I messed up marrying my wife :damn:

[Peter Popoff]

Should’ve figured this out before the marriage

This is also why I'm adamantly against no sex till marriage.

 

[Action Mike]

Brehs saying just fukk other bytches - this doesn't help.

Why are you going back from whatever you're doing to a house were your not getting what you want consistently?

Waking up every morning to a women that doesn't want to fukk you? That's crazy.

Table your grievance, if she doesn't change just leave.

 

[GoldenGlove]

I left my girl at home.. I don't love her nomore

 

[TEH]

Dummy even blames himself

@CouldntBeMeTho

@CouldntBeMeTho

 

[Vodun]

Go to counseling and talk it out.
People are weird. just communicate.
I bet he never told her these feelings.

Hate to say it but counseling doesn't work you cannot negotiate a woman's genuine desire for a man.

Your either that dude or not

 

[a murda]

No comment

 

[NoMorePie]

@CouldntBeMeTho

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Idk. If you get into your 30's with no spouse and with high expectations, that margin for error is gonna be slim. Once you hit 35, you're gonna be swimming in a sea of single moms, and a lot of them won't be life-long fukk-ups / women with serious baggage; they'll be divorcees whose marriage ran it's course.

The best women tend to get taken off the market early.

I started my search at 30, and had 2 serious relationships that didn’t work out, some randoms, and a long term FWB until I got with my girl at the end of 2020. We’re both 37. I wish I’d found a younger woman, because we’re concerned about fertility, but she’s everything I wanted, except for a few things. I wasn’t ready mentally or financially in my 20s, and the kind of women I was attracted to then is different than what I’m attracted to now. I would be divorced if I’d married in my 20s.

 

[L. Deezy]

too young.. nothing more

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Also if you got married before 26 you played yaself.

20s are your years to figure shyt out and experiment. You only really start getting into your groove after 25 and human development experts have shown that the brain reaches the end of its development around then. Thats when your impulses are starting to get controlled and the person you will be for the rest of your life really starts to take shape. Getting married early is almost always a recipe for disaster from what I've personally seen.

 

[Mike Nasty]

Also if you got married before 26 you played yaself.

20s are your years to figure shyt out and experiment. You only really start getting into your groove after 25 and human development experts have shown that the brain reaches the end of its development around then. Thats when your impulses are starting to get controlled and the person you will be for the rest of your life really starts to take shape. Getting married early is almost always a recipe for disaster from what I've personally seen.

I do my shopping early, no picking through leftovers

 

[Reactor1804]

This is why men in the past cheated and part of the reason some still do. Women really thought their dude was fine with sex maybe one or two times a month, they really thought that shyt was normal and didn't mind the fact that they didn't want to try ANYTHING other than plain sex

Some really thought they went and 'tamed' their husband who was a known ladies man before she met him.

if you talk to some of these old heads who been married for a long time and their guards are really down and feel like they can trust you and you won't snitch, they'll "joke" about being "interested in" other women. Thats as far as some will say, but others will just straight up say "she knew who she married and knew I wouldn't change. She also knew at the end of the day I'd always come back to her and choose my family "

And there we have it!

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

I do my shopping early, no picking through leftovers

Everyone's different marriage really is just a contract with consequences when it is breached.

Its possible to realize that you don't want to actually marry the woman you met when you were 19 or 20 by the time you're 22 or 23. I know for a fact I'd be fukking miserable if I married any of the women I dated in my early 20s and the one I was with for the longest turned out to be more immature than she realized.

 

[Mike Nasty]

Everyone's different marriage really is just a contract with consequences when it is breached.

Its possible to realize that you don't want to actually marry the woman you met when you were 19 or 20 by the time you're 22 or 23. I know for a fact I'd be fukking miserable if I married any of the women I dated in my early 20s and the one I was with for the longest turned out to be more immature than she realized.

Maybe I met the right one, but all my friends also got married in their mid 20s and we're all still married.

If I was single and built up my shyt from my 20s into my 30s the standard of potential wife would be so high.....

 

[The D-List Vet]

He just needs to tell her he wants to have more sex, stop complaining to other man online.