I need some genuine coli advice(Serious)

Bud Bundy

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Trigger warning: Long as af, if you don’t like reading, ignore this….. also english ain’t my first language so expect mistakes( don’t be a dikk about it but this is thecoli)


This is the only time I will ever make a post but I’m in a very….. serious dilemma. Just gonna vent about it honestly

I thought the best way to deal with it is telling strangers on the internet. I’ll try to make this simple as possible.

About a year ago, I moved into this really nice house downtown with some old friends, I’m gonna call them Carl and Taylor. They’ve been dating since middle school and both are close friends with my eldest brother. These two have been through a lot together and have put their engagement on hold for a time being since Taylor wants to finish her PhD. Regardless, things have been amazing this year, the household has been peaceful and fun. We actually renewed for another year.

Here comes Weston, he’s a childhood friend of Carl. Weston is a really nice guy but self destructive. He recently got dishonorable discharged from the Army and has gotten himself into heavy debt. I can tell Carl has a lot of love for him despite his flaws. He was there for Carl when his father was murdered and when his mother got diagnosed with pancreatic cancer.

So to help him out, Carl let him stay in our house rent free and has even gotten him a job as a virtual assistant at the same company he works at…..

Now here’s the situation, Carl and I are the main ones that pay the rent and everything else. Taylor doesn’t work since Carl wants her to finish her degree. But she handles all the housework and cooking, it’s a fair trade off.

I hope y’all know where I’m going with this…..

Three weeks ago, I came home in the morning from a night shift, I didn’t see Carl’s car cause he wakes up early to go to work but I did see Weston and Taylor’s cars. As soon as I step into the house, I see Weston coming out of Carl and Taylor room. He was shirtless, but I didn’t think much of it at all because when is this mf never not shirtless??? Dudes looking at me wild but I didn’t think too much of it because I was exhausted.

I just go straight to my room and sleep. A couple days after that, I went to Weston room to get my Nintendo switch back. I find a nasty ass thong sitting on my damn switch on the floor, once again I wasn’t think too much about the thong. But I was really angry about my switch though, stupid a$$hole also lost my breath of the wild physical case.
:scust:

The night after that when all of us were home, Taylor and Weston went out to get tattoos as both wanted to get some new ink for our summer trip in Barbados. Carl opted to stay home to prepare for an important meeting the next day and I just wanted to study.

They deadass didn’t come home until 2 am in the morning. I went to go get a snack when I saw them laughing and bumbling through the doorway.

At that moment I knew something wasn’t right but I was too scared to admit it to myself. Weston finally confirmed it four days ago, when him and I were driving back from the gym. He’s been sleeping with Taylor for the past two months and to add salt to the wound they have been doing it on the couples bed and in Taylor car.

I’m sitting in the drivers seat looking at this dumbass, like why the wtf did you tell me? ??Dude said the guilt has been eating him alive and he’s been having a hard time looking at Carl.

I asked him

Me: Will you stop sleeping with her now that you told me.

His stupid ass: I don’t know
:martin:


The same day, calmly, I confront Taylor about it, this bytch lies straight to my face and I tell her what Weston told me. She’s crying, telling me that she’s only ever been with one man in her entire life, she never had a chance to be sexual free like other women her age. I told her I won’t say anything but this affair has to stop.

:snoop:

She agrees but I have an eerie feeling they still might be fukking.

There are a-lot of consequences that could come if I were to tell anyone especially Carl or my brothers. Plus we all need a place to live, our spot is perfect within the city and the rent is reasonable enough.

shyts been messing with my mind and I been on thecoli a lot more to pretend none of this is happening. This is something I would read on Facebook or Twitter.

Edit: Taylor refuses to break up the relationship with Carl because she fears it will take forever to find another good man like him.


I wanted to ask what would you guys do in my position? Should I just shut the fukk up or tell Carl? I don’t want anyone to get hurt because I’ve seen way too many instances of people getting killed. Or better yet what would you do if you were in Carls position and found out?


