and she was mad that I'm not looking for a serious relationship w/ her.
First off, no hate. The girl is beautiful (like seriously very pretty), nice job, degree, etc. (and yes she's Black
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But she came out and told me she'd been engaged 3 times, like it was no big deal. Told me her last guy started off as a f-buddy, and they ended up doing that for 3 years. Now she considers that to be "wasted time" & she's looking to "do things differently this time" and make it up with something serious. I dont know if he was one of the 3 engagements or not.
My thing is, I'm not even judging you. But comeon. How you gonna look at me like "it's all or nothing" when you just dropped this type of bomb on me?
THREE times? You havent even been outta college 5-6 years.
Once
- okay, maybe you were too young, or the dude cheated on you. Anything is possible. I'll investigate a little, but I'll take ur word for most of it IF it sounds sincere
Twice -
okay, so maybe this time you cheated, were immature or maybe the time wasn't right. Gotta really make sure I cover my tracks after you tell me two though.
Three times -
Come on now.....
Again, I'm not judging though
