honestly your brother messed up and its to late, i dont mean to be harsh but i warn men daily about the trials and tribulations of wifing up single moms, esp single moms with 2 kids.
lets see all the red flags
single mom
single mom with 2 kids
one baby dad had been killed, and im sure it wasnt fighting a war in iraq
what did this nikka expect? and to make it worse he had to procreate with her. I';d get a dna test on the daughter wouldn't be shocked if its not even his, and if it isn't bounce.
this is what happens when you get to emotional and give your heart to a woman.
This is what happens when you don't listen to advice of the ppl around you who cares the most.
your brother knows that he may be responsible for the other two kids right? this isn't just ill take my child with the dna (if its his) and theother two go to grandma, by wifing up a single mom you accept the role of dad, THE COURT WILL NOT LET YOU PICK AND CHOOSE WHICH CHILD YOU CAN HAVE.