I literally get no play from my girl

QueenSheba

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Unless, your girl doesn't respect you as a man, you shouldn't be with her. If I'm in a long committed relationship with my partner, I'll treat him like a king. Back rubs, cooked food, send him sexy pictures while he's at work, etc.

I think your main girl is seeing another man and holding on to you because you have the resources to support her needs. You better leave her and find another women to fulfill your needs.
 
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If females decline intimacy that is a deal breaker and you bush that bytch.

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It's easy to just point and laugh and say what you would do if you were in the OP's shoes. But clearly he's invested in her for more reasons than just sex or else he wouldn't be on here talking about it. And women have more reasons for withholding sex than just "she's cheating" or "she's not attracted to him anymore".. She could be a victim of abuse or have some kind of PTSD that makes sex really uncomfortable. Who knows. Either way, I imagine it doesn't really help ol dude to just be like "pffftttt you lost you should have left her how can you just let this happen you p*ssy"

Man shut up its highly unlikely she all of a sudden has ptsd or remembered abuse if they had a healthy sexual relationship before

Maybe op got fat or has bad hygiene
 

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No back rubs
No hand jobs
No sexy pics during day
No neck
No buns

I talk about it and the answer I get is "you cant go a day without flipping on me i dont feel that way about you. Maybe you can be nice we can be on that level again"

:mjlol: bytch really using this shyt as a tool of punishment.. I even tell her... "Been months nothing should I find another girl to fulfill that aspect?" And there are other girls I could take the leap and get sucked or be fukking but I don't i'm loyal to a fault but whats the point of
Beating my meat constantly when I live with a bytch and boy does she earn every bit of that name.

I've been in this situation before. Leave her...I proposed to mine and was turned down. We had started dating 8 years ago.
 

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I dated a broad like that fine ass 5'5 redbone bytch attitude was nasty as hell i was even playing the step dad role, i was like 26 thats still too old for that shyt but I dipped. FDB
 
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No back rubs
No hand jobs
No sexy pics during day
No neck
No buns

I talk about it and the answer I get is "you cant go a day without flipping on me i dont feel that way about you. Maybe you can be nice we can be on that level again"

:mjlol: bytch really using this shyt as a tool of punishment.. I even tell her... "Been months nothing should I find another girl to fulfill that aspect?" And there are other girls I could take the leap and get sucked or be fukking but I don't i'm loyal to a fault but whats the point of
Beating my meat constantly when I live with a bytch and boy does she earn every bit of that name.


you need to dump her ass NOW!

Aint no woman who respects you use sex as a weapon against. I get it, you may be an ass, but she should not use it as bargaining chip to get in you control. If that's the case, she really isn't there for you like she should be.
 

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No shade to you or anything, honest. I'm just curious as to the whole "fukk them vows" thing. Why even get married? I've resigned myself to never getting married but it seems like everyone that does and has marital problems gives up so easily.

Material possessions and dikk just might be enough for her. You mentioned you are a good provider, etc but why is she depressed? What if she needs counseling and just wants you to be there or something? If you are married, her mood and expressing her issues to you shouldn't be bullshyt, imo.

Idk, I just find it odd that if a woman (or man) begins acting "off", the spouse wants to cheat and talk about how much their spouse never really mattered in the first place (i.e, look at all these women and/or men I could fukk if I wanted).

Also, why cheat? Why not just get a divorce if nothing changes in those 3 months? I guess with a child involved it complicates things; however, wouldn't it be better for parents to be happy and a part?
I aint gonna cheat cause my values dont allow it ...its just me talking tough...hell i have suggested everything but as a man u can only stand so much ..I am stacking some paper and will muster the courage to get out if this continues tho
 

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I aint gonna cheat cause my values dont allow it ...its just me talking tough...hell i have suggested everything but as a man u can only stand so much ..I am stacking some paper and will muster the courage to get out if this continues tho

damn breh, how long has it been before yall last got it in?
 
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