She won't cheat again and get away with it. She has attempted suicide to get me to stay. I don't care if she does. Do you get that?
To me bringing my kids up is more important than pride over something that happened in the past and the woman is unbelievable sorry for.
She is more or less my servant now. Does anything for me. I have always been very close to my kids. They see what my ex has been through to "keep" me. They see that she treats me with 100% real respect.
What you guys don't seem to get is that I've taken the tough choice. Broken a cycle so my children won't make the same choices.
Being a man isn't about talking crap and telling folk they are betas. It's about delivering on stuff. Keeping a family together. Making hard choices.
I have a good life. Do you get that? I earn a lot of money. My ex wife adores me. My kids love me. I have a great house.
I can look any man in the eye and tell him that. I didn't cut and run. I won't have kids by different women and my children won't think that's normal.
My family have done everything from visiting Disneyland 5 times to stroking whales, to swimming with dolphins and giant turtles, seeing Israel; Egypt; the African Jungle; Paris; sailing, kayaking; owning a pony. We keep chickens and ducks. Sometimes get snowed in. Build snowmen. Watch movies together.
They have material stuff, great lives, a mother that loves them. No neighbours. A lifestyle that is the envy of many people - whatever their colour.
Finally, they have a father that is always there for them. That doesn't live somewhere else and visits for the weekend or whenever their skank mother can fit things in because the court system hates men.
You may all think your lives are great, but maybe your priorities are different from mine.