I Might Be Dating a Self Hating Black Woman

[TRFG]

Honestly both of you deserve to be thrown in the bushes.
She talks down on blacks in front of you and you don't do shyt nor say shyt.
She's a c00n bytch and you're a soft ass nikka for dealing with that c00n bytch.
Both of you are problems

It's like the ole c00n forgot he was black too

 

[The Goodz]

Honestly both of you deserve to be thrown in the bushes.
She talks down on blacks in front of you and you don't do shyt nor say shyt.
She's a c00n bytch and you're a soft ass nikka for dealing with that c00n bytch.
Both of you are problems

Im with this right here, just not as belligerent

After the little cousin fiasco, it's safe to say you are sprung. Accept the L, you will be better for it I promise

 

[A B O V E]

It doesn't matter the frequency. Once someone makes comments like that you're supposed to check them immediately. Letting shyt slide will just make people more bold.

Yeah i know i let it get too far man. That's the main reason why i made this thread i wanted to make sure i wasn't trippin' about these incidents. Now that i know that it wasn't just me who sees this as self hate it makes my decision to leave her behind a little bit easier.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

I woulda threw dat c00nette out the postal truck and left her silly ass on the side of the road

 

[A B O V E]

It's like the ole c00n forgot he was black too

Trust me every time she said these things i cringed. The African in me was saying "it don't matter how good she look she got to go to the bushes for that" but i'll admit the simp in me was like "nah lets just move on from that she just trippin' today"

 

[TRFG]

Trust me every time she said these things i cringed. The African in me was saying "it don't matter how good she look she got to go to the bushes for that" but i'll admit the simp in me was like "nah lets just move on from that she just trippin' today"

Nah son. Never c00n, It might really turn out to be the bytch don't respect you

dropping all those insults

 

[Mac Tyson]

Bruh, how many nikkas in dis thread r u gonna let refer to ur girl as a bytch

Yo shud be like yeh she a c00n but shes my c00n

 

[The God Poster]

This says more about you. The fact you ignored it is the problem. Me from the get I woulda responded to her with humor. Just to see if she was just joking as far as the hair/baby shower joints. From then you woulda had ya answer as far as the bushes

 

[Mowgli]

I've been with this woman for 7 months and i've started to notice her taking little jabs at black women and black people as a whole.

The first incident that bothered me was when we got caught in the rain in September and her hair got wet. She typically straightens her hair with a flat iron after she puts all those bullshyt chemicals in it to avoid having her natural curly hair.
After her hair got wet she starts saying "now i'm gonna look ghetto" "i'm going to have an afro"

I just looked at her like and ignored it.

The second incident was when we were watching the Ferguson protests on youtube one night and she starts agreeing with the police officers shooting rubber bullets and throwing tear gas at unarmed protesters.

I'm not the type to argue with a woman because i know i will lose no matter what so i ignored that as well.

But the final incident that really pissed me off was when we were at my sister's baby shower last week and she had the nerve to say to me on the way home "i hope the baby isn't dark like the father".

When she said that I almost broke up with her right there in the car.

I really like this woman and i can see a future with her but i don';t know if i can deal with this self hate.

I need some advise should i stay and let the relationship cook a little more or should i move on?

Sorry for this long essay i just really needed to get this out brehs it was killing me holding this in.

Imagine how shes going to raise your daughter. *shivers* Take that L before you really take that L bruh.

 

[88m3]

hit and quit, you can't be serious op

 

[skokiaan]

I've been with this woman for 7 months and i've started to notice her taking little jabs at black women and black people as a whole.

The first incident that bothered me was when we got caught in the rain in September and her hair got wet. She typically straightens her hair with a flat iron after she puts all those bullshyt chemicals in it to avoid having her natural curly hair.
After her hair got wet she starts saying "now i'm gonna look ghetto" "i'm going to have an afro"

I just looked at her like and ignored it.

The second incident was when we were watching the Ferguson protests on youtube one night and she starts agreeing with the police officers shooting rubber bullets and throwing tear gas at unarmed protesters.

I'm not the type to argue with a woman because i know i will lose no matter what so i ignored that as well.

But the final incident that really pissed me off was when we were at my sister's baby shower last week and she had the nerve to say to me on the way home "i hope the baby isn't dark like the father".

