LadySimone
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Yes. Weight can be deceptive on many black women. We can pack the pounds and still look good because he goes to the butt, thighs and hips.
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Yes. Weight can be deceptive on many black women. We can pack the pounds and still look good because he goes to the butt, thighs and hips.
Yagirlcheatinonus
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Breh ugly ass fat people are in relationships or married, while fine women aren't.
If every damn she cute, she cool as hell chick was in a relationship then only a few owuld ever get a chick like that.
Especially in this generation where most relationships are just seasonal
I heard that...least till the clothes come off.
I remember how I was looking fall 2013. I was getting a little chubby face action going but thought it was all good. One day in the mirror at my job
spare tire starting to grow.Saw myself after getting out the shower that same night, hit the grocery store bought whole wheat pasta, fish, eggs, spinach, and broccoli. Never turned back, as I care how I look more than I care about how others care how I look. Being sexy is something I can't let go of.
I know, breh, it was a problem of the past. I just throw hail marys now if there is a decent woman, or at least I did till 3 years ago. Too much thinking is the enemy of good eating.
never sell yourself short. Just go with the flow, remember there are more single women of every demographic than ever before, although not all may be good
I just recently realized how out of shape I've been looking recently. You just get so comfortable that the motivation to workout kind of dwindles without even noticing. When I was single, my body looked good. I was toned, hair was looking good, booty was perky. Now everything is just 
. shyt is depressing. I'm back in the gym now. I'm going to get back to my pre-relationship looks.
. shyt is depressing. I'm back in the gym now. I'm going to get back to my pre-relationship looks.
BulletProof
Just a B@stard Living in a Suit
What's funny is, for chicks, it tends to be the opposite.
I just recently realized how out of shape I've been looking recently. You just get so comfortable that the motivation to workout kind of dwindles without even noticing. When I was single, my body looked good. I was toned, hair was looking good, booty was perky. Now everything is just
Aim to be even better, Brehette. When everybody checks you out, and your more portly comrades start making comments about how they feel when you are around, you will feel AMAZING. I was always slim, but putting on muscle (widening shoulders, slimming my waist, increasing arm/back size and improving my posture) made me feel better and it becomes a topic of conversation when other people bring it up. You also don't get sore doing menial tasks if you weight train...its a beautiful thing.
Cause she doesn't have to attract a mate, her looks will deteriorate. They let themselves go once they know someone else is secure with her insecurities.
That's my theory.
That's my theory.
That's funny.... most of the women I know that are in relationships are in shape.
Yes, indeed. I think too much, myself.
Get that piece of mind and one day go balls out. I haven't done it in a while, but occasionally I would take days out where I go against my nature and chat everyone up, try something new, and do it all solo for the day. Im due for that again sometime soon cause i've been lonely for a long ass time now. I can only blame myself for not making an effort.Yes, indeed. I think too much, myself.
Box Cutta
Bumbling Sidekick
Some women get a man and think it's safe and okay to start looking frumpy....