I literally get no play from my girl

[Express]

women...once they get complacent it's over...probably one of the reasons I ain't jumped the broom..

Fool me one time, shame on you
Fool me twice, can't put the blame on you
Fool me three times, fukk the peace signs
Load the chopper, let it rain on you

hahaha

 

[Da King]

I try going a day without arguing but when she gets to slick talking and calling me all types of names over petty stuff it gets old.

Woke me up out my sleep about neighbors talking outside and I asked why.. And she copped this attitude with me while
Im midnsleep and I told her stfu bytch and go to sleep let them people live goddamn.


I have to talk real harsh to her shes so petty, calls me a loser etc everyday and I'm not a loser.. As in.. I come home from work everyday and want to eat,shower relax and thats a problem... Im
Supposed to interact and not tend to anything else yet if I sit on the couch afterwork im
Dirty... (I have a corporate job sitting in my own office in the a/c all day)

I got a real hard time believing you that you're still with this girl if she really says that to you

 

[Action Mike]

Yea the entire 1 hr session was about my *legally prescribed herb usage

of course the whole therapy session is about you. The woman is absolved of ANY responsibility. It's about you and she's needed a cheer leader.

Any couple therapy is about the dude, and a waste of money.

In short. Bushes.

 

[mr. smoke weed]

All of thecoli doesn't have a coward big enough for this to be true

 

[.༼-◕_◕-༽.]

It's easy to just point and laugh and say what you would do if you were in the OP's shoes. But clearly he's invested in her for more reasons than just sex or else he wouldn't be on here talking about it. And women have more reasons for withholding sex than just "she's cheating" or "she's not attracted to him anymore".. She could be a victim of abuse or have some kind of PTSD that makes sex really uncomfortable. Who knows. Either way, I imagine it doesn't really help ol dude to just be like "pffftttt you lost you should have left her how can you just let this happen you p*ssy"

This is true.

 

[Reginald Noble]

You said you both are invested in living together which usually means one can’t make it without the other financially….1st MISTAKE. Don’t ever, ever, ever ever ever move in with a female, ever. What I mean by move in with a female is you either moving into her house where she pays the bills or moving into an apt together where you both share the responsibility on coming half with rent/mortgage. The first step in being a man is being able to hold down the fort with your own income, none of her’s. Her income is meant to assist your’s (helping paying bills) but you are the one who pays the bills that count (rent/mortgage)….When a woman knows you need her, she’ll play these games.

There is no way in hell my wife would dare deny me sex for any reason, because she knows I will shut shyt down asap, cut my sex off, cable getting cut…But that doesn’t even happen in my home so it won’t ever get to that point. A man must be the head and sole provider or women will lose respect and get ignorant.

Your woman is cheating, that much is obvious by her being repulsed by you…trust me, she is seeing someone else. If you are not married and have no kids, you would be an idiot to stay in this situation. Leave you idiot.

I know a lot of dudes even close to my age late 20s still at home or needing to shack up with a Woman to survive. It'sexpensive here in NYC. So that's not realistic for them in the short term. And you can't tell cats to go celibate either. This is why I say just get you a MILF that helps out with bills till you get your shyt together.

A lot of Millennial Females in the same poor financial shape that's why they need a sugar poppie or "Provider"...

Telling you man I used to live in Spain for a minute and this dynamic was a given and expected for both genders. Economy there is dead. Bernie for Prez means more opportunities for millennial Men and less Women on that stuff

women...once they get complacent it's over...probably one of the reasons I ain't jumped the broom..

Fool me one time, shame on you
Fool me twice, can't put the blame on you
Fool me three times, fukk the peace signs
Load the chopper, let it rain on you

The thing is American Women get complacent if you aren't taking them on Richard Branson /Dan Blitzerian lifestyle type espionage drama filled episodes. as of YESTERDAY.

 

[.༼-◕_◕-༽.]

I try going a day without arguing but when she gets to slick talking and calling me all types of names over petty stuff it gets old.

Woke me up out my sleep about neighbors talking outside and I asked why.. And she copped this attitude with me while
Im midnsleep and I told her stfu bytch and go to sleep let them people live goddamn.


