I know us black men aren’t perfect, but some of you females need to let this bitterness and hurt go

[DropTopDoc]

No we don’t.
Also considering the majority of comments are from black women condemning her views and speaking against on other timelines. Take random Twitterist word as vocal majority is not it. Her only defense is her bragging about her LLM.

So the 200 plus likes that comment got was arbitrary?? Ain’t no telling how many “silent” likes she got, i can walk back the word “a lot”, because it’s hard to quantify that, and clearly it’s sistahs checking for us, but to keep it a thou-wow her line of thinking it’s not few far and between, i can def add that i have heard some females that i have come across with this mentality, but it doesn’t even have to be as blatant as that statement, how many women you know always posting on fb with something to say negative about brothers ?? Or always posting a meme condemning us??

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

So the 200 plus likes that comment got was arbitrary?? Ain’t no telling how many “silent” likes she got, i can walk back the word “a lot”, because it’s hard to quantify that, and clearly it’s sistahs checking for us, but to keep it a thou-wow her line of thinking it’s not few far and between, i can def add that i have heard some females that i have come across with this mentality, but it doesn’t even have to be as blatant as that statement, how many women you know always posting on fb with something to say negative about brothers ?? Or always posting a meme condemning us??

200 Likes?? R u serious? 200 likes out of thousands of black females on twitter and you think that sets a position. Prior to this viral tweet of hers - she was averaging a whole 1-2 likes per post. I scroll down 2 comments; this is the first that I see and that's coming from a black woman: (so obviously she's getting checked off top)
"Girl yo whole argument is a joke. I hope you don’t raise your black kids to be as ignorant as you. Clearly we know that education on paper doesn’t mean a damn thing when you lack common sense. Lol you go heal your extra hurt heart "
The specific answer to your question: That would be a Zero. Nada. Reason being I have no FB, don't follow FB and definitely don't pay attention to or take meme's seriously. Respectfully. This is one of the reasons- I don't let social media dictate how I move or feel on race issues; anyone who I surround myself with needs to do the same. I can't figure out someone's perspective off random rants bc the majority of people get on social media for validation or to get people to feel sorry for them, that empathy ploy- but never talk about their own negatives. Tbh- the OP of that twitter thread seems to lack substance herself and basic af - so my experience is not going to be hers. Like attracts like. If we're letting twitter trends speak on black men, then according to them, all yall would be emasculated female having tendencies- beta c00n robots with the inability to think or have an opinion. That's not my definition of a black man. My female friends and associations in real life, are not walking around constantly complaining about men or speaking negative about yall; making generalizations. Do we discuss individual situations that we have experienced?.. of course, however.. a constructive conversation is way different than walking around blanket bashing men and holding all black men responsible for actions of a few. Bait and switch tactics imo. Never ending cycle of one side blaming the other side off emotional responses instead of thinking subjectively.

 

[DropTopDoc]

200 Likes?? R u serious? 200 likes out of thousands of black females on twitter and you think that sets a position. The specific answer to your question: That would be a Zero. Nada. Reason being I have no FB, don't follow FB and definitely don't pay attention to or take meme's seriously. Respectfully. This is one of the reasons- I don't let social media dictate how I move or feel on race issues; anyone who I surround myself with needs to do the same. I can't figure out someone's perspective off random rants bc the majority of people get on social media for validation or to get people to feel sorry for them, that empathy ploy- but never talk about their own negatives. Tbh- the OP of that twitter thread seems to lack substance herself and basic af - so my experience is not going to be hers. Like attracts like. If we're letting twitter trends speak on black men, then according to them, all yall would be emasculated female having tendencies- beta c00n robots with the inability to think or have an opinion. That's not my definition of a black man. My female friends and associations in real life, are not walking around constantly complaining about men or speaking negative about yall; making generalizations. Do we discuss individual situations that we have experienced?.. of course, however.. a constructive conversation is way different than walking around blanket bashing men and holding all black men responsible for actions of a few. Bait and switch tactics imo. Never ending cycle of one side blaming the other side off emotional responses instead of thinking subjectively.

