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I've seriously thought about getting custody and throwing her to the bushes completely but I thought about it. Yea me and her beef sometimes but she loves our son just as much as I love him.


Damn breh...that's a tough one.

On one hand she's pregnant by another nikka who's not around. Then on the other she's your BM.
I personally would look into getting custody of your kid legally and going from there. I'm sure that shouldn't be that hard if she got nowhere to go.
I just couldn't see taking care of a woman who's pregnant with another nikka's kid. That's me tho
 

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I've seriously thought about getting custody and throwing her to the bushes completely but I thought about it. Yea me and her beef sometimes but she loves our son just as much as I love him.

I feel you breh...I'm not sure how much time passed between having your kid and being pregnant by a totally different nikka. But if she's living "THAT" type of lifestyle, you wouldn't want your kid in that anyway.
 

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I made threads on here about me and my bm before...but basically me and her ain't that cool, I have a girl and she supposedly have a nikka, and she is pregnant by the nikka.

And here's the crazy part: she just moved in. :snoop:

Idk wtf is going on in her life, but she don't have no where to go. I asked her where her nikka is at and it's :yeshrug:

I wanna smack the shyt out her ass so bad.


your in dangerous situation IDK what state you live in but please look up the laws because in some states after she lives with you for a certain amount of time you can and will become financially responsible for her

Let me break that down for you in different words

After she lives in YOUR apartment for a certain # of months you WILL NOT be able to kick her out if you get into a disagreement and she will take you to court and you WILL have to continue pay her rent and may even be responsible for a small amount of CHILD SUPPORT on child that is NOT YOURS.


There are plenty of resources in the community for women like her, look up your local social service agency they will put her up in a hotel room. Dont fall or this trap, although it sounds like you already did.
 

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:ohhh: I aint know this.

your in dangerous situation IDK what state you live in but please look up the laws because in some states after she lives with you for a certain amount of time you can and will become financially responsible for her

Let me break that down for you in different words

After she lives in YOUR apartment for a certain # of months you WILL NOT be able to kick her out if you get into a disagreement and she will take you to court and you WILL have to continue pay her rent and may even be responsible for a small amount of CHILD SUPPORT on child that is NOT YOURS.


There are plenty of resources in the community for women like her, look up your local social service agency they will put her up in a hotel room. Dont fall or this trap, although it sounds like you already did.
 

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:laff: Wow. And you aint even abandon your kid. I guess she really wanted to see what that single mom life was hittin for.

I guess if she wasn't getting them checks from you she needed that re-up


Ay where @Teedot at. For this thread to appear after those other ones :jiggalol:
:ohhh: I aint know this.
:merchant: better hurry up and

 

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wait, ain't you dude that said your BM just up and left and moved without telling you? You better than me lol

Where her momma, cousin, aunt, grandma? shyt somebody? She don't even sound fit to be having another child, depending on how far she is, she should abort. Looks like you about to be taking care of this seed too bruh. Good Luck
 

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let her be free breh she dont belong to u no more she a property of the game
 

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baby, that was the old me
I made threads on here about me and my bm before...but basically me and her ain't that cool, I have a girl and she supposedly have a nikka, and she is pregnant by the nikka.

And here's the crazy part: she just moved in. :snoop:

Idk wtf is going on in her life, but she don't have no where to go. I asked her where her nikka is at and it's :yeshrug:

I wanna smack the shyt out her ass so bad.


Wtf is wrong with you?

She has her own man. Cut u off got pregnant again this time to another dude.

And u let her move in? Do u how much of a bytch that makes u look? U don't even like her breh

Get your kid and cut that bytch off forever. She is a liability dead weight burden to your life
 

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Wtf is wrong with you?

She has her own man. Cut u off got pregnant again this time to another dude.

And u let her move in? Do u how much of a bytch that makes u look? U don't even like her breh

Get your kid and cut that bytch off forever. She is a liability dead weight burden to your life

I'll show you who the bytch is when I'm rearranging your culo, word to @Yung Yogurt
 

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And why she is your responsibility She's going to use you as a doormat, you're going to fall in love with her, and she's gonna leave you for another nikka.
 
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