My ex was seemingly on fire for me until the day we got married.
Then just went straight dead fish status.
I wondered why she would take all the time to pretend ... or if she just totally changed on the inside...
But that's just weird.
I would say that if you love the person you should be trying to satisfy them. I have had women who wanted more sex than I did. And I gave it to them until they said they were done.
Eating puzzy is not fun in and of itself. But since I know what it does to her, I will eat her puzzy for an hour if she wants (she has to be equally.enthusiastic about giving head).