No no no..
I'm saying if I'm talking to a woman, texting, whatever... I'm getting to know her before I'm out here blowing money. So by the time we are out and doing something, we've already had all sorts of talks. Sex being one of them. By then, I already know if we planning a long night (Ok so lets go get some food, dancing, then just get a hotel in the city so we don't have to drive)...... Or she ain't about that shyt (Nah boo. I need to be home by tonight. I got to pick my daughter up.)
But I'm never going in BLIND. I'm not just going to meet a girl Monday, ask her to go out Friday, and already blowing cash JUST to find out if I like her. That's what women don't get. "Oh you don't want to spend money on me" No, you're a fukking stranger. All I know at that point, is you look good, and you held down whatever conversation we had. I don't know if I want to spend 2 hours with you yet. And I'm surely not going to pay money to find out.
I'd rather meet a woman on Monday. Let her know I'll be busy the next week or two. And use that time to get to know her and feel her out. Then I know whether she's worth seeing if it continues in person. I don't always have to fukk. My point is, I will know if it's on the table, prior to me leaving that house. It's not going to be a letdown. But sometimes it's a surprise