Defend folks who lack common sense and accountability....
"I stayed because I was embarrassed"
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Defend folks who lack common sense and accountability....
Cel 510 kid ados forever
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nikka every comment u ever make is criticizing men and defending women no matter what they do.
as a lightweight simp I'm embarrassed
The sad thing is that his type of shyt is prevalent. Anytime you speak against a female doing dumb shyt, which is showig love by being real you're labled as a "woman hater" I swear that these sucker ass nikkas and these rebellious ass females deserve each other.
people who don’t understand the psychological affects of abuse or refuse to try to understand the shouldn’t speak on abuse
abuse literally creates a psychological chemical addiction
Intermittent Reinforcement (Why You Can't Leave The Relationship)
abuse literally creates a psychological chemical addiction
Intermittent Reinforcement (Why You Can't Leave The Relationship)
Half of this board gets abused at their job every day and keeps showing up. The shyt ain’t that much different. It’s truly amazing what the human mind can rationalize and normalize if you give it enough time to adjust to it. This isn’t a woman thing, it’s literally human nature.
nikka every comment u ever make is criticizing men and defending women no matter what they do.
as a lightweight simp I'm embarrassed
These threads would be much less confusing to the uninitiated if you nikkas were actually honest about your contempt for women. Imagine coming to the coli which is a predominately Black male forum and selling the bullshyt idea that you're creating a thread to appeal to women who might end up in a dysfunctional relationship instead of appealing to the men who are the larger population of the forum.
The shyt is old, tired and transparent. This thread has nothing to do with saving women from themselves, it's a circle jerk meant to shyt on women while giving men a pass, when it's men that are actually beating these women's asses. If you find this to be a real problem, preach to the men of the coli.
It doesn't help ole girl any, she's ruined herself. But if we as a people stopped normalizing dysfunction and started ostracizing or at least calling those out who revel in it, it could prevent future genertions from going down bad paths.
This.
Speaking ill of the dead isn’t helping anyone, just makes you look like an a**hole. The fact that people think victim shaming helps anyone is mind boggling.
If you really wanted to help, you’d learn about battered woman syndrome as well as the societal structures in place that make it either 1) difficult for women to leave or 2) “embarrassed” to leave because of the messages that women receive regarding being at fault if their relationship fails.
speaking of accountability, maybe you should create a thread instructing your brothers to keep their hands to themselves and learn to walk away before things get physical and women won’t have an abusive man to keep running back to.
getting it started early. you nikkas really hate women
Don't hate women
But I do like accountable adults
You think shaming women, making mean threads and calling them names for staying in abisive relationships is going to help other women avoid them?
not in the fukking least. you have NO fukking clue. none, whatsoever.
MischievousMonkey
Gor bu dëgër
Pendulum will swing back anyway. They believe their biggest power is labels and that they can cast aside reason as long as they hammer their rhetoric vigorously enough. Sooner or later people will just stop giving a fukk about being called a name for having a rational opinion. The more ridiculous these types of public humiliation attempts get, the more the crowd will start to build an immunity to its power.
fukk all that shyt you're talking. If you're getting your ass beat and you stay you're stupid, or you like getting abused. The only people in those situation who'll get sympathy from me are the children who have no choice but to be there.
There's no need to shyt on the dude because everyone understands that he's a pos. No one has a problem calling out males for fukked up choices, but people like yourself and many others get up in arms about someone saying a female made a dumb choice. This shyt is sickening and sad, you're a part of the problem.
You lack empathy, got it.
You feel for the children but did you ever stop and think “hey, maybe these women were once those same children? surrounded by dysfunction? not loved properly?”
did that not cross your mind. no, because clearly you can’t separate how child hood trauma can carry over into adult. and it manifests in many fukking ways.
You don't understand the problem you're discussing if you've reached the conclusion that women are staying in these situations because they enjoy getting abused or "are stupid", which is exactly why you're unqualified to even discuss this in any meaningful way.
You have the reasoning level of a pre-teen and it's on full display. "well if I was in a relationship and getting my ass beat then I would leave, since women are staying they must be stupid or enjoy getting their ass beat".
do better, get off the internet and try to actually have discussions with women instead of trolling them about the abuse they've suffered at the hands of men.