I’m not saying set the trend, i even followed it up with the sistahs show us love, my point was that women of the same mindset are not so few, regardless of who you surround yourself with, we as men do come across this type of black women

 

[AAKing23]

I support people snitching on this bytch and taking it to the next level

All you "the black woman is god" dudes need to accept chicks like this don't love you.

And there's lots who think just like her

She graduated from law school and look at who she posts on her twitter page.

Lo and behold.. Boris Kodjoe, Morris Chestnut, dude from Insecure, etc..

She wants a man that's "on her level" or above that also looks like a male model and is in the gym 5x a week year round.

The vast majority of these men ain't looking to settle down anytime soon, and the ones that are, already cuffed.

We need to have a conversation about women shooting out their league far too often

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

She bored and needs a hobby

This bytch needs a man, but all the men she wants are taken. Stop posting these birds on this damn forum

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

She graduated from law school and look at who she posts on her twitter page.

Lo and behold.. Boris Kodjoe, Morris Chestnut, dude from Insecure, etc..

She wants a man that's "on her level" or above that also looks like a male model and is in the gym 5x a week year round.

The vast majority of these men ain't looking to settle down anytime soon, and the ones that are, already cuffed.

But she'll settle for a no-name cac with a "dad body" in a heartbeat yet have superficial standards for men and would pass up a @String Bell type of law student who was in her class because he wasn't as buff or perfect like those men she posted.

 

[Youseenmywork]

She got dragged on Twitter trust me even the women was like

 

[EBK String]

yes indeed family, another black immigrant wench. Go donate to buck breaking on kickstarter and purchase my new Tariq elite step boots 2.0

 

[EBK String]

But she'll settle for a no-name cac with a "dad body" in a heartbeat yet have superficial standards for men and would pass up a @String Bell type of law student who was in her class because he wasn't as buff or perfect like those men she posted.

I am buff and handsome like those nikkas

 

[Youseenmywork]

It’s been a silent war between black men and black women for sometime now but nobody wants to have a respectable conversation about it thoe ...this shyt goes way back ...

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

And there's lots who think just like her



We need to have a conversation about women shooting out their league far too often

and there's lots who don't think like her, on that very same twitter feed

and I do not disagree with you at all about women "shooting out their league", dumb girl really thinks the likes of morris chestnut or boris are checking for that basic LLM and still can't get her mind right. same with women who like to finesse, thinking sex=value or control.
Classic example of letting the media dictate.
But I think in general, both men and women are having unrealistic expectations when it comes to relationship situations. It's important to know your role. Having standards is necessary but whatever you're expecting the other person to bring to the table, the other person needs to make sure they're contributing value and bringing substance. Referred to as equally yoked-upbringing, decision making process, beliefs, finances, knowledge and even appearance have to be in sync with each other. If there's no connection; there's no foundation.

 

[Whogivesafuck]

And there's lots who think just like her



We need to have a conversation about women shooting out their league far too often

She is wearing a girdle in her latest photos.

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

I try to avoid women who think just like her and you wanna know why I do so? Because they're bitter, miserable & mentally unstable and they want everybody else to suffer like there's a reason why they have no man and rants like hers is one of the main reasons.

What kinda women out here actually think men are going to want them especially if they're constantly making cruel/harsh rants about men, like that's what I don't understand .

Talk about "not getting wife'd up" etc after you've done talked so badly about men what kinda logic is that
I'm convinced some of these women don't really want a man let alone be married (just shyt talking for social media clout, daps/likes & a following) based off how much they rant sporadically .

 

[Dolla$]

Let it go brehettes it’s not that seriousness

They’re flaming her in the comments...majority black women too

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

I’m not saying set the trend, i even followed it up with the sistahs show us love, my point was that women of the same mindset are not so few, regardless of who you surround yourself with, we as men do come across this type of black women

what's your reaction to women who think like that though? Do you curve them or sit there and wait around expecting them to change. Like if a man came up to me talking about "don't marry black women.. yada yada," I'm not dealing with them or any type of level. I don't see the point of wasting time with people that I don't vibe with.