"I Married A Guy I Wasn't Attracted To"

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

I wasn't even that hard on her. But as a Christian myself I think it's just a bit disingenuous to limit myself to a fraction of a fraction of a fraction of a fraction of a fraction of God's wondrous human creations and then toss in "and God fearing" on the end in a lame attempt to make it valid. Knowing damn well she's fukk with some 6'5 Edris Elba, Morris Chestnut, Chris Brown hybrid with $350 million in the bank even if dude was a Satanic Atheist. Besides, isn't everything God does.....good? So why limit yourself brehettes?

Christian Brehette - God, I need a man! A good, decent man! One who'll love me for me and love my six kids by possibly eight different baby daddies. Please hear my cries oh Lord.

God - Your cries are heard my child. Here you go.

Christian Brehette - That's it? I thought he was gonna be 6'5, Tupac in the streets, a Morris Chestnut character in the boardroom, and Trey Songz in the bedroom!

God -

 

[Blackout]

He's not hideous or anything just not model status. being a good man can easily overshadow that especially if he's a good provider. I would definitely marry a man who wasn't my type if he treated me right and has money. I can always cheat with a better looking nikka but when it comes time to build a life with someone there are more important things than looks.

Thanks for the truth.

Your personality showed that you were highly susceptible to doing this so whichever man ignores your superficial personality and went with you is the one who will get the L.

team personality > looks wins yet again.

 

[Bless't]

Texas.

The only standard I'll lower is the child thing. I really don't want a man with children at all, but if he has one, then that's fine. I can rock with that.

And I used to be into abs but as I've gotten older, the men I find attractive now don't have 6 packs .....they got that I gotta sh*t belly, so that's fine but no Rick Ross sh*t .

But the face has to be as close to a 10 as possible. So some things have changed but face and height are the things I notice about a man as well as how well he dresses. Doesn't have to be in a suit and tie, but he has to look clean.


My version of a 10 isn't necessarily what other women would call a 10.
I've listed several examples of what my ideal 10 would be (Roman Reigns, Damien Sandow -- gut and all lol, Fabrice Calmels the ballet dancer) and I've had reactions of all the way to .


So I don't know why some of y'all thinking I'm looking for this man that no one has ever seen before lol.

I don't think men who look like them are hard to pull .....................if you lived in an area of men like that .


Plus as soon as things get financially better for me and I get my money up I know the men pool will be absolutely


I'm gonna be just watch.

 

[Ninjaz In Paris]

I wasn't even that hard on her. But as a Christian myself I think it's just a bit disingenuous to limit myself to a fraction of a fraction of a fraction of a fraction of a fraction of God's wondrous human creations and then toss in "and God fearing" on the end in a lame attempt to make it valid. Knowing damn well she's fukk with some 6'5 Edris Elba, Morris Chestnut, Chris Brown hybrid with $350 million in the bank even if dude was a Satanic Atheist. Besides, isn't everything God does.....good? So why limit yourself brehettes?

Christian Brehette - God, I need a man! A good, decent man! One who'll love me for me and love my six kids by possibly eight different baby daddies. Please hear my cries oh Lord.

God - Your cries are heard my child. Here you go.

Christian Brehette - That's it? I thought he was gonna be 6'5, Tupac in the streets, a Morris Chestnut character in the boardroom, and Trey Songz in the bedroom!

God -

A problem I see with this type of Mindset is a lot of people who want God to send them a good spouse are deluded to their own shortcomings & poor character. I know plenty of people who expect the person of their choosing to be perfect yet have not worked on their own faults that wouldn't be ideal in a partner to begin with if that makes sense...

Sometimes you attract what you are, Simple... & many lack the ability to realistically look in a mirror & ask themselves are they even worthy of the type of partner they seek.

The theory of attracting people of the same Vibration you yourself put out has become a reality to me & social media has done nothing more than prove that to me. Time & time again I will see those saying God will send them this or that yet they don't realize their lifestyle & image is what is attracted to them.

As the saying goes... "Like Begets Like."

 

[#1 pick]

He look like a puffy meek mill. He can easily pull a good looking chicka in shape. No offense, but his wife is lacking to be talking like she choose Norbit and she's Thandie Newton.

 

[Woman of god]

The ruthlessness of @Poitier and @Always-Right Liggins fam this is the second coli woman that deleted their picture based on the responses received .

Why do you think it was because of the responses received?

 

[Woman of god]

I wasn't even that hard on her. But as a Christian myself I think it's just a bit disingenuous to limit myself to a fraction of a fraction of a fraction of a fraction of a fraction of God's wondrous human creations and then toss in "and God fearing" on the end in a lame attempt to make it valid. Knowing damn well she's fukk with some 6'5 Edris Elba, Morris Chestnut, Chris Brown hybrid with $350 million in the bank even if dude was a Satanic Atheist. Besides, isn't everything God does.....good? So why limit yourself brehettes?

Christian Brehette - God, I need a man! A good, decent man! One who'll love me for me and love my six kids by possibly eight different baby daddies. Please hear my cries oh Lord.

God - Your cries are heard my child. Here you go.

Christian Brehette - That's it? I thought he was gonna be 6'5, Tupac in the streets, a Morris Chestnut character in the boardroom, and Trey Songz in the bedroom!

God -

Were u referring to me ?

 

[#1 pick]

So delusional. A nikka that's 6"6, college educated, handsome and making good money (80k for example) is not dating her average ass. He's dating this or something very close to this

Naw, she dresses like a thot. When a breh got options, it's about more than just looks but she will get a date and clearly some dikk if she down. Look at the breh that curved her. He's just an average looking 23 year old brotha.

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

No, most American women are like you. Old and online putting up pics trying to attract men you are not attracted to so they can play provider after years of your youth chasing men you are attracted to.....and more men are opting out after realizing the cycle

Huh? I'm 26

oh wow

And I don't care if you're a prude or not. You're not attractive to me so you could join a convent for all I care. Do your thing.

and then the avi went away

I'm submitting my grad school applications today, once I get accepted somewhere it'll be back

 

[concise]

I'm submitting my grad school applications today, once I get accepted somewhere it'll be back

What in the world does applying to grad school have to do with an avi?

 

[iBrowse]

What in the world does applying to grad school have to do with an avi?

It gets better and better .

@Always-Right Liggins

 

[Fani Willis fan]

nikkas ruthlessly shytting on woman left and right in here

 

[Woman of god]

Yeah I could go for more pics of @princess125

LOL all my pics coming down soon. im about to submit some applications have to be extra cautious

It was coming down anyways not to worry dear, I'll be back.

(I don't know any of you guys from a hole in the wall. Why would I take your comments personally?)

 

[Woman of god]

What in the world does applying to grad school have to do with an avi?

In case they run a social media check duh. You've never heard of kids getting their scholarship taken back cuz of stuff they said on twitter? I don't want my face associated with anything I may have posted on here, especially since I didn't use an anonymous email address. If i gave consideration to negative comments, id have to give consideration to the positive ones as well, and i have pms of several ppl telling me im beautiful. This is all virtual tho so all in all both mean nothing. As I told previous poster tho, don't worry I'll be back

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

(I don't know any of you guys from a hole in the wall. Why would I take your comments personally?)

Da sheer amount of first response posts and caught feelins in dese threads from you state othawise, brosephs.