I know us black men aren’t perfect, but some of you females need to let this bitterness and hurt go

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what's your reaction to women who think like that though? Do you curve them or sit there and wait around expecting them to change. Like if a man came up to me talking about "don't marry black women.. yada yada," I'm not dealing with them or any type of level. I don't see the point of wasting time with people that I don't vibe with.

I might hear it on the initial conversation but beyond that, nah I’m not dealing with that bs small mindedness
 

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If you're mistreated once by a man, that's on him. If you're mistreated 10 times by 10 other men, thats on you. This goes for you pawgset negus too. You teach people how to treat you and you tell them what you are and arent okay with.

Expecting someone to change who has shown time and time again that they wont is something YOU need to deal with and walk away from.

The frustration these women feel stems from the fact that the man won't change for her. You want a man who is handsome, doing better than you financially, is tall, is very fit, very intelligent without being condescending, etc. You want a man that any woman would want. The problem is you're not interested in a man who is your equal. You want a man who can do better than you, but then are upset when he does. Good black men exist, but many women are conditioned to want the man ANY woman would want, rather than a man that will value them specifically and hold them down. Meanwhile other women will be saying "dont settle sis"
 

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I always try to relay this message in a way that won't come off as condescending. I know how annoying "Let that hurt go, sis" can come off, but that's really what has to be done. Seen so many hurt sistas do a number on good men that were there to uplift them in their times of need. Sometimes a few would even cheat on the good brothas for the ain't shyt dude, which is pretty fukked up in itself. Some of these same women will go on to have children, and as expected, the vicious cycle of bitterness will continue.

People have to be judged on a case-by-case basis. I lost count of the amount of times all brothas were painted with a broad brush based on the behavior of a few. The ones who aren't on that dumb shyt are considered "Unicorns" amongst us, while men that are non-black can be judged as individuals. Just ass backwards thinking.
 

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I support people snitching on this bytch and taking it to the next level :mjlit:

All you "the black woman is god" dudes need to accept chicks like this don't love you.

Its not about if these chicks love you or not,these women are hurt,unnurtured,demented and tormented. As someone who is in the "black woman is god" camp,I'm more of an OG Bobby Johnson type figure. Realizing while I was out here being a demon,I was misleading my women and my children,because I didn't have the proper wisdom yet. Alot of you black men out here want to come back from your former demonic lifestyle,get out of jail,and come back to your woman being a saint,and Bobby Junior being the perfect child:mjlol:. That ain't how it works,you have to come back out with your new found wisdom,reject and check the unrighteous. As a man you have to accept the hate because you had a hand in it. Either because you participated in it,or you claim to be a righteous man but remained silent never bothered saying anything. as you watched other black men and women do destructive things to each other,and participate in reckless lifestyles. The righteous men standing our ground
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OP Was right to post this. Women are more social than men and they keep the group together but this also leads to a lot of influence. A year from now a thread like this will pop up from a dude who went out with a chick who states this same this same shyt and he's gonna remember this post.
nikkas need to stop playing dumb and act like twitter trends aren't followed and practiced by the vulnerable.
 

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another c00n bytch :shaq2: she wants a black man with options but she's hurt because they not 100% committing to her

so now all black men are trash, honestly black women like her ruin the community, I'll gladly escort her off to the plantation and shackle her to the outhouse



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This is the type of lawyer that defended Bill Cosby and prosecuted RKelly. The type that arrested them boys in the Baltimore Uprising and let go those cops who killed that man in the back of the patty-wagon. Think about that. Monique Presely really showed her ass on what she reaally thinks about you nikkas after Bill was sent away. You thought you hired a sista who is on your side and can empathize with your plight as a black man. But in reality they have fallen into the trap of feminism and receiving butter biscuits from white society and they see you as beneath them. These hoes really hate your straight black ass and it shows. If youre not perfect to them, then you are less than nothing.
 
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