I know why people think people aren't born gay

[Kobe24]

Attraction isn't a choice, it's an involuntary reaction. You don't say damn I'm gonna find that girl hot, you just do. It's who you are. Gays/lesbians are no different. They didn't decide to be attracted to their own sex, they are, and that is most likely something they were born with, just as straight people never decided or chose to be straight, they just are.

Phase the question in a different way: When did us straight people decide not to be gay? See how stupid that logic is?

shyt isn't rocket science.

Youre a horndog bro get some puss from a real bytch dude if your fukking ugly girls you might aswell beat forreal thats why u having shady thoughts.

 

[Kitsch]

Saying gay people chose to be gay for attention is like saying blacks chose to be black so we could be enslaved. It makes no fukking sense.

 

[ben anderson]

Good to get perspective from an actual homosexual. Thanks for sharing breh

oh wow so cool so edgy. get oyur stupid fukking ass outa my thread dumb fakkit.

 

[Will Ross]

Why is being gay the only act that people say they can't control?

 

[wet landscapes]

some of them aren't born gay.


Some people really are hardwired to need attention and physical affection like that.

If they "starve" for it and they aren't getting it from the opposite sex, they get it any way they can. If it means getting it from the same gender, then so be it. As long as they're accepted. Dudes will do this because a lot of gay men are seeking the same level of acceptance from somebody.... plus it's a hell of an ego boost for them to "turn a straight man".

Or even some jail shyt. Dudes will crack because of mental stress and fatigue and have no one to turn to but other men.


You see this in women, as well. Look at all the women you see who start being lesbians simply because they're "tired of a man's shyt".


But I guess all in all, none of the above people are actually gay, right? Where does the line start and stop? Can't really say "you're not gay, you just faking it"

those women are just in the middle of the Kinsley scale
a lot of women could not perform sexual acts with a woman past kissing cuz they're just straight up not gay
if you can get off with a woman, you're automatically bi in my book
the thought of a woman not particularly liking their partners genitals but eating/touching them anyway seems really wierd to me

 

[Mr. Negative]

those women are just in the middle of the Kinsley scale
a lot of women could not perform sexual acts with a woman past kissing cuz they're just straight up not gay
if you can get off with a woman, you're automatically bi in my book
the thought of a woman not particularly liking their partners genitals but eating/touching them anyway seems really wierd to me

My best friend (who's bi) goes on rants about this all the time.

" how are you a lesbian and you don't like coochie!?"

 

[Knuckles Red]

What kills me about this "whole people are born gay argument" is sex is NOT a vital function for life. Pastors, nuns, etc... don't have to have sex to function in life, if there is such thing as a gay gene, there is such thing as a beastility gene, no way around that arguement. The laws of nature don't operate on the laws of man such as "consenting adults."
Society needs to be real with itself, sex is first off for procreation, second for pleasure, men have corrupted the"TRUE" nature of sex.

Where exactly does actually STAYING in your child's life and actually RAISING your child fall in line with this so called "true nature of sex?"

 

[JJ_ALL_DAY]

I honestly dont think people are born gay. Based upon what i have seen from certain family members your environment during early childhood plays a role. Also a lot of males that turn out gay always seem to have been sexually abused at one point in time as a child.

 

[SirShaktus]

I could see OP's theory making sense as one of the reason folks want to see people "choosing to be gay."
Not the end all, be all reason though.

at people thinking people are willing to be part of a demographic that, 2nd to black folks, are the most discriminated against throughout human history.

I do look at some of those females that switch sides when they get tired of dudes doing em wrong with the side eye. I mainly chalk it up to them being bisexual and female sexual fluidity and KIM.

 

[Knuckles Red]

There is a genetic component to Blackness, there isn't any verifiable genetic component to gayness. Comparing the two is downright stupid.

LOL, dumbass "blackness" is a social construct. Race isn't actual....dumbass.

 

[BlackBall]

Being born gay is a birth defect now ?

 

[Flay Mayweather]

I think some people are born gay

We're still far from understanding exactly how the human brain works. Attraction is deeper than what we think it is.....

There are people claiming "gay" who arent really gay, they're just sexual deviants :scustai:

 

[Imyremeshaw]

Where exactly does actually STAYING in your child's life and actually RAISING your child fall in line with this so called "true nature of sex?"

Your right no argument that says to raise your kids, but most mammals want to see there children succeed, or humans case do better than themselves, its kind of what separates people that succeed in life
Over the people that don't truthfully.......

 

[TheBEASTCOASTrevival]

lots of MD nikkas on here

another one

 

[JerseyFinest!]

I don't believe in that being born gay ish

Imo it all comes from the influences around you as an infant on up. If a lil boy is up under his Mom ALL the time, soaking up convos she has with her GF, All that stuff gets embedded in your mental.

My thing with ppl who have a issue with how somebody who believes in GOD views are illogical is...Your way of thinking is illogical to us. The whole idea we just evolved from magical atoms that originate from outta no where, sounds more foolish then any story in the bible