When she said that I almost broke up with her right there in the car.

I really like this woman and i can see a future with herbut i don';t know if i can deal with this self hate.

I need some advise should i stay and let the relationship cook a little more or should i move on?

Sorry for this long essay i just really needed to get this out brehs it was killing me holding this in.

It's hard breaking up with somebody especially after being with them everyday for almost a year. I noticed her saying suspect stuff towards black people in the beginning of the relationship but i let it slide because she looked good. Now after being with her for so long her looks aren't distracting me from her self hate anymore.

First c00n comment you let slide

2nd one you let it slide


The next time you catch her slopping down some white dikk u gonna let her slide..on some but I been with Her for more than a year smh

Again bushes

this.

She went to a majority Hispanic school in Northern California. Not sure if they made fun of her for being black at school but i do know that her parents are dysfunctional. Her father was in and out of her life but she never showed signs of hating him tho. I dont think she would ever admit that she had a problem with self hate to me even if i called her out on it. She would probably just deny anything was wrong with her.

denial.

Trust me deep down i was furious when she was saying these things but outside of the coli i'm a laid back kind of guy. I come on here to express myself because i don't do it as much in the real world. I have the problem of holding things in even when they need to be said.

take off that skirt.

I'm meeting with her on Saturday. that is when i will voice my opinion about these incidents. If she doesn't have a good response and is unwilling to change her ways i'm definitely done.

stop being a wonan, she just gon whisper sweet nothings into those big ears, u will smell her hair and forget what we told you.

Honestly both of you deserve to be thrown in the bushes.
She talks down on blacks in front of you and you don't do shyt nor say shyt.
She's a c00n bytch and you're a soft ass nikka for dealing with that c00n bytch.
Both of you are problems

 

[DrX]

"
I Might Be Dating a Self Hating Black Woman"

The second incident was when we were watching the Ferguson protests on youtube one night and she starts agreeing with the police officers shooting rubber bullets and throwing tear gas at unarmed protesters.

she gonna leave u for some cac with more $....end that shyt asap...no ferg

because if u dont u gonna end ^ a reserve cuckold....watching some fat cac smashing ya bytch while u holding her hand

 

[Max Power]

She went to a majority Hispanic school in Northern California. Not sure if they made fun of her for being black at school but i do know that her parents are dysfunctional. Her father was in and out of her life but she never showed signs of hating him tho. I dont think she would ever admit that she had a problem with self hate to me even if i called her out on it. She would probably just deny anything was wrong with her.

Ignore blatant red flags brehs.

 

[tmonster]

I've been with this woman for 7 months and i've started to notice her taking little jabs at black women and black people as a whole.

The first incident that bothered me was when we got caught in the rain in September and her hair got wet. She typically straightens her hair with a flat iron after she puts all those bullshyt chemicals in it to avoid having her natural curly hair.
After her hair got wet she starts saying "now i'm gonna look ghetto" "i'm going to have an afro"

I just looked at her like and ignored it.

The second incident was when we were watching the Ferguson protests on youtube one night and she starts agreeing with the police officers shooting rubber bullets and throwing tear gas at unarmed protesters.

I'm not the type to argue with a woman because i know i will lose no matter what so i ignored that as well.

But the final incident that really pissed me off was when we were at my sister's baby shower last week and she had the nerve to say to me on the way home "i hope the baby isn't dark like the father".

When she said that I almost broke up with her right there in the car.

I really like this woman and i can see a future with her but i don';t know if i can deal with this self hate.

I need some advise should i stay and let the relationship cook a little more or should i move on?

Sorry for this long essay i just really needed to get this out brehs it was killing me holding this in.

tuns out that internet people are real

 

[dc007]

Trust me every time she said these things i cringed. The African in me was saying "it don't matter how good she look she got to go to the bushes for that" but i'll admit the simp in me was like "nah lets just move on from that she just trippin' today"

Breh I dated a girl that was similar a few years ago. It totally lowered my interest in her and I couldn't date her seriously even though I was attracted to her. She had negative things to say about black people at times and I don't even think she realizes it. We had quite a few arguments about it.......

Now she is dating a white guy who she wants to marry