I miss my Mom and Grandma!

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I fukk with this thread man :to:

Grandma was legit one of the best friends I ever had. Always had my back and encouraged me to keep getting better. She was a strong woman too, raised 7 good ass kids (my uncles) by herself.

Yeah....My grandma was there for me since day one. Gave me Christmas presents when she barely had two pennies.
 

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I fukk with this thread man :to:

Grandma was legit one of the best friends I ever had. Always had my back and encouraged me to keep getting better. She was a strong woman too, raised 7 good ass kids (my uncles) by herself.
My Grandpa was mine. I always knew- but didn't realize how much until I went to a family function after he died and didn't have my partner in crime with me to sit in the corner and cut ourselves out from everyone. I think about him every day. (him and me in my avi :smile:)
 

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Always cherish the moments. Dont hesitate to tell 'em how much you love 'em.
Definitely. Everyone always says it, but I can't tell you how peaceful I feel that my last words to my Grandpa were 'I love you'. Those were usually our parting words, but sometimes not. I would have been devastated if they weren't.
 

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6/10 makes 4 yrs since my granny been gone. My granny was the best. On my cday erry yr I gotta card with $20 in it, my kids too. She was there more than my moma. I was unpacking boxes today in my closet from 2008 and 2 moves later and came across an unopened envelope from her. It was a lil note attched to a daily devotional, telling me how much she loves and prays for me and my kids. And that she told my auntie to gimme the $150 she owed her. And the more I unpacked the more stuff I found. Picures of us at her 73rd bday party. A long sleeve old lady night gown. Never gonna wear it tho. ive been coming across alotta stuff that makes me think of her and itll always put me in a fucced up mood and just like that ill remember something about her that just makes me smile all over. Ive gotta collection of my loved ones pix on my wall next to my bed. One is her and my grandaddy. AAnd another one is her graduation pic. Id give anything to have my granny here with me.
 

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6/10 makes 4 yrs since my granny been gone. My granny was the best. On my cday erry yr I gotta card with $20 in it, my kids too. She was there more than my moma. I was unpacking boxes today in my closet from 2008 and 2 moves later and came across an unopened envelope from her. It was a lil note attched to a daily devotional, telling me how much she loves and prays for me and my kids. And that she told my auntie to gimme the $150 she owed her. And the more I unpacked the more stuff I found. Picures of us at her 73rd bday party. A long sleeve old lady night gown. Never gonna wear it tho. ive been coming across alotta stuff that makes me think of her and itll always put me in a fucced up mood and just like that ill remember something about her that just makes me smile all over. Ive gotta collection of my loved ones pix on my wall next to my bed. One is her and my grandaddy. AAnd another one is her graduation pic. Id give anything to have my granny here with me.

Yeah, she must have loved you a lot.
 

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I dont remember crying when my grandmother passed. I've always been the morbid type and as a kid into adulthood not much rattled me. I remember seeing granny laying still with her eyes slightly open, frothing at the mouth. I was told by the coroner its what happens when you die. I remember how I felt hearing my mother's piercing scream when she found her dead in her sleep and how the house smelled of death in the air. I stared at her coffin the day of her funeral and held her cold hands as she laid in the casket. Her fingers felt like cold erasers I thought. She glowed while laying in the casket, and still looked alive to me, I smiled at the thought of her in heaven. The brand new bed she died on my parents wanted to throw away,no one wanted to sleep on her death bed but me so I asked for her bed to be mine. It was my first new bed and I could still feel her presence when I laid on the bed which comforted me. I love my grandmother.
 

