i love this girl breh.......

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:manny: ill feel nothing, i need to taste her... :takedat:

coli cash says if you jerk off and re-read this thread youll change your mind

I been there breh.. I done tossed so many hoes in my day. every once in a while I scroll through my phone and remenisce about certain chicks and think about calling...soon as I nut im like :childplease:
 

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Just my two cents, take it for what you wish...

You dont love her. If you loved her, you wouldnt have let her go. You let her go for a reason.

What you're feeling is that chemical reaction that you developed with her that isnt being satisfied. You're feeling a longing that comes with absence making the heart grow fonder. But thats not love. Thats just the heart in a panic, because it doesnt want to feel hurt and alone.

The above isnt absolute. There are always exceptions to the rule, but its the likely explanation. After all my breakups, I always had that immediate "what the fukk did I just do!" period, but after your emotions settle you realize your instincts were correct, and she wasnt the one.

And if she broke up with you, then she doesnt love you and you have to keep it pushing. Either way things will never be the same again. Once you break up once, its much easier to do it again.

What is "Love" breh??? :lupe:
 

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shouldnt i let my pride go though??? i know she could benefit me later.... trust me im not an emotional creature at all, im bein logical.... i think i was justified when i walked away but i think i made a mistake....

LOL...im not going to stop you from following your heart. That would be irresponsible of me. Just trying to provide a few words of caution from my experiences. Your emotions want you to pursue immediate happiness, whats familiar, whats natural to you...not necessarily whats right. The heart wants whats easy, and its easy to text her, get her in the bed tonight, fukk her, enjoy her company, and feel like everything will be alright and you'll live happily ever after. The harder part would be to gut it out, and live life as a single man, because such an outcome is fraught with uncertainty and many potential lonely nights.

In relationships we are constantly assessing and re-assessing the relationship. if you already internalized that she was special, and you couldnt live w/o her, then you wouldnt have let her go, and let things get to this point...not "realized and regretted" when you started feeling lonely and horny after bouncing.
 

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LOL...im not going to stop you from following your heart. That would be irresponsible of me. Just trying to provide a few words of caution from my experiences. Your emotions want you to pursue immediate happiness, whats familiar, whats natural to you...not necessarily whats right. The heart wants whats easy, and its easy to text her, get her in the bed tonight, fukk her, enjoy her company, and feel like everything will be alright and you'll live happily ever after. The harder part would be to gut it out, and live life as a single man, because such an outcome is fraught with uncertainty and many potential lonely nights.

In relationships we are constantly assessing and re-assessing the relationship. if you already internalized that she was special, and you couldnt live w/o her, then you wouldnt have let her go, and let things get to this point...not "realized and regretted" when you started feeling lonely and horny after bouncing.
i feel that breh...... she wasnt just my chick she was my best friend.....
The white girl?
nah the native girl... my bm the white girl.... :pacspit::camby:
 

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:youngsabo: i love her & ima ler her know it..... i want my wifey back.....

what if she hang up before i finish???? i at least wanna finish my love rant though....:lupe:
You should try calling first. If she rejects you, there will not be any evidence of you "simping" ,and she will be able to hear the pain in your voice which could make your words sound more meaningful.
Good luck:handshake:
 

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What is "Love" breh??? :lupe:

Goddamn, thats some meaning of life sht blood.

I KNOW love is not lust, and it aint that love at first sight hollywood bullsht. Thats bogus.

Just a few questions...

Do your feelings grow measurably after meeting dealing with this person? Or do they overall recede or remain static (outside of just wanting to fukk her)

Do you actually care whats on her mind (most of the time, lol), or do you tune out at the sound of her voice.

Can you not wait to introduce her to your mans...not your boys, but your partner in crime...and not necessarily your parents, because that can be complicated. Your partner in crime wants whats best for you, and knows you better than anyone. He'll know whats up, and you want him to approve of her.

Can you do nothing with this girl and enjoy it?

Do you reject that post nut clarity, and not want to flee from her as soon as bustin?

Does she make you feel good, outside of sukkin ya dikk and feeding you?

Do you reasonably trust her?

Do you get that burst of serotonin when you think about her when she aint around?

Do you think strong negative feelings about breaking up with her, or never seeing her again (basically valuing fukking other girls OVER being with her, and not necessarily being tempted to want to fukk other girls which is normal)

Answer positively to those questions, and I think you could be there. Ive come to point that there are a lot of socially created misconceptions about love, which creates internal noise around the idea and feeling. Love definitely means different things to different people.
 
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