Pics of Taylor?
 

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I'd advocate for telling ya boy what's going down before he finds out the hard way. That being said, I know you need a place to stay so I understand if you don't. But at some point you need to tell buddy, cuz technically you're hurting him too by not making him aware of the bullshyt.
 

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what was his discharge for? might wanna go about this different if it was for something like manslaughter. :whoa:
The idiot would constantly get into fights with his superiors and from what I been told, broke a dude’s jaw. Like I said he’s a very self destructive dude but can be very sweet and helpful.

Anyone military here know if a solider can get discharged for fighting?
 

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Slim options in this situation breh… :francis:

1.) Tell him yourself because they both dragged you into this bullshyt by admitting it to you. They can easily deflect and say you knew but didn’t say anything. Carl will thank you in the long run.

2.) Force them to tell Carl the truth. Say “either y’all tell him or I will”. This might stop any blowback from coming your way from the situation.

3.) Find a new spot… you’ll lose Carl as a friend tho.

I think 1 is the best option. I know you don’t wanna get involved but they ain’t shyt and you shouldn’t let your homie marry an ain’t shyt bytch.
 

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Absolutely not, the coli wolves need to go back to JBO. This ain’t the thread my guy.
:gucci:

Why she disrespected you and your friend by fukking a bum. She us ungrateful. What you need to do is post her pics here kick her and the bum out then you and Carl hit up a strip club or go to Dominican Republic and fukk some hoes.
 

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I'd advocate for telling ya boy what's going down before he finds out the hard way. That being said, I know you need a place to stay so I understand if you don't. But at some point you need to tell buddy, cuz technically you're hurting him too by not making him aware of the bullshyt.
That’s what fukking up my conscious, Carl been another older brother to me and has never done me wrong. He’s been with the woman for almost 12 years, its even worse if he doesn’t believe me???
 

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OP..

I am gonna keep it a buck with ya...

Carl needs to know about the affair, but you shouldn't be the one to tell him!

Taylor needs to put on her big girl draws and tell Carl that she ain't shyt and move out the house. Let Carl go so he can find a woman worth a damn!

Weston need to also step up and tell Carl, but he need to first move out of the house and possibly get another job before he does so that way he won't catch that fade in ya spot and have the whole house torn up...

Carl seem like a good dude. Me may have his flaws like everyone else, but the fact that he allowed Weston to stay with y'all plus take care of his woman while she gets her PH.D. let me know that he doesn't deserve the treatment he is receiving from those two people.

The game is cold AF! Like the saying goes, "no good deed goes unpunished!" Smh..

My advice to you is to stay out of it, but also play referee.

What you could to is this...

Tell Taylor and Weston that they have a certain amount of time pack their shyt and get out of the house. If they don't, then you will tell Carl that they both backstabbed him and whatever happens, happens!

But, if you do tell Carl, tell him to NOT fight Weston inside the house! You also live there and will be responsible for any damages. Also, tell him that he needs to get those two people out of his house and charge the both of them to the game FOREVER! Don't be hearing any sob stories from those pieces of shyt! Just get them out of his life so he can go through his anger, hurt, pain, etc. and eventually regroup.

Lastly, this is for you and Carl. Do not ever allow anyone to stay with y'all rent free! I don't care if it is your significant other, relative or homie! Whoever moves in comes with cash in hand or they need to get their own spot.

Can't be too nice to people or you will get played! People who invest in themselves will invest in you!

Good luck and share any updates to this shytshow...
 
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Absolutely not, the coli wolves need to go back to JBO. This ain’t the thread my guy.
:gucci:
:deadrose: The JBO infiltration is low-key hilarious to me.

As for your situation OP, I’m sorry you are in this mess. Personally I’d tell Carl sooner rather than later. Especially because they are being messy and careless. These types of a$$holes would escalate and bring you into it just to share the blame and deflect from themselves.
Could you stay on campus in graduate housing? Rent everywhere is skyrocketing, so it’s hard to find an affordable place to stay. I hate that.
 
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