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The Dallas Morning News
February 16, 1999 Column: BOB ST. JOHN Woman credits strong roots for good growth
Author: Bob St. John Edition: THIRD
Section: NEWS
Page: 13A
Estimated printed pages: 2 Article Text:Roxie Glenn grew up in a poor but close-knit family of seven children in the farming area between Brenham and Chappell Hill, in southeast Texas. The children picked cotton and helped around the house, but when Roxie was 5 she'd sometimes get frustrated trying to do chores. "My daddy would always tell me, "You can do it. You can do it,' " she recalled. "I never forgot that. He gave me the will to keep trying, not to quit." Roxie, 71 next month, has always drawn strength from the lessons she learned as a youngster from her parents, Albert and Ann Brooks. She believes that their influence and her strong Christian faith have helped inspire what she's accomplished in the East Texas city of Athens. The former Dallas resident has been an outspoken child advocate, helped start churches and befriended and offered guidance to troubled young women. Most recently, she helped inaugurate monitors on school buses to help drivers cope with ! kids. She suggested the idea to the Athens school district because of increasing discipline problems and was immediately hired as one of the monitors. Setting an example "I believe it's helping," she said. "I haven't faced any problems I can't handle with the kids. I give them love but can also be firm. We keep hearing that kids are different now, but I don't think they really are. In some cases, they just don't get the love, attention and discipline from parents that we used to get." Roxie feels that she had those things growing up, though times were difficult. She was 7 when her father died. Her mother moved the family to Brenham and did housework in private homes. The children worked, too, and finished school. Roxie was 11 when she stood on a box to work as a cook in the St. Anthony Hotel. "Our family always shared and helped each other," she said. "But you learned to do things yourself rather than depend on somebody else. That's how I lea! rned to appoint myself a committee of one." During the! years s he worked cleaning dorms at Trinity Valley Community College, she appointed herself surrogate grandmother to the students, listening to their problems and offering help and advice. Positive influence She does the same thing for single mothers. Some had children when they were very young and, consequently, feel cheated out of their youth. So they sometimes start living their lives at the expense of their children's needs. Roxie steps in when she sees this happening, and she thinks it's time for other grandmothers to do the same. Roxie also has taken it upon herself to correspond with and visit incarcerated young women in Henderson County. She worries that when they get out of jail, they'll go back into the same environment and get into trouble again. She hopes that some way, somehow she can start a special home for them, offering, of course, love and guidance. A member of First Baptist Church in Athens, she helped start New Life Baptist Church ! and Bible Way Baptist Church. When members of Bible Way were looking for a place to build their church, she put them in touch with United Methodist officials, who donated the land. "Charity and good will have no denomination," she said. Roxie once baby-sat for the Hawn family and became a trusted friend. Charles Arthur Hawn even employed her to care for his ailing father, Charles F. Hawn, the late civic leader for whom the Hawn Freeway in Dallas was named. And in 1981 Roxie, a widow who had nine children, married Judge Glenn, a widower with six kids. She now has 19 grandchildren and 22 great-grandchildren. And she has cared for 23 foster children, practically raising two of them. I'm not sure whose burdens she'll take on next, only that she'll keep trying to help. Copyright 1999 The Dallas Morning News
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I dont remember crying when my grandmother passed. I've always been the morbid type and as a kid into adulthood not much rattled me. I remember seeing granny laying still with her eyes slightly open, frothing at the mouth. I was told by the coroner its what happens when you die. I remember how I felt hearing my mother's piercing scream when she found her dead in her sleep and how the house smelled of death in the air. I stared at her coffin the day of her funeral and held her cold hands as she laid in the casket. Her fingers felt like cold erasers I thought. She glowed while laying in the casket, and still looked alive to me, I smiled at the thought of her in heaven. The brand new bed she died on my parents wanted to throw away,no one wanted to sleep on her death bed but me so I asked for her bed to be mine. It was my first new bed and I could still feel her presence when I laid on the bed which comforted me. I love my grandmother.
my auntie called me to come to the hospital when my granny passed. i took my ghetto nunchucks with me cuz it was finna be on. but i got myself together cuz she taught me better than that. i was gonna avenge her in my own way and a few yrs later i did. her funeral omg, i dont do funerals. her request was to be cremated 3 days after her death with a memorial service. my aunties did it they way. at the funeral she was big and bloated and grey. she had on red nail polish and my granny always said red nail polish was for whores. i went and sat in the car til it was over with. the family went out to eat after the service i went home and cried.
 
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