sicksoulja
All Star
To cut a long story short as possible my aunt serves as the babysitter of my two youngest kids 1 1/2 and 3 years old she called me and told me we need to find a new baby sitter the doctor told her she’s dying. She thanked me for giving her the opportunity to watch the kids, shyt broke me down brehs. Just a terrible terrible situation as my family is super close. I have 3 gigantic problems, and need advice on at least 1
Problem 1, I need to find a baby sitter ASAP child care is extremely expensive and we just can’t afford the shyt. With my first me and my wife worked different shifts over night and day, we hardly spent time with each other and was super stressing on our relationship almost caused us to end it. That right now is the least of my problems as I am sure some way we are going to work it out.
Problem 2, losing my aunt who I am extremely close with his hard for anyone. Losing a love one is terrible this where things get extremely tough. She said that I and the only person she shared this with and NOT TO TELL ANYONE she’s building her self up and when she gets the strength she will tell the family. She said the only reason she is telling me right now is because she watches my kids and I need to look to find a baby sitter. Problem with that her son is like a brother too me super close how I am going to be able to look him in the eyes and talk and he has no idea his mother is dying and I do. My mother who is her sister, how am I going to be able to not tell my mother that her sister is dying. My grandmother lives with my aunt how I am not going to tell her?
Problem 3 goes with 1 I guess, she said she enjoys watching my kids and she thanked me for giving her the opportunity. She said while I am looking she will continue to watch the kids. How can you feel comfortable with someone watching your kids that is going through so much. It has to be running threw her mind damn near every second that her time is limited. It’s no way anyone can be in the right state of mind. She claims that she is at peace with it and is ready to see her lord. She says she will watch the kids but giving me a notice. However my kids are bad is shyt, check they they good kids but they young almost every 2 and 3 year old are extremely tough to deal with at times.
Problem 1, I need to find a baby sitter ASAP child care is extremely expensive and we just can’t afford the shyt. With my first me and my wife worked different shifts over night and day, we hardly spent time with each other and was super stressing on our relationship almost caused us to end it. That right now is the least of my problems as I am sure some way we are going to work it out.
Problem 2, losing my aunt who I am extremely close with his hard for anyone. Losing a love one is terrible this where things get extremely tough. She said that I and the only person she shared this with and NOT TO TELL ANYONE she’s building her self up and when she gets the strength she will tell the family. She said the only reason she is telling me right now is because she watches my kids and I need to look to find a baby sitter. Problem with that her son is like a brother too me super close how I am going to be able to look him in the eyes and talk and he has no idea his mother is dying and I do. My mother who is her sister, how am I going to be able to not tell my mother that her sister is dying. My grandmother lives with my aunt how I am not going to tell her?
Problem 3 goes with 1 I guess, she said she enjoys watching my kids and she thanked me for giving her the opportunity. She said while I am looking she will continue to watch the kids. How can you feel comfortable with someone watching your kids that is going through so much. It has to be running threw her mind damn near every second that her time is limited. It’s no way anyone can be in the right state of mind. She claims that she is at peace with it and is ready to see her lord. She says she will watch the kids but giving me a notice. However my kids are bad is shyt, check they they good kids but they young almost every 2 and 3 year old are extremely tough to deal with at times.
If she can maintain, so can you. 
