I Put Myself in a Funny Predicament

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I'll keep this short since most people on here (including myself) have the attention span of a goldfish.

:pachaha:


There was this guy on my case for a few months. I quickly friendzoned him, because if I can't look into your eyes and imagine being by your side for the next 50 odd years, all grey, and possibly suffering from dementia and multiple urinary complications -- well, then, I don't want to waste my time dating you.

:manny:

Don't get me wrong, he's a decent catch; I just don't think we're compatible. My friend hits me up about being lonely & how difficult it is to meet a decent guy. I mention him and she's instantly interested. I don't mind hooking them up since he's not really my cup of tea.

:ehh:

At first, he was a little offended that I was passing him onto my friend....

:stopitslime:

He probably thought, I was going to take him out of the friendzone...

:lolbron:

But then... I'm sitting here, wondering what happens if they actually hit it off?

:ohhh:

He wasn't even a bad dude...

:sadcam:

He was 6ft, educated, with a job.

Granted, he was a little slow at times, but I could tell he would've done anything for me.

:wow:

I should just take this 'L' and keep it moving right?
 

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I'll keep this short since most people on here (including myself) have the attention span of a goldfish.

:pachaha:


There was this guy on my case for a few months. I quickly friendzoned him, because if I can't look into your eyes and imagine being by your side for the next 50 odd years, all grey, and possibly suffering from dementia and multiple urinary complications -- well, then, I don't want to waste my time dating you.

:manny:

Don't get me wrong, he's a decent catch; I just don't think we're compatible. My friend hits me up about being lonely & how difficult it is to meet a decent guy. I mention him and she's instantly interested. I don't mind hooking them up since he's not really my cup of tea.

:ehh:

At first, he was a little offended that I was passing him onto my friend....

:stopitslime:

He probably thought, I was going to take him out of the friendzone...

:lolbron:

But then... I'm sitting here, wondering what happens if they actually hit it off?

:ohhh:

He wasn't even a bad dude...

:sadcam:

He was 6ft, educated, with a job.

Granted, he was a little slow at times, but I could tell he would've done anything for me.

:wow:

I should just take this 'L' and keep it moving right?

You're an attention whore and you don't deserve him. Only thing left is for HIM to realize that you don't deserve him :mjpls:
 

Dada

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Take the opportunity to reevaluate your priorities/what you need in a mate. You may find that you made the right decision, or maybe the wrong one. Either way, it doesn't seem like you're in the right place to get into something with this guy. It's good you were honest with yourself about that and (I assume) didn't string him along.
 

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Don't try to convince yourself you want him just because your friend has him. Don't be that chick.
 

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