I have to talk real harsh to her shes so petty, calls me a loser etc everyday and I'm not a loser.. As in.. I come home from work everyday and want to eat,shower relax and thats a problem... Im
Supposed to interact and not tend to anything else yet if I sit on the couch afterwork im
Dirty... (I have a corporate job sitting in my own office in the a/c all day)

She should not be calling you names. That's not cool. I really hope things get better. It sounds like you're making all the effort and she's not being reasonable.

 

[LadySimone]

I try going a day without arguing but when she gets to slick talking and calling me all types of names over petty stuff it gets old.

Woke me up out my sleep about neighbors talking outside and I asked why.. And she copped this attitude with me while
Im midnsleep and I told her stfu bytch and go to sleep let them people live goddamn.


I have to talk real harsh to her shes so petty, calls me a loser etc everyday and I'm not a loser.. As in.. I come home from work everyday and want to eat,shower relax and thats a problem... Im
Supposed to interact and not tend to anything else yet if I sit on the couch afterwork im
Dirty... (I have a corporate job sitting in my own office in the a/c all day)

OP you gotta leave her.

 

[benjamin]

I know a lot of dudes even close to my age late 20s still at home or needing to shack up with a Woman to survive. It'sexpensive here in NYC. .

i would live with my parents before i live in a house ran and paid for by a woman.

 

[LadySimone]

Going thru this as we speak...not a cheater I work and make good money....bought a Damn house in San Diego cook clean .. Not flabby.. good dad to our child...8+ inches but got that "I'm not happy" speech couple months ago. Its such bullshyt I work around fine ass women who want the D ....but still staying strong but let three months pass and it's on...fukk them vows

You guys gotta kid if you cheat and she find out it's going to be much worse. Your cheating will be seen as far worse than her attitude.

 

[LadySimone]

It's easy to just point and laugh and say what you would do if you were in the OP's shoes. But clearly he's invested in her for more reasons than just sex or else he wouldn't be on here talking about it. And women have more reasons for withholding sex than just "she's cheating" or "she's not attracted to him anymore".. She could be a victim of abuse or have some kind of PTSD that makes sex really uncomfortable. Who knows. Either way, I imagine it doesn't really help ol dude to just be like "pffftttt you lost you should have left her how can you just let this happen you p*ssy"

That's why you don't take advice from coli losers who don't have these problems because their lotion and right hand is their chick.

 

[PeridotPuss]

Couple observations, we ain't establish if OP is overweight or not....totally diff rules and dynamics for big nikkas

Is the gf white? Totally diff shyt dealing with white bytches....

Op has to leave because once a woman has lost respect for you, it isn't coming back. The complaints about the weed just let me know she has a long and deep list of shyt she doesn't like about you. The weed is just the one where she thought the therapist would support.

You're both insecure and codependent as exemplified by your fake family life with the animal and the unwillingness to break up, she's cutting you off, you're making threads.

Free yourself, trust the greatness in your future, release the attachment and move the fukk out and move the fukk on. This is stupid.

 

[Diondon]

This literally doesn't make sense

 

[Express]

I try going a day without arguing but when she gets to slick talking and calling me all types of names over petty stuff it gets old.

Woke me up out my sleep about neighbors talking outside and I asked why.. And she copped this attitude with me while
Im midnsleep and I told her stfu bytch and go to sleep let them people live goddamn.


I have to talk real harsh to her shes so petty, calls me a loser etc everyday and I'm not a loser.. As in.. I come home from work everyday and want to eat,shower relax and thats a problem... Im
Supposed to interact and not tend to anything else yet if I sit on the couch afterwork im
Dirty... (I have a corporate job sitting in my own office in the a/c all day)

never let a bytch call u a loser

 

[shutterguy]

Breh, that sounds like a toxic environment. It be best if yall both moved on. Once one person mentally checks out of the relationship, their is no saving it.

Leave. ASAP. Don't look back.

You motherfukkers can't be serious with this shyt. How you gonna call yourself a man and let your girl disrespect you whilst keeping that p*ssy from you

This.
The relationship is straight toxic to some extent on both sides.
All this "you should cheat" " she's acting like that cause she's cheating" doesn't even matter.

Just end that unproductive shyt.

Nothing but advice in these posts............ You and her ain't doing each other no favors staying together. I just went through a similar situation with my ex, once they make up their mind that they don't want to be with you, you might as well end it.