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Start a blog. You’re literally making the same threads about talking to women every month and asking the same questions.
 

Rozay Oro

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It's possible but I doubt it.

We have real life experience, breh. We've all felt what you've felt; we just didn't act the way you acted.

And that's the difference between boys and men, tbh. Nothing wrong with what you did, it's just a rookie mistake and brehs are trying to put you up on game but you're being defensive. Again, because of age and inexperience (and probably because of the coli format).

A man needs experience to navigate this world successfully, and that's what brehs are trying to explain, kinda while clowning (so the message gets lost) but the sentiment is real.

We can talk on the phone if you want / need mentorship breh. I'm here for the brehs foreal.
How did I act? I felt I played it cool but possibly steered it to a dead end although I had to get back to work. My worry is if I was misinterpreted.

This isn't about anxiety, etc.
I don't even think she was interested I just found her body language weird.
 

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How did I act? I felt I played it cool but possibly steered it to a dead end although I had to get back to work. My worry is if I was misinterpreted.

This isn't about anxiety, etc.
I don't even think she was interested I just found her body language weird.

You're right.

The problem isn't how you acted with her, the problem is you second guessed those actions and felt some kind of way enough to make a thread over literally, nothing.

Your OP was "she was acting shy".

Ok, and? Brehs here are clowning not because you're a lame (I'm a lame too, and it can be a wonderful life with some practice) but because... I mean... what, breh?

Why did you make this thread other than to tell us that "my teacher came into work today and I feel some kind of way about it" which is a female trait.
 

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You're right.

The problem isn't how you acted with her, the problem is you second guessed those actions and felt some kind of way enough to make a thread over literally, nothing.

Your OP was "she was acting shy".

Ok, and? Brehs here are clowning not because you're a lame (I'm a lame too, and it can be a wonderful life with some practice) but because... I mean... what, breh?

Why did you make this thread other than to tell us that "my teacher came into work today and I feel some kind of way about it" which is a female trait.
My take away is I want to get better at making women feel comfortable by being smoother and charming.
 

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My take away is I want to get better at making women feel comfortable by being smoother and charming.

:ehh:

Ok, that's a fair point. Making women comfortable is Women 101. Most brehs don't know that so you're already ahead of the game there. That's a solid goal in your relationship interactions for sure and I'm sorry I misunderstood.

We're not clowning because you're wack, we're clowning because if you listened to us, you could eat off a premise that you've already established for yourself. You just need some help getting out of your own way, it seems.

The other thing I would say in this instance is that being "smoother and charming" doesn't come by repeating to yourself, "Be smooth. Be charming!" (I know because I tried). It comes only from confidence, which is why women are attracted to it.

If there were a way to make something more bold and more red, I would do it for the above statement because that's the bottom line. The only way women are going to be attracted to you is if you're confident in yourself, period.

Confidence is the only thing in this world that you can't buy and you can't fake; that's why it's so coveted, especially in the social media era. Confidence comes from competence. It's a long road that most young brehs can't see, but we can help you navigate it if you want.
 
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Ok, that's a fair point. Making women comfortable is Women 101. Most brehs don't know that so you're already ahead of the game there. That's a solid goal in your relationship interactions for sure and I'm sorry I misunderstood.

We're not clowning because you're wack, we're clowning because if you listened to us, you could eat off a premise that you've already established for yourself. You just need some help getting out of your own way, it seems.

The other thing I would say in this instance is that being "smoother and charming" doesn't come by repeating to yourself, "Be smooth. Be charming!" (I know because I tried). It comes only from confidence, which is why women are attracted to it.

If there were a way to make something more bold and more red, I would do it for the above statement because that's the bottom line. The only way women are going to be attracted to you is if you're confident in yourself, period.

Confidence is the only thing in this world that you can't buy and you can't fake; that's why it's so coveted, especially in the social media era. Confidence comes from competence. It's a long road that most young brehs can't see, but we can help you navigate it if you want.
Thank you so much. I want to try to fix my sleep cycle so I can wake up early to work out in the morning and start counting my calorie intake.
 

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1. Think before you speak.

2. Talk to more women.

3. Go out and meet more women.

4. Let women know you think they’re attractive without being thirsty.
 

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1. Think before you speak.

2. Talk to more women.

3. Go out and meet more women.

4. Let women know you think they’re attractive without being thirsty.
How exactly do you do 4?
 
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