Few will respond to what you asked OP. They will get angry, feel offended and insult you or deflect.
Family is valued in African culture as well as in AA culture but I have seen while other races will more or less stick together black people will build wealth for him/herself so he/she can "stunt" on other family or community memebers. Many African governments do this to their own people.
Where you find, for example - Indians or whites in foreign countries they band together and try to do what little they can for each other. They create and nurture a sense of community. They will employ each other and try as far as they can to encourage and in some instances force marrige within the community. Should the men/women lust after other races they will go about it quietly. They wont make actual songs and videos about it. Wont praise others at every turn.
I'm not saying other races are better or perfect. They have their own internal conflicts and issues. But they seem more "together".
The reason being they see themselves at the top or near the top of the "race totem pole". Some black people believe they are at the bottom and see no value in black unity. They think a non-black spouse/kids will raise their status/value. This will trickle down to a personal and family level.
The young black youth will think a win is shinny new things - cars, rims, jewellery, clothes that cost less than a dollar to manufacture but he/she will pay hundreds for or risk being 'lame' - consumerism - or a weave they will pay hudreds for which will have grown out of someone elses body when they can easily grow their own perfectly good hair. And the coup de grâce a nonblack "dime" on his/her arm. Whithout these other black people with a similar mindset will clown him/her for not having these.
They are a minority but tend to be the loudest so they seem like the majority.
There are a lot of black people and black families building.
Forget about having the "baddest bytch" or "swag" or whatever rather work for economic and political power. Jews are the textbook example.
yea but on a black forum dudes stay dissing their own women
nikkas are a joke
Men/women of other races who date/marry other races don't usually say degrading shyt about women of their own race out loud.
Some back men/women are more than willing to publicly say dumb shyt about black women/men.
I couldn't care less about the opinion of other races on black people. I am saddened by black people saying derogatory and untrue statements about black people. Coz that crap is heard by and internalized by black youth.
BLACK WOMEN:
"******s aint shyt",
"I want a "cute" lightskin biracial good hair baby". Some even resent biracial women or claim all 'beckys' are basic but they want to create the very biracial or white passing women they claim to hate but obviously secretly envy.
For some wierd stupid reason some black women genuinely belive non-black men are kinder, smarter, better providers and not abusive???
BLACK MEN:
"black women are ugly and angry esp the 'masculine' darkskin ones",
"I want lightskin good hair kids with green eyes if possible".
"women of other races are classier and more ladylike and treat a man better than these bitter black bytches - were you raised by a bitter black bytch?",
" I want a black woman who has nonblack ancestey and has white features big ass but light skin and good hair - basically the type of child he hopes to create with a nonblack woman"
Some black men spew a lot of hate about nonblack men but are desperate to create the very same biracial or white passing biracial men. Which shows that deep down they envy and want to be white men? So the next best thing is to create one.
Mind boggling.
values Which includes individualism, lust, greed, opulence, gluttony, ect. Not to mention Welfare and drugs which tore families up.
there's plenty of struggling brothers raising families. The fukk kind of c00nery is this?
funny thing is I wasn't lying though, I got homes out the pin married and all but not black men the black men single font have shyt I stand by that cuz I see it daily.