things much harder for me if I don't comply.

What should I do? I am totally lost and the past 2 days have been a nightmare. I could have never saw this coming and I would have much prefered my husband to cheat with another woman than to violate me like this. I totally hate my father now and I have not spoken to him since that day. MY mother doesn't seem to surprised since she said that my father had a similar episode before in their marriage. I have no idea what that means because she didn't give me the whole story. Please somebody help me with some advice.

 

[#1 pick]

I refuse to believe that all these stories are trolls because there are just too many…..Here are a couple more that "stand out".

Convincing wife that I still love her even though I cheated

I am having a major problem here. I have been married for 3 years and me and my wife has 2 daughters together. We are both 25 and only months apart in age. I also have a best friend who I will call Greg. Me and Greg have been close since high school and he is engaged. His fiance cannot have children so of course, he doesn't have kids. He is supposed to get married next April and I will be the best man.

Me and Greg can be described as best friends. We shared a dorm for 2 years in college and we have a lot of things in common. I would say that I am more sexual than him. His fiance is very religious so according to him, she is not comfortable with doing kinky things in the bedroom. She also does not give him oral sex because she says it is degrading. Greg has decided to stay with her because he loves her for so many other reasons.

In regards to my own marriage, the sex has diminished since we got married. My wife used to give me oral sex all the time but the frequency got less and less. I started to press her about it and one day, she snapped. She told me that she never enjoyed doing it and that she doesn't want to do it anymore. This hurt me because I felt I was conned. The sex was good when we got married and I was under the impression that she would always give me bjs. I should have tried to find the cause of her stopping this but it's too late for that now.

Me and Greg used to casually talk about our sex lives but one day at the pool, I told him how upset she made me. I told him how it wasn't fair that she wouldn't give me this anymore and how she would probably feel if I withheld giving oral to her. Greg was concerned and had the idea that maybe we should satisfy each other. I thought he was kidding but he was dead serious. Once he explained himself, it made sense. We are young men in our twenties with women that we love. We cannot leave them over this but that doesn't mean we shouldn't be happy. I agree that Greg doesn't sleep around and he feels the same about me. We are both heterosexual men also.

I decided to give his plan a try and I admit that we both got addicted. We would get together at different times and give each other what we wanted. We never had sex, we only satisfied each other orally. It would be to the point that we would meet up at lunch to satisfy each other in the car. Again, we never had sex and we are both happy in our relationships. We just have a bond that we acted on and that I now regret.

Apparently, Greg's fiance has suspected him of meeting up with his ex. She is somewhat insecure even though he is a good guy and I know he hasn't seen his ex in months. His fiance hired a PI and she found out about our arrangement. The PI took pictures of us both committing the same act over a period of 4 days. His fiance made copies of the pictures and gave them to my wife. I'm sure you know what happened next.

Now my wife wants a divorce. She says i'm dirty, gay, and a liar. I tried to explain our arrangement but she doesn't understand or want to listen. I told her that if she would have kept giving me what I wanted, this would never had happened. She is willing to give up everything we built because of this. To make matters worse, Greg's fiance has called off the wedding and doesn't want to see him. It hurts me because he was so happy with her and I feel that I was the cause of this.

What should I do? I want to fix my marriage and be back with my wife. I would also like to be in my daughters wife. I never thought I would get caught but it's too late for that now. Also, what can I do for Greg to save his wedding? I told my wife that it was my idea although it was really his. I thought at the time that he would benefit from my lying and be able to save his wedding. Apparently, that didn't work as she still wants to leave him. Please I hope someone has experience with this.

Between this and that Johnson's bullshyt, I can't read no more homo shyt anymore.


I am about to watch my church broadcast.

 

[CJ]

Alot of people are calling that husband/father in law story a troll post. Not surprised. Apparently six weeks ago some guy posted about having a relationship with his father in law. That was deleted though.

Either way:

He said that he's glad he met me so he could meet my father and he also sent me many explicit things about their ongoing relationship. He also said that he was blowing my dad's back out while me and the girls were in the house playing on the wii.

 

[JBoy]

Betrayed by the two most important men in my life...What should I do?

I will try to keep this as short as possible if I can. I have been lurking on this forum for a few months now because I suspected my husband was being unfaithful to me. We have been married for a few years now and we have 2 beautiful daughters together. He started acting strange a couple months ago by not wanting to have sex with me and wanting to be alone a lot more. I thought he was cheating on me so I have been monitoring his email and phone and he has not called anyone out of the ordinary. I have never been that close to my parents but my husband has always been closer to them and they seemed to like him.

On Valentine's day, I got the news. When I came home from work, my husband was sitting on the couch with my father. I thought it was awkward because I wanted to be alone with my husband on Valentine's. They told me to sit down because they had something to tell me. I sat down and nothing could prepare me for what I was about to hear. MY husband told me that he has been sleeping with my father for the past 4 months and that he was in love with him. At first I thought it was a joke but they were both dead serious. Once I realized they were serious, I freaked out and started going crazy. My father calmed me down but I spit in his face. He tried to make it seem like everything was going to be ok and I should accept their relationship if I really love them. Words cannot describe how much this has hurt me. I had no idea my husband was gay and even then, I would never expect for him to sleep with my father. My father is separated right now because of the situation but my mom had no idea this was going on either.

After fighting and screaming, I finally left the house and I am staying with my girlfriend. My little girls are with that monster now but when I talked to them, they were safe and didn't know about the situation. I talked to my husband on the phone today and he says that he wants to move out and get a apartment with my father to start a new life. I swear they are both like 2 brand new people to me and I am devastated. He also said that he wants to give him custody of the girls so they can stay with him. I said hell no and he threatened to make things much harder for me if I don't comply.

What should I do? I am totally lost and the past 2 days have been a nightmare. I could have never saw this coming and I would have much prefered my husband to cheat with another woman than to violate me like this. I totally hate my father now and I have not spoken to him since that day. MY mother doesn't seem to surprised since she said that my father had a similar episode before in their marriage. I have no idea what that means because she didn't give me the whole story. Please somebody help me with some advice.

I completely understand if she would commit that

 

[thegreatwb]

Alot of people are calling that husband/father in law story a troll post. Not surprised. Apparently six weeks ago some guy posted about having a relationship with his father in law. That was deleted though.

Either way:

 

[Kings County]

Alot of people are calling that husband/father in law story a troll post. Not surprised. Apparently six weeks ago some guy posted about having a relationship with his father in law. That was deleted though.

Either way: